meeting became a blind date meeting
A day in late winter, the district Youth League Committee notified that the meeting will be held at the city hotel the next day. I am used to taking a shower in the morning, so I started on the road without drying my hair in a hurry. It was snowy and snowy, more than 20 degrees below zero, and snowflakes were flying in the sky, and people couldn't open their eyes. I rode the 28-year-old cart and walked with difficulty, but I was still late.
My city trade union chairman, Sister Gu, is just a working relationship between superiors and subordinates, and I dare not rush to the top in private. My identity is just an ordinary cadre from the grassroots party and the masses, but she greets her at the door and feels flattered.
She changed her previous serious face, smiled all over her face, and reached out to help me bounce the snowflakes on her body. Only then did I realize that my two braids, long waist-length, had frozen into two straight "popsicles", and the hot waves were invisible. The hat on her head was covered with white frost and she was wearing a thick cotton coat, which looked particularly bloated, and she looked like a village girl.
When I heard that it was a youth association with municipalities directly under the central government, I was stunned! I thought to myself: My outfit is too unsightly. As such a large-scale friendship activity, it is indispensable for men and women to interact with each other. As usual, I have to dance social dance . Thinking of this: I was a little embarrassed in an instant.
Seeing this, Sister Gu immediately explained: Let me tell you the truth. I am optimistic about a young man who is a member of this friendship activity. Next is a series of praises! Finally, I said: I am afraid that you will refuse, so I will give you a favor with the reputation of the meeting. When I heard that I was from another province and city, I was even less interested because I didn’t want to marry far away. I wanted to refuse at that time, but I wanted to say no! I asked myself silently: What kind of virtue is my worthy of the leadership? Thinking of this, I really couldn't bear to refuse immediately! So, out of gratitude and cater to the heart of my heart, I readily agreed to meet.
Blind date experience: Because of each of my confidants, the blind date is less than ten minutes
Hotel golden hall shines brightly! After waiting for a long time, he slowly walked down the ladder. A beautiful and sunny boy, when he asked for good things, I was shocked. How could it be him?
Thousand miles away, but there is a fate that is one by one
This is a fate that passes by on the road. Just a few days ago, on the way off work, I met a group of people wearing very thin clothes, curled up in their bodies, walking and chatting while walking, talking in different dialects. They saw that they were not natives from Northeast China, and just passed by him. Because of curiosity, I took a look. So, I have an impression of him. The first time was unexpected.
Because I had my own confidants, I was trying to cater to him, and he was persuaded by the leader of the team and didn't want to see me. He said: The conditions are not right. So, we had this meeting on the spot, which was the second meeting. So, the meeting ended in about ten minutes, and afterwards, I politely declined through Sister Gu!
Result: God's blessing, and according to God's will
A few days later, the unit secretary came to me and said that I was sent on the toll, but the superior asked me to go by, and I happily accepted it. Through the preparatory meeting, we learned that it was a friendship activity with other provinces and cities. Since it was a midnight train, we checked into the city hotel in advance. The scene of
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We young people from both places visited and studied together, and I had substantial contact with him. Until the night before the agenda ended and he expressed his affection for me. If you think about it carefully, the three encounters with him were arranged step by step by step by step by step by heaven, which can be said to be a wonderful fate! That is, the fate of the right time, place, and people. After
, I was thousands of miles apart from him, and my beauty conveyed love and wrote the hearts of the brocade. A year later, he and I entered the marriage hall!
Marriage insights: Believe in fate, the standard of choosing the best is just a blank check
Before marriage, I always thought that the standards for choosing a spouse were not high, but it was difficult to find a suitable person, and I didn’t want to lower the standards.In fact, the criteria for choosing friends are a good expectation for marriage. If you really use the standards to find a partner, the success rate may be too low. Therefore, the standards for choosing a spouse are not static, nor are they very specific. Just like when I didn’t want to marry far away, but when I got married far away, I didn’t want to marry someone with the same attributes, but when I met him with the same attributes... In the end, I found that as long as the fate came, the standards for choosing a spouse would be a blank check.
I am a woman Youlan. Although my blind date experience is an isolated case, how many people can realize their pre-marital wishes among their partners in life? Therefore, the standards for choosing a partner should not be too dogmatic or too harsh, otherwise you will miss a good marriage! What is said above
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November 2, 2022
