Home is a warm harbor!
In life, you will experience various emotions, friendship, love and family affection. Among them, family affection is the most selfless and the most advanced emotion, which is particularly important in the family. If a family has firm and warm family affection, then this family must be a warm family!
Speaking of family, everyone's family is different and there are various differences. However, when there are always people in the family who are silently giving. In the traditional family concept, if parents are not able to bear the burden of raising children, the eldest brother in the family must shoulder this burden. As the saying goes, the elder brother is like a father, and let the eldest brother bear the responsibility of raising younger brothers and sisters!
This issue will share with you a real story. In Shandong, a netizen interviewed an 84-year-old man. The old man dressed in ordinary clothes and sold vegetables on the street. He seemed to be a hardworking person. So he chatted with the uncle for a few words. During the chat, he was moved by the uncle's spirit. The uncle looked ordinary, but did admirable things!
84-year-old man is skinny and will never marry and support 5 brothers and sisters in his life. No one is to support the elderly and sell vegetables for life.
This old man is 84 years old, thin to skin and bones, but he is quite energetic. This is a microcosm of rural elderly people. Most of them have this image. Although they look skinny, they have the qualities of hardworking and simple. What makes this old man different is that she is still single and has never been for the rest of his life. The reason for marriage is that the family is too poor, and they have to support four younger brothers and one sister
Because their parents were old and their family was too poor at that time, the old man took responsibility for supporting the family of 8. The old man was the eldest in the family. He not only had to take care of his parents, but also had to take care of his 5 younger brothers and sisters. Over time, he had no time to find a partner, and no one was willing to marry this big brother with heavy responsibility, which led to the old man being a bachelor for the rest of his life
The old man is 84 years old. He used his life to never marry, which brought the success of his younger brother and sister. The old man proudly said that he raised his younger brother and sister and had all grown up, and he started a family. Now the family of five younger brothers and sisters has seventy or eighty people, but he himself is still a bare old man
The old man usually makes a living by selling vegetables, and he can still act alone. The children of five younger brothers and sisters will also come to see him occasionally. This is something he is more pleased with, but from the old man's words, you can also feel the loneliness of the old man. He is old and needs someone to accompany him. In order to support five younger siblings, they have been single all their lives. Now that they are old, they can only bear this loneliness
The elderly are very principled and sell vegetables to maintain their lives. They will not easily accept the help to others. The man gives the elderly 20 yuan more, and the elderly say they do not accept it. This generation has their own principles. They think that the vegetables after the above are traded fairly, otherwise it is against the law of nature. They don’t like to charge more money. This seems that the next generation does not have this because there are eight taels of scales on the market!
Some people say that the old man’s younger brother should help his elder brother, at least live with him. After all, the old man never marrys his life to support them. If it weren’t for supporting his younger brothers and sisters, he would not be single forever. In this case, other brothers and sisters should settle the old man well, at least to make him have no worries about food and clothing. Someone is accompanied by
The author’s view:
84-year-old man never married for his life to support his five younger brothers and sisters. It is really admirable. Such a person has no one to support him and sells vegetables on the street for a living. In fact, it is other people. Brothers and sisters do not take good care of the elderly. They should respect their elder brother
Although the elder brother is like a father, they may think that it is natural for the elder brother to support them, but they should also think about the elder brother. If it weren’t for these reluctances, the elder brother would not live alone. If there is a conscience, they can arrange a girlfriend for the elder brother, or live with the elder brother, at least let him have a family, because he has paid too much for the family
The family of younger brothers and sisters has a total of seventy or eighty people, but the elder brother only has a bachelor. It’s a bit sad to think about it, but the elder brother does not seem to regret it. This is the pattern of being an elder brother. Such a elder brother looks heartbreaking. If these five younger brothers and sisters don’t care about the elder brother, it will be really hard tolerate!
