htmlThe 5.12 Wenchuan earthquake in 108 caused nearly 70,000 people to lose their lives and changed the fate of countless people, including Wu Jiafang .
A photo titled "The Last Dignity of Give Your Wife" tells his story and also touched countless Chinese people for his affection and righteousness. Some people say that he made himself believe in love more.
However, this female netizen who was once praised as "the most affectionate husband in the earthquake" and flashed marriage in half a year after the disaster, which caused huge controversy.
The sudden earthquake, the family was destroyed and the people were killed
2-year-old Wu Jiafang met Shi Huaqiong, who was one year younger than him while working on the construction site. Shi Huaqiong is beautiful, has a small round face and short hair, and is clean and cute.
Wu Jiafang likes her. When he works, he always helps Shi Huaqiong to reduce the burden and cares about her silently. Over time, Shi Huaqiong was attracted by this down-to-earth, steady, simple and motivated man.
In fact, Wu Jiafang's family conditions are not good, but Shi Huaqiong did not dislike it. He just said that as long as two people work hard, life will be better.
After marriage, the two of them have a sweet life. Although they did not hold any weddings when they got married and their living place was simple, the couple was still sweet.
On May 12, 2008, Wu Jiafang was preparing to go out to work as usual. His wife said that she would go to the town to charge her phone bill later and asked Wu Jiafang to take her to the town before going to work.
That day, my wife dressed up very beautifully, and she deliberately wore a red hairpin. Wu Jiafang praised his wife for her good looks when she saw her wife's appearance, which made her very happy.
Wu Jiafang sent his wife to the town on a motorcycle and went to work. At this time, no one knew that goodbye would be forever separated by heaven and man.
Wu Jiafang, who was working, suddenly felt the earth shake violently, and the panicked shouts made him realize: the earthquake was happening.
He hurried to the open space. At this time, the surrounding atmosphere became dull, and the beasts under the ground roared. In just a few dozen seconds, all the surrounding buildings collapsed, and the crying, howling, and crying for help echoed in Wu Jiafang's ears.
Wu Jiafang was still scared. He was almost hit by steel and concrete just now. Looking at the ruins in front of him, Wu Jiafang's mind was blank, with both the joy of surviving the disaster and the sorrow of witnessing the disaster.
is gone. This was the first thought that flashed through Wu Jiafang's mind. Suddenly, he ran to his motorcycle as if he suddenly remembered something, and rode his bike and rushed home.
This journey is not easy. Wu Jiafang's hands are trembling and his eyelids are pounding violently. He prays in his heart, hoping that his wife and son will be as lucky as him.
After returning home, he saw his son standing at a loss in the open space and crying. His heart skipped a beat. He ran forward and asked his son about his wife's location.
The son said that his wife never came back after she went out with him. Wu Jiafang's right eyelid was twitching even more violently. He felt a little uneasy, but he felt hopeful in his heart.
After he settled his son, he immediately went to the town to find his wife. He first came to the place where his wife charged the phone bill, but he did not see his wife.
Wu Jiafang felt a little panicked, where would his wife be?
He suddenly remembered that his wife usually likes to go to a nearby teahouse to watch people and play cards. He decided to look for it.
When Wu Jiafang arrived at the teahouse, he was stunned. The originally lively teahouse had now become ruins. At the scene, some people were slumped on the ground and still fearful, while others were plucking the ruins with their hands, trying to rescue their relatives buried underneath.
Wu Jiafang grabbed a dirty man and asked, "Did you see my wife Shi Huaqiong?" The man shook his head, but pointed in a direction: "There are the most people there, go and look for it."
Wu Jiafang, who was panicked and anxious, followed the direction pointed by the man, digging and shouting his wife's name. Beside him, there were no sound bodies being dug out. In his ears, people who lost their families were crying.
He kept praying in his heart, praying for his wife's safety.But things didn't go as expected. Next to a prefabricated board, he dug up the red hairpin that his wife wore in the morning.
He trembled his hands, tears flowing, and soon he found his wife. But at this time, my wife no longer had a breath.
Wu Jiafang took his wife out and placed it in the corner of the open space. He sat blankly beside his wife, haggard and sad, and he couldn't believe it was true.
He sat for a long time, thinking that the child at home was still waiting for him to take his mother back, Wu Jiafang made a decision: take his wife home and put her in peace.
risked his life to take his deceased wife home, and buried her in the ground. Wu Jiafang found a rope at the scene, tied his wife's body to her back, and rode the motorcycle his wife bought for him, and took her home.
At this time, aftershocks continued, and the way home was full of dangers. Stones kept rolling down the mountain, and cracks in the earth swallowed up many lives.
