text | Xueluo Wuchen
There is a question on the Internet: "From a man's perspective, what kind of woman is the most attractive?"
Answers are different. After all, everyone's ideas are different, just like the saying goes: "In the eyes of a thousand people, there are a thousand Hamlets."
But the most common ones are beauty, confidence, etc. However, the same thing cannot make women more attractive, and those who are unique can attract men more.
For example, women cannot make much changes in appearance, but the temperament accumulated after tomorrow is unique and no one can replace you.
Especially some behaviors can invisibly increase your charm, and 99% of men cannot resist it!
Usually, if you do the following, men will not be able to help but fall in love with you and be fascinated by you.
01
has special hobbies and is not secular
In the big environment, like others, you cannot be outstanding. Only when you are different from others can you release your attraction and make men interested in you instantly.
Simply put, you must have your own personality and principles, and don’t be so unintentional. You can learn whatever others say, and you can follow them to learn what others do. Then what is the difference between you and others? Instead, it concealed its own light.
Only by finding out what you are different from others, what others don’t do, what you insist on doing, men will naturally become curious about you.
I have a friend who is like this, but it is different from what other peers like.
For example, many girls like baking, reading, traveling, etc. These hobbies are good, but they are too popular and too ordinary. This leads to many boys having the idea of "but this" when they hear it.
friend is unique, she likes to drive kart . Every time she took a vacation, she would run to the racing stadium to drive a kart for a long time to relax. It is precisely because of her different hobbies that she aroused the curiosity of many men during blind dates.
Moreover, men will ask her a lot of questions about karting, so they can chat for a long time. Afterwards, many men took the initiative and became interested in her.
So, try to cultivate a hobby that is different from others. No matter what others say, you must maintain your own style and not seem to be accepted by everyone, but it can help you improve your personal charm.
After all, only when the difference is different can it bring freshness to others.
While the other party is interested in you, he also wants to have more contact with you and want to understand your life. When you come into contact with each other more times, you can discover each other's strengths and weaknesses and know whether the other party is suitable for you.
No matter what, if a man is interested in you and you have feelings for him, you can develop a relationship between men and women.
02
Tell the other party your heart, arousing the other party's desire to challenge
Charming women will make men unable to help conquer. However, if you want the other party to get you less quickly, it does not mean you are keeping the other party out.
There are many women who deliberately make themselves into a cold and unacceptable image. No matter how enthusiastic the other person is, they always look indifferent. If you think that doing so, the man will be interested in her, but in fact, the opposite is true.
This will only make men think that you are difficult to get close to and difficult to get along with, and feel that you don’t feel anything about him. Because he takes the initiative every time, you will turn him out. Even if he takes the initiative to ask you, you are unwilling to open your heart and respond to him.
So, at the right time, you should give men some opportunities, open their hearts a little, and give them some hope. Let a man feel that if you have feelings for him, he has a chance.
This is like a "little white rabbit rule" in psychology: When a tiger sees a little white rabbit, if the distance is very far, the tiger will think about whether to chase it.If the rabbit is very close to it and he is within reach, the tiger will definitely sprint toward its prey without hesitation. Animals are the same, and humans are the same. At the beginning, although we should not be too proactive, we should not be too dysfunctional, so that the other party can see hope and opportunity. For example, when he takes the initiative, you should also make appropriate responses instead of being like a piece of wood. Only when a man gets feedback, tastes the sweetness, and is stimulated, he will think about persevering and pursuing you. At this time, don’t do anything, just wait. dare to challenge the other party and know how to give rewards What kind of woman do men think is attractive? Generally speaking, it is definitely not that he asks you to do whatever he wants you to do, and listens to whatever he says. Such a woman has no personality and will only make men feel bored. is just like in the TV series " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", why is Hua Fei so arrogant and domineering? Partly because of family reasons, and partly because of the emperor's favor. Because she is brave, she can ignore the emperor and "fight against the emperor". Concubine Hua completely ignored the rules that concubines should abide by, and it was precisely because of Concubine Hua's personality that the emperor liked her. The plot of can also be copied into real life. If a man feels that you are too easy to pursue, it will be boring. If you set some sets of setbacks and obstacles for him to make it take some effort to complete it, he will feel that you are more attractive. It's like playing a level-through game. If there is no difficulty in the middle, it won't be interesting to play. For example, when men talk about fitness, you can say that you also like fitness, and hope that your boyfriend will have the habit of fitness in the future. Use this method to tell the other person that you have your own feelings, or after a date, you can appropriately praise the other person for having a happy date with him. Simply put, it is to give the other party a standard, and this standard requires him to achieve it through time and effort, so that he can persist and work hard to achieve it according to the goals you set. Of course, the above behaviors require you to do it when you have a good impression of each other. If the other party is really not interested in you, don’t force it. There are so many outstanding people in this world, you don’t have to choose the person in front of you. 03
