How a person leaves you often means how to love you.
Those who love you deeply will retain their last dignity even if they leave you. A person who is not affectionate enough, even if he is separated from you, he must have a certain kind of coldness and ruthlessness, as if he has to rub against you and hurt you to be considered a balance.
There is a kind of person who is like this. He neither loves you nor wants to let you go. From the beginning of meeting, there will be a little scratches and pain. It is not necessarily badness, but the weakness of other human nature. He must do something in the opposite sex.
In love, most men who leave like this are already unfamiliar with each other, but the two are still entangled and wandering. For example, if the information is not read back, it is just that they are unwilling to reply and agree seriously; they cannot empathize with each other, and they cannot achieve emotional docking and tacit understanding; their eyes are empty and scattered, and they have no place in their hearts, leaving only politeness and crowns to you, which is very similar to the communication and interaction between strangers, but lacks the warmth of emotions, and is powerless.
The feelings after strangeness and the relationship after indifference are the farthest distance between people. Once the heart is far away, even if the space is still close, it will no longer be warm and tender.
Most men who have left like this are already unfamiliar with
【01】
information has been read but cannot be returned to
Reply to your phone number or information with your thoughts, including all contacts. The other party responds and feedbacks vaguely, and the feeling that gives you is also ambiguous and hazy, neither sure nor straightforward, and always implicit in the details. It is disappointing and regretful to read
, and it is full of sorrow, but I can only wait. After all, I have paid everything. As for the result, I can only practice but not change it.
lacks the desire to share, retreats enthusiasm, and gradually isolates all thoughts and affection, makes love cold and trust weaken, everything will turn into pale paper. Although there is still the decent attitude to get along with, everything has changed, the temperature is gone, and the understanding is gone, and even the matchmaking and cheering of outsiders does not matter. After all, the distance between hearts is the farthest.
When you keep releasing your secrets and thoughts about yourself, he just doesn’t respond, doesn’t feedback, no reply or share. This basically means that the man has been prepared to leave long ago. The strangeness at this moment is not accidental, but a farewell after being familiar enough in life. Because he has adapted, there is no need for more companionship and obsession.
The initial beautiful feelings will disappear from later familiarity and understanding. It is not necessarily that I no longer love, but that I have re-recognized love and being loved, and also have a deeper understanding of love and happiness.
【02】
Don’t care about your emotions: it’s impossible to empathize with
It’s difficult to think about problems or deal with things from your perspective. It shows indifference and distantness to the relationship between the two. It seems that it is easy to maintain distance and decency, but it is not easy to get close to and trust.
There is joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness about you, he doesn't want to understand and understand. You are you, he is him, and the two belong to different worlds and dimensions. I think you were extremely close and close at the beginning, but now you are infinitely alienated and unfamiliar, as if you have never felt indifferent and coldness before.
treats your complaints and complaints as disgust and disgust, dislikes your appeals, hates your questions, is no longer patient and is no longer gentle, and is infinitely extended to mediocrity and monotonous. It is best to be unfamiliar and not be tangled anymore.
散漫着待你，不太愿意陪你在日常生活中，对你的反应很冷淡，对你的态度很冷漠，就是具备了某种疏离的倾向，从渐行渐远的举止到日渐褪色的态度，大抵都在暗示着未来早已不太可能在一起，余生也无法守护在统一的时空内，各自为安才是事实。
A man’s love for you is displayed in a gentle way, which is manifested as delicacy and patience, seriousness and concentration, caring about your emotions, caring about your needs, and accompanying your preferences and dislikes. Although he is happy, he can accompany and wait with all the things you are passionate about and pursued. This is the warmth and seriousness of love.
When he retreats from you, seriousness has long become ambiguous, and his intention gradually becomes an occasional projection, and the temperature has fluctuated and changed. It seems that the more you expect, the more disappointed you are, because there is a barrier between his heart and you.
【03】
Eyes are hollow and scattered
How a man loves you will see you.
当他偏爱着你时，他会从人群嘈杂中第一眼锁定你，你是最特别的一个，你也是最珍贵的一个，无论中间夹杂了多少琐碎与嘈杂，你始终是他第一眼的识辨与锁定，似乎你身上带有他能识别的气味与信号，然而事实上，你只是一个普通人，并无特异功能，他所有的专门识别并非你很特别，而是他对你的爱撑起了你的美好与绚烂，让你浑身充满了识辨特质。
When a man leaves the camp of loving you, he will have no eyes and let you go in his heart. Even if he forgets you in his life, he will feel like a blurriness gradually drifting away, a stranger who keeps passing by. It is best not to have to be entangled and involved in this life.
If one day, he ignores you with coldness and ruthlessness in his eyes, please do not keep or attach. This is definitely a hint and sign that cannot be continued for a man.
A man is realistic, rational, or objective. Whether he loves you and how much thought he still has is manifested in his cherishment and waiting for you.
The empty eyes, the scattered expression, the desolation in the heart, and the freedom of the spirit all mean that he is ready for another choice and sustenance, and you are just his temporary springboard. He soon has another belonging and relying on, but it is no longer you. Because the story is you, the ending should always be a bit implicit and hazy, which is the turning point and ups and downs of the plot.
