A netizen is about to get engaged, but hesitated and wants to listen to his opinions. She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years and is already talking about marriage. Good relationships, three views, treat her sincerely and cherish her. In terms of economic conditio

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A netizen is about to get engaged, but hesitated and wants to listen to his opinions.

She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years and is already talking about marriage.

Good relationship, three views, treat her sincerely and cherish her.

In terms of economic conditions, the two families are similar, each with two houses.

The boyfriend bought a wedding house in his city and wrote the names of the two.

My boyfriend earned millions of dollars in starting a business. Because he needed working capital, he borrowed more than one million yuan from the house.

A netizen is about to get engaged, but hesitated and wants to listen to his opinions. She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years and is already talking about marriage. Good relationships, three views, treat her sincerely and cherish her. In terms of economic conditio - DayDayNews

, the two cities are 80 kilometers apart, an hour and a half drive away.

Family relationship, she felt that her mother-in-law had a strong personality and favored boys over girls, which was a bit difficult to get along with.

Her worry is that she will have to change jobs to the city where her boyfriend is located in the future, and she is a little reluctant to part with her parents.

The boyfriend said that he would buy her parents an apartment in the future to facilitate their passage, but she was not sure about her future financial ability and was afraid that her parents would not be used to changing places.

If she changes her boyfriend, she will be 27 years old and is afraid that she will not find a more suitable one if she loses this. The only thing she can be sure of is that she may find someone close to home. I can actually understand the psychology of

. I am also the kind of person who is reluctant to part with my parents.

Once upon a time I went away for love, but later I came back desperately.

Come back, even if you are a little poor, it is good to be together and meet frequently.

So in order to be with your parents and want to change your boyfriend, you can feel that kind of hesitation.

But the distance is less than a hundred miles, which is actually not far.

so it can be overcome or overcome and reconciled. When

A netizen is about to get engaged, but hesitated and wants to listen to his opinions. She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years and is already talking about marriage. Good relationships, three views, treat her sincerely and cherish her. In terms of economic conditio - DayDayNews

, there are too many external problems with , so you can first put aside all external conditions and just look at the object itself.

For example, what is the character of others? Do you have three views and yourself? Is your personality good?

Is it true love for yourself? Kind? Are you motivated? Are you hardworking, down-to-earth and reliable? If all these premises are available, other practical problems can be solved.

After all, if he really loves you, he can discuss things when he has something, and he will consider your emotions, your wishes and feelings.

So, How much love he loves you is the focus of facing real problems in the future.

It is also very important to be how reliable others are.

If he is a straightforward person, then even if he changes his mind in the future, or his family is not good to you, it will not turn against you.

Finding a partner like this is actually a guarantee.

Secondly, does your hesitation mean that you don’t love him enough?

or you are rational and sober enough, so you are considering more comprehensive practical issues.

It seems that your biggest trouble is that you are 80 kilometers apart. This is so close to someone like me who is 500 kilometers apart from my husband.

is actually not a big problem. Even if you don’t want to drive, it doesn’t have much trouble when you take the bus.

Another trouble is that the mother-in-law is difficult to get along with. This problem depends on whether your husband listens to everything. If that is the case, you can indeed hesitate. If he also has his own opinions and is just filial, there is no problem.

Mother-in-law can avoid it, or she can face and resolve it with a positive attitude.

As long as you feel that you will not be unreasonable when encountering problems, he will not stand on his mother's side without saying anything, and just be reasonable.

In addition, if you really don’t want to live there, you can ask him if he can live there at your place.

If he loves you enough, he will also consider this kind of problem.

A netizen is about to get engaged, but hesitated and wants to listen to his opinions. She has been in love with her boyfriend for three years and is already talking about marriage. Good relationships, three views, treat her sincerely and cherish her. In terms of economic conditio - DayDayNews

In short, life is a choice and choice one by one.

You can't be perfect, you can only choose the aspects you care about the most.

Then accept the parts you are not very satisfied with, and then find a way to coordinate these dissatisfactions.

or consider the problem from a different perspective, so as to truly accept the problems that bother you.

Because things often have multiple aspects, things you think are bad or may look at from another perspective are good things again.

And everything is changing, it is difficult for you to control external changes. You can only constantly adjust your inner feelings and thinking, as well as your views on things and people.

Use a gentle, compassionate, full of hope and heart to face all troubles, and perhaps the problem will be easier to solve.

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