#The most regrettable or annoying thing when talking about marriage#
Asked:
Teacher, hello, my boyfriend treats me very well, take care of me carefully
micros. When the parents of both sides met, their parents did not give him
00 yuan. When it comes to bride gifts, there is not much pre-payment of
. If I want more bride gifts, I may still pay them back by myself in the future. My boyfriend's job is unstable and has a motivated heart, but it is difficult to achieve results. He is six years older than me. He has no house at home and may not be able to buy it within five years. And
I still need to go to school, I don’t know if I should give up.
I think his parents only say good things in front of me
, and do not do practical things.
Answer:
Girl:
①: What parents give is not as good as what they earn, parents can give it for a while, but they can't give it for a lifetime. What parents give it is the background, and what they work hard on themselves is the country!
②Boyfriend's income is unstable, but they work very hard, (it means that the boyfriend's heart of loving you is stable)
③Boyfriend has just entered the society to work , because he is still young, he is growing up and working hard. The current instability is actually the stability of the future!
④ If the grades are so easy to do, the boyfriend should have a lot of material ability now and there is no need to work hard!
⑤ So isn’t the boyfriend’s efforts now because he knows that the grades are difficult to do? But he knows that it is difficult and is still working hard for the future. As a girlfriend, you should encourage and support him to work harder rather than complain about his efforts. Currently, there is no result!
⑥ This kind of complaint may lose a person who suits you very well!
⑦ If you are prone to complaining and dissatisfied in the process of the other party's efforts, it is mostly manifested that your love for the other party is not as good as the other party's love for you!
⑧ So you should seriously ask if your heart loves the other party enough, whether the other party's love for you is worthy of your love for you! Or whether the other party's love for you can make you have information to persist or wait!
⑨A person who is worthy of our cherishing and waiting for is not how generous his current material conditions are, but his character, values are the same as himself, and how true his heart that works hard for love is! These are the necessary conditions for the future happiness of marriage!
⑩ After marriage, The final safe belonging of a woman is not that she found a man with superior material conditions before marriage, but that she should constantly learn skills, improve her cognition, and gradually grow into a person who is economically independent, independent in thought, and strong in her heart. Only such a woman has the ability to control her marriage stable and undefeated!
summary: There is no reason for whether she should or not, only the feelings of willingness or not, and no judgment of right or wrong. Only the conditions for whether she can make a choice that makes her have no regrets. This is the decision that suits her numerology. The future path is just a process of life experience. You will definitely experience what ordinary people should experience, so why should you be too early The worrying thing about adding negative ideological pressure to yourself, take whatever you come from in life, as long as you don’t forget the age you should work hard, you must persist in working hard. This is the seed of all kinds of happiness in the future! #女官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官
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