Zhang Ailing said that if you like someone, you will be humble to the dust. Because you like it, it is abnormal, and because you love it, you are inferior. You always want to give him the best, and you always feel that you are not good enough, thinking that this is love.
But when you have made your wholehearted efforts, the person you have always been loved has begun to constantly pick on. Because you subconsciously praise him too high, you will feel more and more that you are worthless, as if you can't do anything well, and you may even feel that you are not worthy of that person. Is it that difficult to like
? Actually, there is no, it’s just that you take it for granted.
01. If the person you like does not reply to your message
If the person you like does not reply to your message, then don’t. Reject three times and skip directly. Have you ever had such an experience, sending messages to people you like, but you can't wait for his reply, which is undoubtedly a sign of humility.
You have been waiting all day and waiting all day, and there are ten thousand kinds of things in your head. Why are he doing and why doesn’t he reply to my message? What he received was repeated disappointment, even his updated circle of friends. It’s not like this. He doesn’t like you, but he doesn’t like you.
How could a person who truly cares about you, let you wait next to your phone for centuries and centuries, let your heart die again and again in a trace of longing.
The person who truly loves you will come to you after you finish your work, for fear that you will think randomly while he is away. Although some people think this is troublesome, I really think this is what I love you.
02. Don’t like someone because of chatting
Never like someone through chatting. Maybe you think those "you say and I say" are proof of love, but for him, maybe chatting with you is just because he is bored. Through the mobile phone screen, what you think is more about your wishful thinking.
Muxin said in "Slow Once Upon a Time": "The sunshine in the past has become slow, and cars and horses are slow, and I only love one person in my life." But what I prefer is the following sentence: "The locks in the past are also beautiful, and the keys are exquisite and beautiful. If you lock them, they will understand."
But it is not the case now. There are many social software now, and there are many ways to meet. Everyone can disguise themselves. If you want to be sincere and not let down, don’t take everything seriously.
In this kind of love era, blind liking will only seriously hurt yourself.
03. If you like it, go after
If you like it, you can't hide it. If you like it, you like it. If you hate it, you hate it. There is no need to escape, suspicion, compromise, and hide. Loving someone is not a bad thing. If you like it, go after it. What if he is blind, what if he likes you too.
What you need to do is to keep yourself in the best state and stand in front of the other side, give yourself a chance to pursue, and an opportunity to leave no regrets in life.
people don’t need to be right all the time, nor do they just want to win the results. We are not living for everyone’s recognition. Even if the result is really not together, you don’t have to be too sad. If you work hard until you can’t do anything, just let it go.
If you like it, go chase it and see it if you want to. A person’s life is so short, why not follow your own feelings, do what you want to do, and spend your life in the way you like.
