The flowers that are picked are not fragrant, and the melon that is twisted is not sweet! Some things should be let nature be and cannot be forced. Even if there is only feelings between husband and wife but cannot understand each other, problems are easily arisen, because the family environment is also an important factor!
Men and women are normal marriage methods, and they are also the most easily accepted way of marriage. However, there are also opposites. For example, families with only daughters at home or only children may recruit son-in-laws in order to support their elderly care and inherit the family business, which is to let men get into the family!
It is difficult to be a son-in-law when he comes to the door. This is a fact that everyone recognizes!
Someone witnessed this scene in the square of Qing'an Railway Station . A woman held a man and refused to let the man get on the bus. In places like the station, this kind of scene is often staged. After all, it is the main place for parting and reunion, because the station is the place for parting and going home!
The difference between this man and others is that he is a son-in-law. Because he has a bad relationship with his mother-in-law, his mother-in-law dislikes the man's family situation and says that his son-in-law is lazy, so he said anger and let the son-in-law leave the house with nothing. The man felt that he still had some backbone, so he pulled his luggage and really wanted to "return to his parents' home". Later, his wife rushed to the station, and the woman grabbed her husband and refused to leave
The son-in-law was kicked out of the house by his mother-in-law and wanted to "return to his mother's house". The wife tried to keep her: You leave a breath, my mother said that you are not good at eating and lazy, so you can achieve some results. Don't just lie down on your parents in vain, so they dare not underestimate you. I also feel proud of
The husband said, "I am enjoying my life when I come to your house, otherwise who would want to go back to the door? I have a reputation for eating soft food on my back. If I work hard, then What else is the meaning? The son-in-law who comes to the house is the one who gets married and should not support the family. This is the real soft food. "
The woman has been stopping her husband and wants to keep her husband. At least the family cannot be separated. However, the man has decided to leave and must leave. He told his wife that he can't stand the mother-in-law's picky attitude and he doesn't owe anything to his mother-in-law. Although he is a son-in-law who interferes in the family, he is also a man and needs face. The mother-in-law cannot bully the son-in-law.
The man became more and more aggrieved the more he spoke. He felt that his wife did not understand him. He even said to his wife, "If you really love me, just go with me. There is really no freedom at home. Why not go to my house and live together and stay away from her mother-in-law."
The wife expressed disagreement because she is the only daughter and is responsible for supporting her parents. Although her parents are not short of money, they need someone to take care of her when they are old! In the end, the two disagree. The husband went straight to the station and returned to his parents' home. His wife cried outside for a long time!
When netizens saw this scene, they felt that this man was ungrateful and had no patience. No matter how ambition you are, you are just a son-in-law. Don’t act like a son-in-law. Mother-in-law doesn’t eat this set.
Author’s point of view:
High man is determined and cannot go into the door for the sake of a soft meal. Whether it is for love or for less struggle for 20 years, don’t be wronged. Sometimes a wrong decision will It delays your life
Life is short, don’t bet your whole life for a temporary relaxation. This is not a good deal. After all, the rumors about being a son-in-law are not a pain that ordinary people can bear, because people’s words are terrifying, and other people’s fingers will make people uncomfortable
If you really want to be a son-in-law, then do what your son-in-law should do, don’t really rely on your parents, and if you want to have a say in front of your mother-in-law, then you should show some real skills. Men should be ambitious and not really lazy, otherwise they will be looked down upon everywhere!
