text/Flower Demon Hall
especially likes Beard's words: "The sky is dark to a certain extent, and the stars will shine brightly."
When you think you have lost the moon, the stars in the sky will also lead you to find your way home.
We once envied others' achievements and their lives, but we didn't know that when we envy others, our ways of fortune had already been hidden beside us.
Everyone's life is ups and downs, but some people have small amplitudes, while others have large amplitudes, just like the waves surging from the sea. Some just sprinkle water, while others can capsize ships.
So, if a person starts to turn luck, one of the signs is that life falls to the bottom. When you cannot overcome the difficulties in front of you, it is the time when you are closest to good luck.
Life can be compared to a spring. The deeper you fall, the higher you bounce, because you have nothing to lose. You have ushered in the darkest moment of your life. Since that is the case, as long as you work hard to survive, you will eventually see the dawn.
Those who are above all rise from the trough. When they see suffering in the trough, they will know how to cherish, be brave and persevere.
Darkness is never scary, because darkness has nurtured many life philosophy, and it can teach you the rules of survival in this world.
As the writer Yang Jiang said: "When you are in a high position, you will see the flashy spring dreams. When you are in a humble state, you will have the opportunity to see the truth of the world."
Many truths will only be understood after you lose, but you will also get what you lose, so losing is never a bad thing.
There was a story in ancient times that "It is a blessing to lose one's wife" and now there is a story of "losing a job leads to success in entrepreneurship". Everything in the world is changing rapidly, and countless cases of blessings in disguise.
So some people say: "Luck can't stop it when it comes, and drinking a sip of water when it comes back can also stuff your teeth."
We cannot directly interfere with luck, but we can judge the good or bad luck and the trend of good or bad luck through the things around us.
At the same time, we can also use some means to avoid bad luck, thereby increasing the probability of good luck coming.
is like you meet an unreasonable person. If you choose to argue with him, you will delay the important matter because of this matter, which will also affect your mood, resulting in a lack of energy in doing things all day.
Therefore, when a person starts to turn luck, the second sign is: become calm when things happen.
Tagore said: "Errors cannot withstand failure, but the truth is not afraid of failure."
The truth can only appear in the world because of disputes, but only benign arguments can bloom the flowers of truth.
If the person you are arguing is unreasonable, then your argument is meaningless, as if you are playing the piano against a cow. No matter how passionate you speak, the other party will still stick to your own views. This is what is called not at the same level.
As the saying goes, the way is different and not to work together. The time to argue with it may be the opportunity for you to turn your luck.
When people are most likely to make mistakes, they are impulses with a fever. As the saying goes, "Impulse is the devil."
Your impulse argument may just waste your time and energy, but it may also waste your greatest opportunity in your life.
A lucky person is actually a practice.
Someone encounters things like a headless fly loses direction. They are not able to solve the problem and cannot control their emotions.
And some people will treat them calmly even when encountering difficult things, because they know that it is useless to be anxious. At the first time, they will control their emotions and calm themselves down to think about solutions.
is like if you lose your phone, you will start to blame yourself and your mind is full of what to do, but what you should do at this time is to think about where the phone was lost, where you have been, how likely it is to recover it, how much will it be lost if you lose it, whether you need to buy another one, etc.
You can often minimize the losses under your calm thinking, and through this kind of way of dealing with things, you can develop a habit, improve your mood, and correctly view gains and losses.
Life may be a roller coaster with ups and downs, or a train that drives slowly, but it is definitely not a bottomless pit that cannot be seen. No one will be in the dark all his life. Sometimes you fail to get good luck because you don’t last long enough, or because you haven’t changed.
A person’s good luck is often given by himself. “The harder you work, the luckier you are” is never just a saying.
There are many ways to solve problems in the world. When you cannot solve problems from the surface, you should solve them from the root.
Others can get good luck because they seize opportunities, and the opportunities they seize are often found through hard work. If you want to be their good luck, you should learn from those with good luck.
We cannot fully control the luck, but we can touch its switch through some methods. You cannot let good luck come directly to you, so let good luck see you by changing yourself.
If you are in darkness at this time, please don’t worry. Take care of it calmly when encountering things, wait patiently, and a beam of light will shine on you.
