As a way to express love, kissing is the most expressing emotion. But why did the middle-aged couple who were in the second half of the marriage refuse? Those who have experienced it will tell you what you think:
Ms. Zhang: I am not healthy, I don’t have this idea
The hole in my house is like a poisonous gas bomb. I can smell the pungent smell a few meters away. How can I have any thoughts?
As we grow older, middle-aged people's figures are also distorted. Obesity, indigestion, teeth, oral problems will make the body no longer healthy, and will naturally reject each other and lose the mystery of the past, so there is no need to "kiss".
Ms. Qin: Family affection replaces love, life becomes ordinary
There is no love at all, but it is more of a replacement for family affection. There are a lot of trivial matters every day, and there is no leisure and elegance to think about those things, just make do with it. You said, under such circumstances, how could I have that thought? There is no fresh feeling, nor will it look forward to it, it doesn’t matter whether you are kinship or not.
In life, there are many couples who are not in love very much because some trivial things often cause quarrels or even quarrels. They are together more because of their kinship responsibilities.
Mr. Zhao: I haven't called her wife for 20 years
When I was young, I would call her wife, but after I was in my 40s, I wouldn't call that anymore. I still have children at home, and I would also make a fuss when calling her children. When I go out, you are a middle-aged couple, the name of your husband and wife is really embarrassing.
When middle age, the expression of love becomes more and more implicit. Over time, no desire is gone.
The mentality of middle-aged couples is actually more important. You can boldly continue to be young, or you can calmly accept days without kisses.
