text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
The relationship between two people depends on the mood of the two people when they get along. A comfortable relationship is the key to making both people happy.
Two people are together in order to live a comfortable life, rather than the noisy and comfortable way of getting along every day, so that the relationship between the two people will last for a long time.
Couples and couples will have conflicts and rifts due to some small things. In order to avoid such a thing, only when two people are based on a comfortable way to get along can they enjoy the beauty brought by life together, especially among friends of the opposite sex.
You should know that when getting along with friends of the opposite sex, you must know how to behave and distance. It is just a relationship between friends, and you must do your duty as a friend. Only when getting along with each other in this way can friendship last for a long time and you will not feel bored with each other.
Therefore, if you want to feel comfortable with each other, you must do these three things:
Maintain an appropriate distance and the most comfortable
"Distance creates beauty". When getting along with each other, you must have a distance, giving each other some personal space. Whether it is a couple or a friend, the appropriate distance will make both of you feel safe and comfortable.
Keeping a distance between friends of the opposite sex is essential. Keeping a good friend’s duty is more important than anything else.
Even friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship cannot easily touch that red line and cannot destroy other people's families.
You can chat occasionally with each other. It doesn’t matter if you have any worries and complain. Keeping the necessary distance is the most comfortable way for two people to get along.
Of course, it is not only between friends, but also between husband and wife.
If you want freedom, you cannot bind him. When dealing with the relationship between husband and wife in a free-range manner, as long as you don’t do anything in a standard way, the other party may bring you unexpected surprises.
There are surprises everywhere in life, and suddenly one day you may find that appropriate distance is also a way to produce beauty.
In short, keeping an appropriate distance between the opposite sex is the most comfortable way to make people get along.
The most comfortable thing to get along with is not to please
A comfortable relationship requires care and exchange one sincerity for another. This is a very happy thing.
Love, it is said that rushing to two directions is the most worth cherishing. A good love requires two people to work together and give together, rather than the efforts and pleasure of one of them.
In love, getting along with each other without the purpose of pleasing is comfortable.
It is OK to love someone, but don’t lose yourself, don’t make yourself humble, and just try to please the other person.
does not mean that the more you give, the other party will see it, and the other party will be moved. That will only make you worry about gains and losses, and only think about how to let the other party see you, and lose the original sunny and happy self.
So, don’t just please the other person. Over time, you will also feel irritated. Comfortable feelings are independent of each other, not by one of them. Once you feel discomfort, you must learn to stop them in time.
Following each other to get along with each other is the most comfortable
Respect is also a very important factor when getting along with each other. A good relationship should be mutual respect and mutual achievement.
People put their hearts in mind and tolerate each other is the basic mode for two people to get along with each other.
In love, if you don’t put your heart in your own world and live in your own world, then life will become unsatisfactory and annoying.
Comfortable getting along is based on mutual understanding. Only by understanding other people’s pain points can conflicts be effectively resolved.
Between couples and friends of the opposite sex, no matter what kind of relationship they are, you should learn to think from the other person's perspective and think about whether you are doing it correctly.
Life is a mess. If the people you are close to cannot understand you, then life will become a mess and have no fun.
Put your heart in mind, understand each other, and don’t lose your temper at any time. This is the best way to get along with the opposite sex.
Only by taking everyone around you into consideration can life become better and two people feel comfortable getting along.
Love words:
Be with people who are very comfortable to get along with. No matter what kind of relationship is, they will not quarrel over trivial matters, nor will they conflict because of different views.
After all, fundamentally speaking, the conflicts between you can all be resolved through your relationship.
In fact, in many cases, the couple who did not reach the end were not understood by the above three points and struggled to each other, making their partner unacceptable and finally chose to leave.
