After carefully reading " Golden Years ", I deeply felt how important it is to love myself and others in my long life.
Zhu Suosuo Many women envy you. They are not only beautiful but also very strong inside. With her own efforts, she has firmly grasped the initiative in life in her own hands.
She is the woman I have ever seen who loves me the most, and she is also a woman who is so strong that it is admirable.
Savoring Zhu Suosuo’s marriage carefully, everyone will find out how important it is to “love yourself”.
Zhu Suosuo has been living under someone else's roof since he was a child and has been used to being indifferent to human feelings.
It is worth mentioning that life is so unbearable, but she has never given up on fighting for .
In the face of love, she is a rational woman, and her choices she makes have always been based on her own interests.
This mentality is worth every girl’s deep thought, and the misfortune of the original family indirectly affects the judgment of many people. Many people place their inner voids on their feelings.
longs to meet a man who understands himself. Even if he is touched, he will never want to take out his heart to the other party. , but Zhu Suosuo is not like this.
Cousin Luo Jiaming loves her very much, and this man loves her as much as a child.
From a certain perspective, Luo Jiaming is like a ray of light illuminating the road ahead.
If it weren't for this man, she would have lived a displaced life long ago.
If the same experience is put on us, I believe many people will act like "promise with their bodies".
tried to repay the other party with this, but Zhu Suosuo did not do so. She is very rational and understands that kindness and love are completely different concepts.
Faced with the difficulties of fate, she had no right to choose, so she could only go and see.
But it is certain that no matter what the situation is, Zhu Suosuo will not begging for the whole thing.
She has never looked down on herself, she is always fighting for it desperately, and has a "measurement scale" for everyone.
A woman loses her "backbone" is equivalent to losing her charm. is not disturbed by the outside world and goes through all obstacles and walks its own path. I appreciate her courage.
If Zhu Suosuo did not learn to accept herself, she would not dare to imagine what kind of scene her life would be in the future.
After all, when encountering problems, most people complain about themselves and even complain about the injustice of fate. But in this woman, I saw a sense of strength.
We should all admit one thing, there is no absolute fairness at the starting point of destiny.
It is easy to accept reality. If you really operate it, it is just overcoming this psychological level, and most people cannot face it bravely.
Luo Jiaming pressed every step of the way, and Zhu Suosuo was not panicked, but fortunately the man let go.
Even when we met again at the wedding banquet, he was just a blessing, and was happy for Zhu Suosuo from the bottom of his heart, and completely understood how far the distance between the two people was.
wedding banquet site, another man also showed the charm of this woman.
This person is Yang Ke. Compared to Luo Jiaming, he is like a mentor, leading Zhu Suosuo into society.
As we spend together day and night, the relationship between the two gradually deepened. Yang Ke witnessed the growth of this woman, but the two could not become lovers.
Zhu Suosuo may have had such thoughts, or he may not have had such thoughts.
You should know that there are risks in marriage, and if you are not careful, you can’t even do it for friends. Zhu Suosuo understood the interests. With Luo Jiaming's reference example, she would not do this.
Yang Ke's appearance is a kind of warmth. The communication in his eyes may be more important than Zhu Suosuo's fiancé.
Many people will find it ridiculous when they hear such words.How is it possible to even question? Can a friend still have a lover?
You should know that Zhu Suosuo is not an ordinary person. She is strong inside and has ease in terms of human nature and worldly style.
clearly understands who is really good to her and who is flattering has a different purpose.
Zhu Suosuo and Xie Hongzu came together. This man gave him care for the purpose of holding the beauty home. happened to Zhu Suosuo wanted to have a home, and the two hit it off.
And the person who led her into society taught her how to deal with people and achieved herself step by step. The components between
are not on the same level at all.
puts us in Zhu Suosuo's position. Yang Ke is like a relative. Can Xie Hongzu really shake?
For example, if Zhu Suosuo has reached the point of divorce, Yang Ke is still a friend, while Xie Hongzu has become the past , and the gap between the two is clear at a glance.
