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The movie "Blacklist" once wrote that Why others dare to do bad things on you is because you make people feel that you can do bad things on you without paying any price.
because there is no need to pay any price, I like to catch you and get the wool. Even if you complain, it is still worth it. After all, who told you to be your daughter-in-law, I am my mother-in-law.
celebrating her mother-in-law’s birthday for a birthday, which cost Yang Juan’s salary for half a year. Yang Juan felt distressed for more than half a year, but before she could recover, her mother-in-law once again proposed to celebrate her birthday or her 60th birthday, which would be more grand and lively. Yang Juan directly applied for overtime and no longer became this sucker.
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After marrying her husband for 3 years, Yang Juan finally saw the face of her in-laws. At the beginning, for the sake of her husband's face, Yang Juan tried her best to please her mother-in-law. During the holidays, we give gifts and big red envelopes.
Yang Juan's generous actions really made her in-laws smile. But as many times as the time goes by, my parents-in-law become accustomed to it. Sometimes Yang Juan is even nervous and no longer as generous as before, and her mother-in-law will even dislike her.
Last year's birthday, my mother-in-law insisted on inviting relatives at home to a hotel to celebrate her birthday, and said that everyone was waiting for her to invite her to dinner. The mother-in-law was so frustrated that Yang Juan and her husband had to make up their minds and cuss the hotel. They invited several tables in the hotel, spending about 30,000 yuan.
. Yang Juan originally thought that her husband and two brothers would share the same amount. After all, her parents belong to each other, not to their family. As a result, the mother-in-law stopped her and said that her brother-in-law was under great financial pressure and had to raise two more children. You paid the money, after all, you had high salary and good conditions.
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All the mother-in-law spoke. The filial husband naturally would not disobey his mother-in-law anymore, so he could only ask Yang Juan to pay quickly. For the sake of the 30,000 yuan, Yang Juan returned home and quarreled with her husband a lot. But my husband said lightly that 30,000 yuan is worth it for his parents to be happy.
Even so, Yang Juan will still feel distressed for a long time. She even planned to wait until her mother-in-law celebrated her birthday next year, either she would be at home or her two brothers AA. Anyway, she would not be the sucker again.
result, when my mother-in-law's birthday was still one month before, my mother-in-law started calling Yang Juan, asking them to hold a special one this year, saying that she was 60th birthday. She did the job worse than last year, and she lost face in front of her relatives and friends.
birthday party means heavy bleeding in the wallet. Yang Juan and her husband suggested that if you want to do it, the cost must be AA system for two brothers. But my husband didn't want to take it all. Seeing this, Yang Juan simply applied for overtime.
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The husband thought she was joking, but on her mother-in-law's birthday, when Yang Juan really went to work in the company as usual, her husband was very uneasy. He asked Yang Juan, if you go to the company to work overtime, who will deal with my mother's birthday?
Yang Juan said without looking back, whoever wants to control whoever wants to control, can you not do it if I don’t show up? Anyway, I won’t go back anymore, so I can’t afford to go back. I spend 30,000 yuan every time. I don’t want to be a sucker anymore.
Yang Juan said this and did the same. During this period, my mother-in-law called many times and asked Yang Juan to come back soon. The house was in a mess and no one knew how to arrange it. Yang Juan calmly hung up the phone and continued her work.
Finally, I finally got to the end of the work, and my mother-in-law called again and said that you can't handle it, but you have to settle the fee, everyone is waiting for you.
Yang Juan sneered and told her mother-in-law directly: can eat 30,000 yuan in one meal, and she can't afford it. Whoever likes to be a sucker, whoever wants to be a sucker, I don’t want to be a sucker anymore.
As for who will end up, Yang Juan has long been not concerned about it and does not want to care. After all, it is enough for her to be the sucker for several years.
Today's topic:
Do you think Yang Juan is selfish and ruthless in doing this?
