Yang Jiang once said: "Life is half fireworks, half joy; life is half sober, half relieved."
Who says it is not?
Indeed, we are not thinking about "nothing can't be overcome" and persevering half of the time; hoping that "will get better" and persevering half of the time.
"Half-Half Song" says: "It's just right to drink half-hearted, and the flowers are beautiful when they bloom half-hearted."
The world is half full, and it can often create a beautiful state.
Life is half sweet and half bitter. The greatest soberness of adults is to understand the wisdom of "half" of life.
Half is persistent, half is put down
I have heard of this story:
The rose has withered, and the bee still sucked desperately because it has sucked sweetness from this flower before.
However, on this flower, the bees insist on sucking poison juice.
poison juice is bitter, and the bee is angry. Every time it takes a sip, it looks up and complains to the world, why has the taste changed?
Finally one day, the bee vibrated its wings and flew high.
At this time, it found that flowers were everywhere around the withered roses.
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Things are still like this, how can people bear it?
When will you put it down, you can easily and easily find the real exit.
Yang Zhenning has made great contributions to theoretical physics and has become the pride of Chinese people.
In his early years, when he was studying at University of Chicago, he admitted that he did not have the talent of others in his experiments.
The experimental instrument failed. Others rely on intuition and could quickly find the cause, but he was so anxious that he was sweating and helpless.
Because of his inferior hands-on ability, a joke circulated in the laboratory: "Where there is an explosion, there is Yang Zhenning."
Yang Zhenning thought hard. He was clearly aware that other people's success cannot be copied. He was quick to think and was clumsy to do anything. If he blindly engages in experimental physics, he may do nothing in his life.
He saw his pros and cons clearly, resolutely put down experimental physics, and devoted himself to the research of theoretical physics. After repositioning, Yang Zhenning won the Nobel Prize in Physics .
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Just as Liu Tong said: "Only you can accept it."
Let go of it soberly, accepting more real people and things, which is better than 100% blind persistence.
very much agrees with Bai Luomei’s words:
"Prespect yourself to be sober and be calm and self-sustaining, so that you can better let go of your obsession, make your unwillingness, become your willingness to let go; make your unhappy become happy; and make nothing more than to have nothing."
Letting go does not mean giving up, it means that your heart will not be burdened and reshape yourself; letting go is not losing, it means that your heart has gained something and find yourself.
It is difficult to stick to it, but sometimes it is even more difficult to let go.
A mature adults is not only about perseverance, but also about knowing how to let go.
Half persistence is to take the initiative to fight; half of it is to let go, to accept and restart.
half is straight, half is turning
Cai Kangyong in " Weird Talk " said: "When your mind is stuck, you have to turn."
Life journey is like a one-way ticket, you can't go back but you can turn.
At the end of the Ming and early Qing dynasties, Pu Songling was born in a scholarly family.
9 years old, he won the first place in the county, prefecture and road.
In the next 50 years, he took several exams in a row, but failed to achieve fame and was always a sour scholar.
As his family fell, he could only teach a private school in a wealthy family. As for the scientific examination, he has taken it lightly. After
, Pu Songling began to travel to villages and collect folk stories.
This is not enough. He simply set up a tea stall on the roadside at his doorstep, invites people passing by to drink tea, and uses stories as tea money.
In fact, since he was a child, he not only liked to collect ghost stories, but also had the habit of listening and remembering.
Many friends know his hobbies and specially collect ghost stories from all over the world to send them to him.
After years of collection and sorting, Pu Songling wrote "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio".
Bizarre stories, beautiful love, and yearning for life are all in the book, which makes future generations praise after reading it.
Pu Songling almost never traveled far in her life. She was just a poor scholar who taught, but she has been famous for her "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio".
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It is precisely because, no matter how ordinary life is, you will know how to turn, and there will be endless possibilities.
Writer Liu Tong said: "Everywhere in life is not a place to turn. But fortunately, we can continue to walk."