Of course, the reason why Zhu Suosuo is so outstanding is that in addition to the help of noble people, his own itinerary system is also an important reason.
She never caters to other people's expectations, but instead strives to bloom herself.
In contrast, in life, we often find it difficult to fall asleep all night because of an inconspicuous word from others.
wants to cater to other people's expectations and live like everyone's words, which is everyone's criticism. is precisely because of this fatal injury that most people lose themselves and cannot be happy.
Zhu Suosuo is a different person. She is not afraid of other people's fingers and is a very self-centered person.
accept all the questions and criticisms. You will not let yourself down and force yourself to accept the wronged things. Because she knows very well that only by loving herself well can she get more love in .
Is it worth it to tossing yourself over and over again and changing the trajectory of your life for those unnecessary people?
Every girl should understand that no matter whether the flower blooms or not, potential stocks with high gold content will attract the appreciation of butterflies.
No matter when a woman reaches her point, she must stick to her own path. Once she makes a compromise and chooses that weigh the pros and cons, the pain and torture will come as promised.
Xie Hongzu is the person who became her husband, representing a new chapter in life.
If Luo Jiaming is the past of this woman and Yang Ke is the noble person in his career, then Xie Hongzu is the future.
People who are interested will find that Zhu Suosuo cares very much about "home". This is the softest part of her heart, and it all comes from an unfortunate childhood.
Although she is the king of career, she can’t fill the emptiness and loneliness in her heart, no matter how much money she has.
She longs for a support and a place to shelter from the wind and rain, so she works so hard. So does Zhu Suosuo love Xie Hongzu?
I think this man just meets her requirements, and what she loves the most is herself.
The grace of a drop of water should be repaid with a spring of water. Zhu Suosuo clearly has a clear love and hate, and does not have any Virgin Heart.
She is decisive and never ruthless in her competitors, but as long as she is included in the ranks of relatives, Zhu Suosuo will become a different person.
Whether it is my aunt, Jiang Nansun, or even Xie Hongzu, who betrayed her, she is clearly hurt, and she is also escorting these things.
When the Xie family went bankrupt, Zhu Suosuo chose to fly into the flames.
I think this woman is very powerful, her rationality and sensibility are both online.
No matter what it is for or, she is in her best state, a tricky hot potato, she has never been afraid of dogs, nobility is her armor.
There are many women in life who reflect on themselves as soon as they are wronged. Such entanglements like
have no meaning. We must understand our positioning and freely advancing and retreating is a lesson.
Environment creates a person's character and can take the initiative in life so that he can "take roots and sprout" from adversity again and again.
Zhu Suosuo's love journey is very bumpy, but I like her very much. She doesn't care about other people's gazes and doesn't need some secularism to restrain herself. She has a clear conscience with herself.
So how should you get such charm? Only experience can make people grow?
In fact, changing yourself, starting from every bit of life, improves your own realm through other people's lives, is also a shortcut.
For any man, a financially independent girl releases her charm. Because this group of people is excellent, they are not financially dependent and absolutely rational in their thinking.
is like Zhu Suosuo. She is at ease in facing anyone, and her strong heart supports her entire life.
Love, career, marriage, a trilogy of a woman's life. On this road, she has never felt wronged.
Compared with the comparison, the warmth in the process is her persistent direction. Even if it fails, Zhu Suosuo does not lack the courage to start over and is still positive in the face of life.
has no doubts about his own abilities, and the negation of people around him is completely blocked. Such a mentality makes counterattack become the winner of life, and makes people admire it from the bottom of their hearts.
Life is a big stage, and everyone desires to be a strong man and take the initiative in life.
I hope everyone understands how important it is to love yourself. Only by learning to please yourself can life please you.
Zhu Suosuo finally left Xie Hongzu and opened a new chapter in his life. Maybe he felt sad, but I think she would heal herself in a short period of time.
Because the person who puts himself first, all his sense of security comes from himself. What if fails, and what if you feel wronged? A life of eternal grudges and grudges is carried out happily and part of the experience.
Everyone loves yourself well and don’t pay too much attention to gains and losses. The root of many pains comes from inner unwillingness.
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