This kind of cautious and intentional concealment behavior, do you have the illusion that ex-husband and ex-wife seem to be more likely to rekindle their old love and get fire at any time?
Once the relationship between husband and wife is over, one of them may continue to feel the love he used to be, including the infinite love between us. This is just ", shaved head, , singing", this is what it means. The relationship between a man and a woman, especially the ex-husband, ex-wife, ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, I really want to continue some story. What is needed is the agreement between you and my partner. Otherwise, "the head is shaved and the head is hot", which is serious, and it is enough to eat steamed buns in a certain clause of the Criminal Law .
Before men and women became "ex-husband and ex-wife", no matter how long they were, even if they had a flash marriage and divorce, they were once a couple who were married for a hundred days. They were once a couple who were in the world who were "I have me in the mud and I have you in the mud". Everyone had devoted themselves to each other's heart and soul to each other, and no one was the "white bone spirit" or "Brother Tang Monk" that could not be pulled out from the other's eyes, or even the flesh in their hearts. However, this is selfless exposure during marriage, and it belongs to the private relationship between husband and wife allowed by heaven and earth.
So, such a couple who are so loving that they cannot record in words one day they were turned into ex-husband and ex-wife by a small notebook. people couldn't help but hesitate. Can the former couple really get along as innocently as an ordinary relationship after divorce?
I don’t deny that divorced couples also have many good remarriages, but this proportion will not be very large. More divorced couples choose to remarry and reorganize new families, or live alone until old age. Take the divorced couple in the reorganized family as an example. The divorced man in the reorganized family often meets his ex-wife due to the child's affairs. Do you need to report to the current wife in advance and return it to the current wife? Why?
must be reported, especially if you have a sudden meeting temporarily, such as if the child is sick, or if your ex-wife is sick, you need your ex-husband to take care of their common children temporarily, and other reasons why you have to go there. In this case, no matter how urgent the matter is, my ex-husband should have asked for instructions from the current account. Why? The reason is very simple - avoid suspicion. Ex-husband and ex-wife already have the "fruit of love" that is difficult to let go. What if it rekindles? Besides, a phone call is fine. said above that although this possibility is small, it exists. This is one of them.
Secondly, women are naturally suspicious. You and your ex-wife were once a couple who were "combined into one". After divorce, a little bit of old love may lead to a revival. To prevent problems from happening, or to express one's own will, you should report to resolve doubts in advance. Of course, most people will not repeat the old mistakes. The trouble is no less than aquaman standing on two boats. One of the deeper reasons for reporting in advance is that you are selfless. Divorced couples have to meet because of their children, which is a phenomenon that no one can change. Since this reality cannot be changed, if the ex-husband and ex-wife live in a city or village, they will inevitably bow their heads and see each other without looking up. If they meet on the road, they deliberately pretend not to see it. That is very childish. say hello and give a brief greeting to each other. What's so shameful about this?
Strangely, it is such a very ordinary reciprocity. Because of being a couple, many people become cautious. Ordinary polite greetings still need to be avoided. Are there any ulterior motives hidden in their hearts? is the old saying, "I don't have any ghosts in my heart, and I'm not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night."
Say a thousand words. After one or both of the divorced couples remarry, there is no need for them to be strangers. "deliberately" avoiding each other, or deliberately avoiding each other, is not a smart approach. The ex-husband or ex-wife who has to be seen is just open and there is no need to choose remote places to avoid people's eyes, which will make people suspicious. personal opinions. If you meet me, say hello calmly and go your own way. If the child has to meet, you might as well make an appointment with the two families to sit together, eat and drink, talk about the children, and then talk about their husbands or wives. Is it more satisfying to meet me than to be careful?
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