Have you ever thought that some things go against your wishes. It is not that God intentionally makes things difficult for you, but that you remind you that you should turn in the right place.
Li Wei, who was once a gold digger, got nothing to find gold diggers. Because of his transformation of work pants, he became the "jeans king";
plays the actor Christopher in "Superman". He was very popular, but fell off his horse and was paralyzed at a high position. He turned around and tried to write and became a director.
In fact, the tortuous and twists and turns on the road of life have not been bypassed by anyone.
Sa Beining in "The Starting Talk" said: "What makes you feel most happy in life may not necessarily be the straight road to heaven, but a winding but full of scenery."
Knowing how to turn, the road becomes wider and wider, which is a kind of soberness; accepting detours and seeing twists and turns as scenery is even more wisdom.
The mountain cannot turn, the road can turn; when the road does not turn, the heart can turn.
In this world, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, only a bend that cannot be turned.
The turning point of life is the milestone of progress.
half is on the road, and half is stopping
Netizen Manman shared her experience.
Her mentor, who was still posting documents in the group at 1 a.m., can call herself to modify the paper at 7 a.m.
Her roommate, even though he went to bed at 1 a.m., still couldn't move in the morning and left at 7 a.m.
When I was studying for graduate school, I also insisted on going to bed at one or two o'clock in the morning.
As always after working, I achieved some results, but I also started to suffer from insomnia until the second half of the night, and I was very out of shape the next day. Later, my body gradually couldn't bear it, and I had a headache and fever at any time, so I had to go to the hospital.
The doctor told her that if she forced herself to get up at 5 o'clock and yawn until noon, it would be better to sleep until 7 o'clock, which would be more efficient than 2 hours earlier.
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Man starts to adjust the work and rest, starting from having a full sleep. More importantly, when doing things, you focus on the present, think as you read books, study and plan when you follow the projects, feel the strength of the toothbrush when you brush your teeth, and feel the friction of the foam when you wash your face, so that your brain always focuses on one thing.
When it is on a break, try to change the content of the activity, learn to sing a song, study a dish, or write a diary.
After half a year, my mind is much clearer and no longer goes to the hospital often. My work efficiency is improved and my life is more fun.
From then on, "sprint to hurry + stop and rest" mode has straightened out the long rhythm of work and life.
Sidney said: "When you don't have time to rest, it's time for you to rest."
is the norm to hurry up, but to stop and know how to accumulate energy for yourself is a good state of progress.
I wonder if you have ever felt this way: eating and drinking during the long holiday, watching TV series on your phone, rushing to a banquet, and even sleeping in the dark. Unexpectedly, the holiday was obviously a day off, but it was more tiring than usual to go to work.
However, there are some people around you who are always energetic, just like Manman's mentors and roommates.
The reason why you are still very tired when you rest is likely to be ineffective; while those with high energy are resting efficiently.
Efficient rest is a real accumulation of energy. It is not just about restoring physical strength, but more importantly, it is about relaxing energy, such as having a good night's sleep and having a conversation with nature.
Starlight will not disappoint those who are rushing to the road, nor will it disappoint those who know how to stop and accumulate energy.
Stop is a pause of wisdom and a wise accumulation of energy.
Life is long, don’t just focus on rushing, accumulate your energy and energy, and you will have full happiness and expectations again.
The famous psychologist Ellis said: "The best time in life is when you realize that all your problems are born from you."
Those happy people do not have everything, but understand clearly and grasp the gifts of life.
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In this world, all processes and results are essentially our game with ourselves.
When it’s time to put it down, don’t be too obsessed;
When it’s time to turn, don’t go alone;
When it’s time to stop, please put it away in a hurry.
Life is just like this, good and bad alternate day and night , with mixed joys and sorrows.
For the rest of your life, I wish you half open and half close, half closed and half open, and live every dancing day.
