Chinese-style urging marriage, I don’t know how many young people who are suitable for marriage have ruined. Many people are overwhelmed by their parents and relatives, and I don’t know how to deal with it?
I believe many people know that some parents habitually do things that hurt their children in the name of love, without considering their children's feelings, just to satisfy their vanity!
Any older young man knows that if he is at the age of marriage, he has no partner, his parents will organize various blind dates. It doesn’t matter whether young people like it or not, and it doesn’t matter who they marry. Anyway, as long as you are obedient and get married!
This idea was OK many years ago, but nowadays, how many men and women can withstand the love and pressure of their parents and bet their own happiness on someone they don’t like!
Recently, in Shangrao, Jiangxi, a woman was finally kicked out of the house by her parents because she did not agree to the blind date arranged by her parents, which attracted the attention of social netizens!
It is understood that the woman is not old. She is only 26 years old this year. She has not worked for a few years after graduating from college. It is the time of youth, but she has been ruthlessly urging her parents to get married, and it is a customized version!
Maybe this is too conservative for parents. It is the parents' order and the words of the mothers are the daughters. The daughter must live according to their wishes, otherwise you will be unfilial!
But my daughter is also a knowledgeable person. She has her own thoughts and pursuits in life. She does not want her life to be at the mercy of her parents, so she protested solemnly and was finally kicked out of the house by her parents!
It turns out that the woman has a younger brother. Her parents roughly meant that she wanted her to marry nearby and could help her younger brother in the future. Now her younger brother is not young, and there are many places to spend money later!
Seeing this, anyone with discerning eyes knows the intention of this couple. If the daughter does not marry locally, she may not be able to receive the corresponding bride price. Then, the pressure on her son’s future marriage will be all on them!
If the daughter follows their arrangements and find someone nearby to date and get married, all kinds of conditions will definitely be indispensable. There are all kinds of gifts for RV , and they can also get some benefits from it!
But if the son wants to be happy and needs to sacrifice his daughter's life as a price, then the parents will be a little cruel. Doesn't the daughter have the right to pursue happiness?
Ordinary people find it incredible, but women’s parents are certain. They have worked hard to raise their daughter for more than 20 years and get some benefits from her, and they think it’s understandable!
The woman was unwilling to become a victim and argued with her parents. In the end, the family parted in an unhappy manner. The woman was driven out of the house and had no choice but to pack up her things and go out to rent a house!
As an adult, if you are forced by your parents in this way, it will probably not feel good if anyone changes, especially for girls. How sad it would be to be treated by your parents in this way!
There is a saying on the Internet that is very good. When a woman grows up, she has no home. Her mother’s family belongs to her younger brother. If her husband can’t protect herself, her husband’s family is not her own home. She can only wander in the crowd!
If a woman is treated like this by outsiders, it may not be difficult for many people to understand, but her own biological parents are the same, which makes people feel a little pity for her life. Living in such a family, I should have suffered a lot when I was a child!
In the subconscious of many elderly people, the sons are born in the family line and they are habitually favoring boys over girls. If children need to make choices, they will give up their daughter without hesitation to fulfill their son’s life!
The above-mentioned parents are like this. In order to help their son, they force their daughter to go on a blind date and marry someone they don’t like. Without a son, they lay the foundation. The plan was disappointed and they were so angry that they drove their daughter away!
In fact, if you meet such parents, you don’t have to be sad. Anyway, you are already an adult and can support yourself wherever you go. Since they are biased, then just ignore them in the future and let them pay the price for their choices!
