text丨Love words: 30:30
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
The relationship between people is nothing more than two types, either friends or lovers. Of course, there is a big difference between friends and lovers.
It is precisely because of this that in life, we will pay great attention to getting along with friends, especially when talking and chatting. After all, a friend talks about some topics, which shows that the relationship between the two has exceeded the line.
Seeing this, some people will think about it. Isn’t this a good thing? In fact, relationships that go beyond the boundaries depends on your own state. If you are both single and have a good impression of each other, then there is nothing like this kind of cross-border.
But if you all have partners, you must be very careful when crossing the line at this time. You cannot hurt two innocent people because of your crossing the line.
So, you should be clear that Talk about these topics by friends of the opposite sex means that the relationship has exceeded the boundaries:
complaining about the shortcomings of your partner
Have you ever thought about what those people who complain about their partner with friends of the opposite sex have any thoughts?
In order to figure out this question, I still consulted many men and women. Among the answers I got, the most was to complain about my partner's shortcomings in order to gain the pity of this friend of the opposite sex.
Let’s see, friends of the opposite sex complain about their partner’s shortcomings, and many people actually know the results they get. However, in our lives, there are still people who do it frequently.
It is important to be clear that complaining about your partner’s shortcomings with the opposite sex is on the surface, but the dissatisfaction with this relationship and the current dissatisfaction is actually a signal to this friend of the opposite sex, that you may choose to break up at any time. It can be seen how sinister it is to talk about such a person with the opposite sex about such a problem.
Talk about the feelings you want
The above talks about complaining about your partner's shortcomings and denying a manifestation of your current love. But talking about the relationship you want with the opposite sex directly shows your own thoughts. Let me ask, if I hadn't had thoughts from the beginning, how could I have talked about such a topic?
In fact, many chats in life have their own goals, but many words are not convenient to say directly.
Of course, if both of them are single, there is nothing wrong with it. After all, everyone has their own way of pursuing love.
So, in life, if you find that your friend of the opposite sex and the topic you chat with is related to the relationship he wants, you should be clear about his purpose.
However, there is one thing you need to be clear about, many emotional scammers will also use this method to attract the other party’s attention.
Faced with such a situation, you must first analyze the problems between you and consider whether it is appropriate. If it is not suitable, it should be interrupted in time to avoid causing harm to both of you.
Talk about each other's past emotional experiences
In this society with complex emotions, who has no past relationships yet. However, under normal circumstances, past emotional experiences will only be told to your partner or someone you trust very much.
If you talk about your past relationship experiences with your friends of the opposite sex, you should understand the other person’s intention.
It is important to be clear. Talking about each other's past emotional experiences often add some color, especially those with rich emotions.
They can grasp your thoughts well. When chatting with you, they will make your past relationships miserable, and even label your past relationships with a miserable label.
If you unfortunately meet such a person, I personally think it is better to stay away from it. There are many ways to pursue people, but deliberately belittle your ex and deny your past. Such people are not trustworthy, and such people will not be able to get better.
"I never vilify my ex in front of my current job, nor do I deliberately smear my ex to please my current job. After all, at that time node, he is my favorite and an existence that no one can replace."
Love words:
Interesting in the opposite sex, it is inevitable to chat and talk about life. However, there is a degree and boundary for everyone, especially those who already have a partner.
Don’t think that you meet a better person, just start talking badly to your partner. If you can get together, this must be a blessing from the previous life. As for your results, I hope you can look at the problem from a positive perspective.
