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Psychologist Zhu Had said: "When we start to cherish our bodies, learn to listen and talk to it equally, and truly learn to love it, you can start healing our lives from the deepest level."
Life is short, and you and I have to experience and face various changes. Especially at age, as time goes by, we will all grow old.
can only learn to accept things that cannot be reversed. When you start to learn to love and cherish your body, you can enjoy the present better.
For women, it seems that when they reach middle age, their lives are beginning to decline.
In order to take care of the family and children, women who have no self will really become more and more casual about themselves. Even though he was only thirty years old, his eyes had long lost their color.
However, a real young state has nothing to do with age, but your state of mind.
After a woman is over fifty years old, she continues to do these things, which means you are still young.
01: Even if you just go shopping for groceries, you will choose good-looking clothes and draw exquisite makeup
Sister Tang is already 54 years old. When she was at work, she was always the most eye-catching one, although she was not very financially prosperous.
But Sister Tang’s quality of life is not bad. She will spend a lot of time dressing up a warm home and cherishing herself.
Even though she has retired now, Sister Tang will not just treat herself casually every time she goes out.
She is less than 1.6 meters tall and needs to restrain her weight. Sister Tang knows very well how to maintain health and exercise.
So the weight has always been within 100 kilograms, and it looks very good no matter what clothes you wear.
Women of the same age as her are all unkempt and dirty when they go out. Their hair looks very dull and boring, and the wrinkles on their faces are very obvious.
But even if Sister Tang just goes downstairs to buy groceries, she will choose a beautiful dress and simply put on a delicate makeup for herself.
Although she is in her fifties, when she stands with her eldest daughter, many people think they are just sisters.
The reason why Sister Tang can insist on doing this is not to make others praise her for being good-looking, but her mentality has always been very young.
We cannot resist the fact that we grow old. Only women who truly enjoy life and love themselves will pay more attention to the details of life.
She will manage her current days seriously, and while loving others, she will also patiently care for herself, giving people a feeling of becoming younger and younger.
02: Have your own interests and hobbies, enjoy the time of being alone
Most women will become very lonely and unable to get along with themselves after they are fifty years old.
In order to get rid of inner anxiety, all your attention will be focused on your husband and children.
The husband will feel uneasy and angry when he comes home a little later. Or they try their best to force their children to get married and have children quickly. Women in this state are mostly anxious and will age faster.
If you still have your own interests and hobbies after you are fifty and can enjoy the time of being alone, it means you are very young.
Nowadays, most people born in the 90s and 00s don’t like to be lively or socially. They can immerse themselves in what they like.
As Miha said: "Getting high-quality casual satisfaction is actually very simple, it is to find a long-term hobby."
In your spare time, you can read a book, draw, do handicrafts, plant flowers, dance, etc.
Because you love enough, your life and world will become more colorful. If you still insist on doing things like
after you are over fifty years old, you will really look very young.
03: Willing to continue to learn and improve, and not be left behind by the times
What kind of woman will make people feel that she does not look old at all?
actually has nothing to do with age, but her learning status. There are some women in life who are used to fixed thinking patterns and do not like to change.
For example, you won’t order food online, book air tickets, take taxis, etc.
When everything needs to rely on the help of children, it will give people a feeling that you can no longer keep up with this era.
If a woman is over 50 years old, but she is still willing to continue to learn and improve, she will do whatever young people can do.
When you encounter someone you are not good at, you won’t bother to study hard, but will ask the people around you for advice.
Women who can maintain this state will feel particularly young no matter how old they are.
Just like the actor of Jiang Nansun's grandmother in "The Golden Years", Wu Yanshu , she is already in her eighties, but she still chooses to live alone. She does not stop working and studying because of her age.
She will take a taxi on her mobile phone when she goes out, and she knows how to book a ticket when traveling. Even if she is sick, she can go to the hospital alone. Her mind is very avant-garde and no difference from young people.
The best skin care product for women is to take care of themselves and improve themselves.
As long as you keep doing these three things above, you will be able to experience a high-quality life and your heart will become more joyful and satisfied.
