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Buddhism says: "All things are empty, cause and effect are not empty. Those who sow the cause must eat the fruit."
The fruit of autumn comes from the sweat of spring, and the fallen leaves in winter are the destination of a cycle of reincarnation.
In this world, no creature can escape the cycle of cause and effect, and naturally, humans also include.
I didn’t understand it when I was young, and I always thought that cause and effect reincarnation was a superstitious saying. When I was old, I realized that "cause and effect" was the best interpretation of life.
It is not superstition, but its own choice.
"Family" has cause and effect
I read this sentence in a book a long time ago: "The friendship between people does not depend on blood, but mainly on feelings."
If you treat me well, I will treat you well; if you hate me behind your back, I will disgust you in front of you.
Everything unexpected is reasonable. Any relationship has causality and no exceptions.
. First, "father kind" can be "son filial"
Some time ago, when I went to the hospital to visit a sick friend, I saw two completely opposite cases.
An old man was seriously ill and bedridden. His daughter took care of him in an endless manner, fed him food and water, and never slacked off in taking shit and urine.
Because of the illness, he occasionally gets angry with a child, and his daughter has been coaxing him patiently.
Another old man was also seriously ill, but only his wife was not in good health. After asking, he found out that his son and daughter were unwilling to come to see him.
During the chat, I learned that the first old man treated his children very well, treated them equally, and never biased. Even his property was divided fairly, so the relationship between the siblings has always been very good.
This time my younger brother was on a business trip, and my sister took on the responsibility of taking care of her father alone.
The second old man prefers boys over girls, and he used to do things to cheat his daughter and supplement his son.
Now that I am sick, my daughter holds a grudge against him and doesn't want to see him; my son is spoiled and doesn't want to take responsibility.
Although the relationship between parents and children is innate, it requires acquired "cultivation", and the result will be born.
Parents know how to love their children and be able to treat them equally can create a happy situation where father, son, son, son, and brothers and sisters are harmonious.
But if parents do not fulfill their corresponding responsibilities, do not let their children feel warm, and even do many disappointing things, their family is destined to be a mess.
2. The "mutual support" of teenagers can only be exchanged for "old companionship"
I once saw a news online: An elderly husband suffers from cancer and not only needs people to take care of, but also needs a lot of money to treat.
But her wife's attitude was very cold. She insisted on not paying a penny and refused to go and take care of her.
Later I learned that the couple had always adhered to the AA system, and even during the wife's pregnancy and childbirth, the husband would never give in.
Military relationship is a practice. You must water and care as carefully as growing flowers and plants, so that you can cultivate an old companion who will never leave you.
Otherwise, they will not support each other even if they are together until old age, and they will not be able to share good and bad fortune.
"The rich and the poor" has cause and effect
There is a saying among the people: "Life and death have fate, wealth and honor are in heaven."
The implication is that all the wealth and poverty in a person's life are determined by fate.
In fact, this is just a word of self-comfort. To put it bluntly, this is still an act of evading responsibility.
Whether a person is poor or rich, it depends on his previous choices and practices. The theory of fate is purely absurd.
. Level of effort
Einstein once said: "Genius equals 1% talent, plus 99% effort."
This shows the importance of effort to a person.
The hardworking a person is, the wider his future path will be and the better his life will be.
The same is true. A person who is lazy, unprofitable, and afraid of hard work is destined to be poor even when he is in his thirties or forties.
2. Grasp the opportunity
People have many opportunities in their lives. At the beginning, we can turn over through studying, but later we need to seize the opportunity of employment, and then we will face many choices.
The most successful entrepreneurs at the moment have seized the best opportunity, so they can create their current career.
There are not many opportunities for people to use to change their destiny in their lives. Only by trying hard to seize them can they have the possibility of turning over.
Otherwise, I can only spend my whole life in mediocrity.
3. The IQ is high or low
Whether you admit it or not, the gap between people is quite big.
Some people are born smart and can achieve twice the result with half the effort when doing anything. They can avoid many detours; while some people have mediocre qualifications and are difficult to succeed in doing anything, and they are destined to become ordinary people.
No one will succeed for no reason, and no one will be poor for no reason. Sometimes talent is also very important.
"Good and bad luck" has cause and effect
I once saw a news online: an old man accidentally scattered an apple all over the floor while crossing the street. The couple who was quarreling next to him stopped and walked over to help him. At this moment, a billboard landed from a high place, and just hit the position where the couple quarreled.
They escaped because they helped the elderly. It was their kindness that saved them.
If they are indifferent to the elderly, it will be another ending.
Zhu Xi wrote in "The Collection of Four Books: Mencius' Notes": "Whether good and bad come is what comes by oneself."
implied that a person's good and bad fortune is brought by himself.
Whether it is a blessing or a disaster never depends on destiny, but on what you have done and your own choices.
The causes of good and bad luck mostly come from cause and effect, which is the unchanging reality.
is just that many people never analyze the source of things development, so they blame everything on fate.
Conclusion:
The saying of fate is absurd statement, but cause and effect are scientific statements.
In fact, the fate of each of us is in our own hands, and the trend of fate is also determined by ourselves, but many people do not realize it.
In the end, everyone will find that whether a person lives well in this life depends entirely on cause and effect.
I am Ying'er, an original creator who focuses on the field of emotions.