Wu Jiafang did not retreat, he moved forward carefully. The road was very long, and he walked for a long time. Along the way, he met many people, and from those people's faces he saw sadness, numbness, and pain.
He also met several rescue teams that were "reverse" and asked Wu Jiafang if he needed help. Wu Jiafang shook his head and said that his wife was dead and he wanted to take his wife home.
Everyone was moved, and a reporter even captured this scene, keeping this moment. This photo was named "Give the Wife the Last Dignity", and Wu Jiafang also became "the most affectionate man in the earthquake."
Wu Jiafang finally took his wife home after stumbling along the way. After asking the child to say goodbye to his mother, he buried his wife in the wheat field at home, and the flowers he liked during his lifetime were planted around him.
After burying his wife, Wu Jiafang spent a few days at home, and then was surrounded by media interviewing her.
The media asked him about his original intention of taking his wife home, asked him about his previous encounters and knowing his wife, and asked about his future plans.
interviews again and again tore his wounds open again and again. Over time, he even became a little numb. After media reports, he became a representative of "good man" and "respecting friendship".
After a moment, he received a bold courtship from more than a dozen women from Anhui, Sichuan, Guangdong and other places. Among them is a woman named Liu Rurong .
Falling in love with a female netizen for half a year, and since then, she doesn't believe in love
Liu Rurong was deeply moved by this man after learning about Wu Jiafang's story online, and she immediately had the urge to contact this man.
Wu Jiafang said that the first call between the two was very warm. Liu Rurong asked about all aspects of her life, and he felt that he was very similar to his deceased wife. In the time after
, they talked on the phone almost every day. Liu Rurong is a low-key Chengdu woman. When she contacted Wu Jiafang, she worked in Shenzhen.
Before this, she had experienced three ups and downs and failed marriages. Years of wandering have changed her standards for choosing a spouse.
In the past, she liked men who dared to make progress and strive, but now she just wants to go back to her hometown to have a stable home, find a simple man, and live a good life.
That's it, she met Wu Jiafang, a simple and loyal man she ideally thought. After chatting for a month, Liu Rurong decided to go back to meet Wu Jiafang.
After the two met, they took nine days to get married. This incident suddenly ignited the entire Internet, and suddenly, he went from a good man who "respected friendship" to a scumbag who everyone scolded.
At this time, it was only half a year since Wu Jiafang's wife's death. Netizens said: I will never believe in love anymore. Some netizens also asked: My wife’s body was getting married before it was cold. Are there any good men in this world?
Of course, there are also more rational netizens who expressed their hope that Wu Jiafang can get out of the pain as soon as possible and start a new life.
In December 2008, Wu Jiafang and Liu Rurong attended a group wedding in Shenzhen. At the wedding, Wu Jiafang spoke as the representative of the newlyweds: "Thank you now, my wife, I have nothing, but she still married me without hesitation."
After marriage, the two struggled for their common home, but a marriage without emotional foundation will eventually break down in the reality of life.
Because of long-term distant places and the fact that they have some disagreements, some trivial things in life have also become the topic of quarrel between them, which greatly consumed the relationship between them. In June 2010, the two decided to negotiate a divorce.
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A vigorous and violent marriage came to an end. Wu Jiafang returned to her hometown after working in Shenzhen for 5 years and stayed in this place where she had lived with her deceased wife for many years.
This year, a reporter went to interview Wu Jiafang. Wu Jiafang brought the reporter to the grave of his deceased wife. He cleaned up the place and the flowers around her were also beautiful.
The reporter asked Wu Jiafang a question: "Are you still looking forward to love? "Wu Jiafang thought about it, smiled bitterly for a long time, but he didn't give an answer in the end.
Wu Jiafang's love with his deceased wife is a long-lasting flow, but his love with Liu Rurong is a comfort medicine in pain.
For Wu Jiafang, remarriage is to give himself a new life and not to indulge in the past sadness, but this runs contrary to the public's expectations.
Everyone thinks that others should be their own hearts. Wu Jiafang should have been with his wife for the rest of his life, but there is nothing in the world.
From a "love man" to a "unfaithful man", under the influence of the media, he was followed and praised over and over again, and criticized over and over again. The media's cameras impacted him again and again with external comments. Everyone hoped that he was a perfect man, but perfect only exists in people's psychology.
"Anything, once said loudly, will be a little distorted. "Now society hopes to set a model and set an example, but at the same time it is easy to be too much or too far.
media often tend to put people on the altar for praise. And once this person does not meet the expectations of everyone, he will immediately fall off the altar and curse everyone.
Do you think Wu Jiafang's remarriage is wrong?
(the pictures and story materials are all from the Internet)
