I believe everyone is familiar with the Internet buzzword "Public Trust Men". There is always such a group of people around us. Excessive self-confidence has spawned their arrogant personality. They naively believe that the world is revolving around themselves and treating themselves as the center of the world, but they don’t know that they are just a member of the vast number of people.
In Uncle Qiang’s view, excessive arrogance and confidence are actually shallowness and ignorance. Sadly, this type of people simply don’t realize it. They also have the “A Q spirit”. They habitually make friends with people who are worse than themselves, and compare with people who are not as good as themselves, and cannot contact them at all, or they are unwilling to contact those who are better than themselves. It is sad and ridiculous to gain confidence and superiority from these people who are inferior to you.
In the first half of this year, 28-year-old girl Chen Min decided to go back to her hometown to develop. Although she worked hard in the city, Chen Min felt very lucky because she met many excellent people here, and it was their appearance that constantly motivated herself to work harder. If it weren't for her sudden illness and hospitalization, she would definitely not have left the city.
After returning to his hometown, Chen Min took care of his mother while looking for a suitable job. After her mother was discharged from the hospital, Chen Min also found a corresponding job. Although her salary was not high, she had great development potential. Since her mother was discharged from the hospital, she has been muttering in her ears all day long: "You are too old, should you consider the big deal of marriage? Do you have to wait until I die before you think about it?"
When her mother said this, her tone was very plain, but Chen Min felt very uncomfortable after hearing it. Although she didn't want to get married so early, she didn't want to leave any regrets. Therefore, Chen Min followed her mother's advice and embarked on the road of blind dates. But after several consecutive appearances, none of them were satisfied, which made Chen Min very disappointed. After Chen Min agreed to the blind date, her mother also asked for help. That day, her mother helped Chen Min find a blind date partner. In her mother's opinion, the man's conditions were very good, so she urged Chen Min to meet him quickly.
On the day of meeting, Chen Min arrived ten minutes earlier due to professional habits. Unexpectedly, the man was half an hour late. When the two met, the man not only did not explain the reason for his lateness, but also had no guilt on his face, which made Chen Min very unhappy. After sitting down, Chen Min picked up the coffee on the table and took a sip, the man started talking nonstop. More than ten minutes passed by
, and the man stopped. From the man's introduction, Chen Min also learned the man's basic situation: he came back to develop after graduation, and it was a certain chance to get his current status. According to common sense, it is already very good to be able to earn a salary of 5,000 yuan per month in fourth-tier city . However, before Chen Min could speak, the man started to show off again and kept boasting: "It's not that I'm bragging to you. Working in our fourth-tier cities, you can get a monthly salary of 5,000. How many people can compare to me."
Chen Min was even more bored with the man's pretending attitude. Seeing that Chen Min had been silent, the man began to repeat what he had just shown up. At this time, Chen Min could no longer hold it back, and then smiled and said, "I know you are excellent, but you forgot that there is heaven beyond heaven and there are people outside. To put it bluntly, you live like a rustler." After saying this, Chen Min left without looking back and blocked the man's contact information.
