The distance between a bowl of soup is the best way for parents and children to get along. Many people think so, and I think so too. With a bowl of soup, parents and children can take care of each other without disturbing their own lives. They have independent spaces and convenient to wave to each other. Especially when parents get older, this is indeed a good way.
Today I want to tell a story about the distance between a bowl of soup. This happened a long time ago. I occasionally remembered it today and saw someone on the Internet talking about the distance between a bowl of soup. I will talk to you.
There is a daughter living in the same compound as her parents, which is what is often called a bowl of soup. One day, the daughter stewed a pot of chicken soup and served a large bowl, asking her son to deliver it to her grandparents. The child brought the chicken soup to the door of his grandparents' house. No one agreed when knocking on the door. He thought that his grandfather was not at home and might have gone out to buy vegetables, so he put the chicken soup at his door. He thought to himself that he would see it when his grandfather came back. Maybe this was not the first time.
At that time, the weather was quite hot. A neighbor passed by the door and smelled a stinky smell. He opened the big bowl in front of the door and found that it was a bowl of chicken soup, which had an odd smell. The neighbor knocked on the door, and no one at home answered. The neighbor poured out the chicken soup, washed the big bowl and continued to put it in front of the door, but there was still a stinking smell. The neighbors found a way to find their daughter. The daughter opened the door and found that both parents had passed away and her body was already smelling foul.
Mother was lying on the bed, and his father fell on the ground in front of the bed. My mother was paralyzed and bedridden, and it was her father who was taking care of her. After the investigation and analysis, it was the father who fell to the bed after a sudden illness, but his mother could not move. At that time, there should be only landlines in the house, and the mother could not call his daughter. In other words, the father died of sudden illness, and the mother starved to death. This is really a tragedy on earth and shouldn't have happened. Sometimes it is difficult to avoid my father's sudden illness. Even if you live with your children, or go to your parents' house every day, you cannot stay by your father's side 24 hours a day. You have to live and work and go out to handle other things. In daily life, there have been incidents where family members are there and there is no time to rescue them, but the daughter is more concerned, so that the mother will not starve to death, nor will the parents' bodies be smelly.
This is also the distance between a bowl of soup.
This daughter happened to have some things during that time. She didn't go to her parents' house for several days. She should still be uneasy. It is understandable that she can't go there, but at least she can call and greet her. If she hasn't answered the phone, her daughter should go over and take a look.
Many years ago, my son called my parents, but no one answered. My son called me and said that my grandparents had gone out? I said no, I called them half an hour ago. I told my son that I would call again, but no one answered the phone. I quickly put down what I had and went to my parents' house. They were at home, but I didn't hear the phone call.
One night I called them, but no one answered. I thought they should be at home at this time, and probably didn't hear it, but I was still worried, so I hurried over and took a look.
Later, a surveillance was installed in my parents' home, and the surveillance was also shared with my wife, younger brothers and sisters, and people would watch it every day. Some people are busy, but there is always some people have time. I also go over and take a look almost every day.
Even if the distance between a bowl of soup, children must be kind, otherwise the distance between a bowl of soup will be very far.
I also heard some old people say that their children are not far from them. Some may be several kilometers apart, and some may even be hundreds of meters apart. They can't see their children in one or two months, or they can't receive a call from their children for several months. What is the effect of a bowl of soup like this?
No matter how far or near the distance, care for filial piety is the first priority. No matter how far apart you have filial piety is, no matter how far you have, no matter how close you are, no matter how far you have.
This is the distance between a bowl of soup that can be achieved, and many of us parents now cannot get a bowl of soup from their children at all. My classmates, my friends and people around us, and many of our children are not around, which is the so-called empty-nest elderly . The distance between them and children is hundreds, thousands, and tens of thousands of bowls of soup. What should parents do? You can’t let your child give up his life, his career, his family, and return to you because of the distance of a bowl of soup, right?
Some people say that it is sometimes unrealistic to go to your child to buy a small house, or a house. Buying a house is not a big problem for good economic conditions, but for most people it is a problem. If your child is in a first-tier city, even if he buys a very small house, it will require a lot of money. Moreover, for most elderly people, it is difficult to get away from his hometown. When he gets older, he will also have many discomforts. There are also social security, medical insurance, special diseases reimbursement, etc., and there are also many troubles when he goes to another place. Maybe he is already an elderly person, and he has an elderly person
Fortunately, with the development of technology and technology, it is not a distance between a bowl of soup. Children can also pay attention to their parents, such as contacting their parents more videos, installing monitoring, and knowing their parents' dynamics and basic living conditions at any time.
Once saw a story where a child found something strange about his father's body from the surveillance camera and immediately hit his father's local 120. The child was very careful. He gave the keys to his house to a friend not far from his father. While he was calling 120, he notified his friend and hurried to his house to open the door. Save his father's life in time.
The key problem is not whether it is a bowl of soup, but whether the child is determined. If you have a heart, even if it is not the distance between a bowl of soup, it is closer than a bowl of soup. Without a heart, the distance between a bowl of soup may be even 100,000 miles apart.
It is really difficult for our generation of only children to get a bowl of soup. In the past, there were many children, and some were from other places, and there might be one around. Nowadays, a child cannot sacrifice his or her life and family to be with his or her parents. The child should be more attentive. Technology can make the distance less far.
As parents, we always hope that our children will fly higher, farther and have a better future, not just our elderly care tools. We don’t have to worry about whether it is the same distance as our children.
