Text/Xiaoting Banqing
Recently, many people have felt that life is difficult. This viral war has seriously affected everyone's work and life.
Income has dropped sharply, career turbulence, and life unstable, which often put us in trouble.
You still have to live your days, and you still have to eat three meals a day, and your children's education cannot be delayed at all. Therefore, no matter what kind of mood you are in, life must always be passed.
When you are under great pressure and are really anxious, read these ten heartwarming words of encouragement, hoping to bring you light and warmth.
. Before everything gets better, we always have to go through some unhappy days, be patient and give us some time to be lucky.
We all need to understand the natural laws of spring plowing and autumn harvest.
Plant the next seed and you have to wait for it to grow slowly. During this period, we have to water, fertilize, and remove insects and spray medicine to watch it turn from a seed to a bud until it finally bears fruit.
No matter what you do, you rarely see results in one go. There must be some process that requires you to constantly work hard and give. Don’t be impatient and be patient. God will not treat everyone seriously who pursues their dreams.
Just like Yu Shicun said: Young man, your responsibility is to level the land, not to worry about time. If you do things in March and April, you will have your own answer in August and September.
. Cao Cao No matter how traitorous you are, there are close friends, Liu Bei No matter how good you are, you have enemies, don’t care about other people’s evaluations, do your own people, do your own things, and walk your own path.
Interpersonal relationships often bring us tremendous pressure.
We care too much about other people's evaluations and also too much about the importance of interpersonal relationships.
In fact, when you have some experience, you will understand that it doesn’t matter how many people you know, what matters is where you are.
connections are never as simple as meeting one more friend.
Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. There is no need to compromise in a circle that cannot be integrated into the whole world, and there is no need to share in a pleasing and pleasing way to make friends everywhere.
People who like you like you, no matter how you look, will like you.
People who don’t like you, no matter how gentle and obedient you are, she will also dislike you.
If you can chat, chat, and if you can't chat, break up. Just be the real self, and you will always attract people with the same frequency.
. Love is like the sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster you flow. Letting go of others is equivalent to relaxing yourself.
Which young man is not romantic and which girl is not in love with spring. Love is a topic that everyone cannot avoid.
Cute love is simple and simple, but it is just a matter of mutual love. It is complicated and complicated. After all, there are too many variables in love, and if you are not careful, love will turn into harm.
No matter how much you love the other person, please don’t throw yourself into a romantic relationship. A person who keeps giving up himself and constantly caters to the other person will one day lose all his charm.
Love is like multiplication, one of which is zero, and the result is always zero.
. Don’t choose comfort at the age when you should strive for. You should know that it is easy to get along, but it is too difficult to get along.
In the book " Besieged " by Qian Zhongshu , the male protagonist Fang Hongjian took the help from his family to study abroad, but he did not focus on studying, constantly changing his subjects, and eventually he couldn't even get a decent diploma, so he had to spend money to buy a fake diploma.
When looking for a job, he ran into a university to teach after being introduced by his friend. But he looked careless about teaching. He did not prepare lessons seriously and gave mistakes in his words, and did not get the recognition of students at all. He was eventually fired and lived a miserable life ever since.
If you can’t bear the hardships of study, you will naturally suffer the hardships of life.
When I was young, I had to work hard to get a peaceful life in the future.
If you choose comfort at the age when you should strive, then the days ahead will be messy.
. Fantasy cannot make you progress, but will slow down your pace and make you feel sorry for yourself in the illusory beauty day by day.
Many people have the dream of getting rich overnight, fantasizing that they can get a big prize or make a fortune, and they can change the status quo at once and make a fortune.
But whether it is a fantasy or a dream, as long as you don’t take action, it is just a daydream.
Don’t always stay at the level of fantasy. Try to turn fantasy into a plan and turn it into a step-by-step practice, so that dreams can shine into reality and see the dawn.
. Everyone has their own quagmire, and no one can save anyone.
Everyone’s life is different, and worries and joys have their own advantages.
We all have secrets hidden in our hearts. One thing that outsiders seem to be indifferent may be a hurdle that we cannot overcome.
Everyone has their own quagmire, and only by self-salvation can one get inner relief.
7. Life is unpredictable. Sometimes a mere little thing is enough to ruin your life.
Life is full of surprises. Many times, a small thing is enough to affect a person's life.
We cannot control our destiny, and we cannot grasp the changes in the world. The only thing we can do is to understand how to adapt and learn to adjust our mentality and behavior.
Don’t always like to get stuck in the brink. Sometimes, life looks like a brand new look.
8. A person begins to become perfect precisely when he is willing to admit his imperfection.
Do you think you are a perfect person?
I think we all know our shortcomings and shortcomings. Sometimes we are unwilling to admit it, and sometimes we don’t want to change it.
There is no perfect thing in the world, nor is there a flawless person. There is a sunny side and a dark side.
But once you begin to accept your true self and correctly recognize your imperfection, you will become better.
9. There are all kinds of difficulties in the world, but perhaps one of the most difficult things is to live your own life well.
People are alive, which is a process of constantly overcoming suffering.
No matter how complicated the outside world is, being able to live your own life well is a simple happiness.
But in reality, it is very difficult to live your own life well.
You need to run a family, educate your children, and provide financial support. Every one is a difficult task, so it is great to live your own life well. Don’t always worry about unnecessary things.
0. People want to look happy, which is far better than having happiness, which is why people feel pain.
Happiness is something that many people pursue.
And everyone has a different definition of what happiness is.
Some people say that if you can be with your family, your life is poor, but your heart is full of happiness;
Some people say that happiness is to pursue higher dreams and achieve more achievements.
In the eyes of a thousand people, there will be a thousand definitions of happiness.
I hope you can truly feel the beauty of life and experience the happiness from the heart, rather than using something floating on the surface to define your happiness.
Schopenhauer said: Life is a ball of desire. If desires cannot be satisfied, they will be painful. If they are satisfied, they will be bored. Life is like swaying between pain and boredom.
I hope we can live truly in life, not in desire.
Think less about useless things, ignore people who don’t care, work hard to live your own life, and you are the winner.
