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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Rao Xueman said: "Love right is love, love wrong is youth."
Every woman will experience a heart-wrenching love, feel the beauty of love, and bear the scars of breaking up.
However, women will always learn to grow from failed love, and learn how to love, becoming more rational.
Therefore, women always think about the man who taught her to grow up and cannot be involved in their whole life.
Many women will learn to let go after experiencing painful love, but no matter how they do, they cannot let go of their ex so freely.
In their love or marriage, they will always suddenly think of their ex and recall the past at an unintentional moment.
It’s not that they want to get back with their ex, but that they feel the time they spend, which really makes them from being arrogant to becoming mature women.
Therefore, women’s feelings for their ex are very special. Even if they break up, they often cannot give up.
After all, there are three main reasons why women cannot forget their ex, which is very realistic.
1. The time of falling in love with your ex is the most beautiful yearning for women
The main reason why women cannot let go of their ex is that they have left too many beautiful memories in the past love time, which is the most beautiful yearning for women.
Therefore, even if they are separated from their ex, they will not forget so quickly. After all, the relationship between carries all the women's longing for love.
For women, they can't bear to let go and cannot truly let go. They loved each other infatuatedly and could not let go just by saying that.
Even if women meet men who love them more, it is difficult for them to let go of their past. Those love experiences with their ex are already unforgettable.
Possibly, in life, women will often think of past love, and even compare with the current love, which has both a bit of comfort and a bit of longing.
In this case, if a woman accidentally meets her ex, it is easy to get in touch and the relationship may be constantly involved.
In fact, many women have the experience of not being able to love. They are always unwilling to their ex, but they have to accept the fact that they break up.
If we meet each other many years later, we will definitely breed a certain feeling. The two parties have not forgotten it, which provides prerequisites for future contact.
At this time, if the ex is a little more proactive, the woman will naturally be unable to refuse, and the relationship will gradually be established.
Of course, women may not reunite with their ex, but both parties have a strong foundation of relationships and reconnection, which is very natural.
In reality, many women still retain their ex-contact information even when they are in love or get married, and still chat with each other if they have something to do. This is evidence that they can't let go.
shows that although a woman will maintain a certain sense of proportion when dating her ex, will not squeeze out her ex in her heart, and will always leave a place for him . This is why both parties will contact each other.
2. I once paid too much and was unwilling to accept it in my heart
If a woman paid too much when she fell in love with her ex, she would be unwilling to accept it, especially after both parties waved goodbye, it would be even more difficult to let go.
In the eyes of women, I have given my youth and feelings, but I have not received the care of the man. Instead, I have suffered a lot of physical and mental harm, and I feel so unwilling.
Especially the woman devoted her true love to her ex and thought she would marry him. Later, the two broke up due to realistic reasons, which would leave too many regrets for the woman.
Many times, they will think, if they persisted and if neither of them mentioned breaking up, would there be a bright future?
Thinking of this, women are very reluctant to part with and are unwilling to accept it. They always feel that ending their relationship is too hasty.
In this case, once a woman has contact with her ex, she will naturally be moved, and she even looks forward to whether the two will reunite their relationship.
If women are still single, they will definitely keep contacting their ex, hoping to make up for their inner regrets.
When you are not rejected from dating, women will definitely extend an olive branch, the distance between the two parties will get closer and closer, and the relationship will become closer and closer.
However, if a woman has a new love or is already married, they may not accept their ex, but having a certain connection with her ex is still inevitable.
Because, in the eyes of women, the ex is a beam of light in the heart, always embellished with memories, making those passing time better.
They put it down on the surface, but they couldn't let it go in their hearts. The more unwilling is, the easier it is to contact their ex secretly with their ex .
3. I can’t forget it in my heart. This is a woman’s weakness
No matter what kind of woman, I can’t really forget my ex. It can be said that the ex is the white moonlight in a woman’s heart.
That relationship is the beginning of a woman entering a ignorant love. It is very pure and sincere.
At that time, women were still young girls, very immature and did not have much experience. When they were in love, they were immersed in romantic time and were already unforgettable.
Therefore, no matter what the woman’s later relationship is, it is impossible to truly forget her ex, and she will always think of her inadvertently.
In fact, no matter whether women are beautiful or painful in their past love, they cannot forget that time.
If love is beautiful and both parties break up under the pressure of reality, women will miss their past love even more.
If love is painful and is let down and hurt by her ex, women will also leave deep memories, because it was that scarred love that taught her to grow.
So, I can’t forget my ex in my heart, it’s almost a woman’s weakness in love.
In their future relationships, they may force themselves to let go, but they cannot let go of themselves in their hearts and can't help but touch the past time.
Whenever they recall the past, they will think of those beautiful moments, either sweet, happy, or emotional.
Therefore, when you find that a woman is always sentimental and likes to be silently dazed at home, it may be that she is recalling her past love.
Those who stay in their hearts, whether they bring them good or leave too much harm, will keep them in touch.
When one day, women may be able to truly untie their knots by the men around them. Then, they will completely say goodbye to their ex in their hearts.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Shakyamuni said: "No matter who you meet, he is the person that should appear in your life. It is not a coincidence. He will definitely teach you something."
Indeed, all exes have the meaning of existence, and those lost loves will always teach women to learn to grow.
From this perspective, the ex is also the beginning of leading women to truly mature, making them more rational and more indifferent in their future love.
So, even if a woman breaks up, she can’t forget her ex. The reason is nothing more than these three:
The love time with her ex is the most beautiful yearning for women; she has given too much and was unwilling to accept it; she can’t forget it in her heart, this is a woman’s weakness.
For women, it takes a process to truly forget someone, and they can only let go of it little by little as time passes.
After all, it is difficult to love someone, but it is even more difficult to forget someone. This just shows the sincerity and firmness of a woman in dealing with her feelings.
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