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My name is Xiaoxin, I am 27 years old this year. I met my boyfriend Zhou Hang when I was in the senior year of the postgraduate entrance examination.
At that time, we often met in the study room and learned that the other party was going to take the postgraduate entrance examination, so we encouraged each other, and finally we were lucky enough to pass the exam. Although we are not a major, we are all graduate students in our school.
After studying for graduate school, Zhou Hang officially confessed to me, and I was also interested in him, so I naturally stayed with him.
After graduation, Zhou Hang and I went to Guangzhou. After working hard for two years, Zhou Hang proposed to me. Before this, we had met our parents from both sides, and our parents were happy to see Zhou Hang and me.
I also thought that Zhou Hang and I would be safe and happy.
Unexpectedly, at the end of last month, after the two parents were arranged to meet, our relationship was in crisis.
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Zhou Hang and I are from Jiangxi. His family is from Jiujiang , and my family is from Nanchang .
In order to negotiate the marriage, Zhou Hang and I rushed back that weekend and booked a good restaurant in Nanchang. On the day we met, Zhou Hang and I were the first to arrive, followed by his parents and his sister and husband. Finally, my dad, stepmother and little sister.
When my stepmother came in, she held my little sister Ningning's hand. When the little girl saw me rushing over and calling me sister, I picked her up and was so happy.
One night, it was already past 11 o'clock in the evening when Zhou Hang and I arrived at the station. We found a hotel nearby. And I haven't seen Ningning for several months, so I'm naturally happy.
I am a very sensitive person. When Ningning was carried over by her stepmother, I could feel that Zhou Hang’s mother, who is my future mother-in-law, had not looked so good. And she and her elder sister-in-law were still winking at each other.
Seeing this, I quietly sent a message to Zhou Hang, didn’t he tell his parents that I have a sister? He said no.
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Last time I went to Zhou Hang’s house, they just asked how many children I have at home, and I said two and there was a sister. However, they were not told that their sister was still so young.
I don’t think these matters, because this is my family business. But what I thought was still too simple. After this meeting, Zhou Hang and I returned to Guangzhou.
That night, Zhou Hang's mother called him. We both usually answered family phone calls, and did not avoid each other.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Hang's mother told him to consider the matter with me again.
Zhou Hang said, Mom, what did you say? Xiaoxin and I are planning to get the marriage certificate. We are in love, so what else should we consider?
I didn’t expect that Zhou Hang’s mother said that my sister is still so young, and my dad is as old as them. Although my stepmother looks younger, this sister is afraid that it will be a burden to us in the future.
When he heard this, Zhou Hang's face changed. He quickly turned off the voiceover and went to the balcony to chat with his mother.
and I was also surprised. I didn't expect that my mother-in-law would have such a scrupulous attitude in the future, and she was a little overwhelmed for a while.
Zhou Hang and his mother chatted for more than half an hour before entering the bedroom. I thought about it and asked him if his family asked us to break up. Zhou Hang looked at me with a complicated expression and didn't say anything.
I said, just because I have a little sister? My sister doesn’t want us to raise her, so what are your mother worried about?
Zhou Hang said, please don’t worry, he will deal with his parents.
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Unexpectedly, the next night, his sister called again, and the same thing, I have a little sister, we are not suitable. Let him listen to his parents and his family will not harm him.
Originally, Zhou Hang was planning to find his sister to help him, but he didn't expect his sister to say the same.
I really admire Zhou Hang’s family’s petty mind and really didn’t know what to say for a moment.
My sister Ningning was born when she was 42 years old. Before that, her stepmother had been diagnosed with infertility . At the beginning, she and her ex-husband were married for 6 years and divorced because they had no children.
And my mother died unexpectedly when I was 6 years old, and my dad, a big man, took me through hardships.
Until my dad got to know my stepmother through an introduction. My stepmother is 11 years younger than my dad. The reason why she married my dad was because of me. First of all, my dad has my daughter and will not let her have another child. Secondly, she felt sorry for me that I had lost my mother at such a young age. Her own mother passed away early and knew that feeling, so she wanted to give me maternal love.
That's it, the stepmother married my dad. I was 11 years old at that time, and she was less than 30 years old. After my stepmother came, my home changed a lot. I had clean clothes to wear, some people cooked delicious meals for me, some tutored me to do my homework, and even when it rained, my dad was on a business trip, someone gave me an umbrella.
So, I am really grateful to my stepmother. She is very nice to me and is really a good mother. Naturally, I like her more and more.
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Because of the arrival of my stepmother, my dad changed his previous sluggish look. His clothes were neatly worn and his mood was in a good mood. When my mood improved, my father became more and more energetic in his work, and he was even promoted to the company. On the day of the promotion, my dad bought a gold necklace for his stepmother to thank her.
I don’t live in the school at junior high school. I go to school every night and study. My stepmother and my dad are waiting at the school gate. My classmates all say that my mother is very young and envies me for my happiness. But I don’t know that my happiness is all because of my stepmother.
Three years in high school, sometimes I was not good at the exam and I was in a depressed mood. My dad is a rough man. He doesn't know how to comfort people, but his stepmother comes forward to comfort me and encourage me.
After graduating from university, I was struggling with whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and my stepmother said I would try it out. I just tried to pass the exam. When my stepmother learned about it, she was happier than me.
When I graduated from graduate school at the age of 25, my stepmother always said she was dizzy and uncomfortable for a while, so my dad took her to the hospital. Unexpectedly, the result of the examination was that she was pregnant. We were all surprised, and then deeply happy.
Stepmother said she really didn't expect that she would have children. After calming down, she asked me tentatively, do you support her in need of a child?
I am no longer that little girl who is ignorant of the world. From the perspective of a woman, I began to understand my stepmother and her desire for children. Of course I agree with her.
In fact, I always thought that the reason why my stepmother was able to get pregnant with my sister was probably because she had always been kind to me and moved God.
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After my sister was born, my dad and stepmother had a conversation with me. My dad said that he had 500,000 yuan in savings with his stepmother over the years, and 300,000 yuan was given to me as a dowry, and the rest was left to my sister. I have two houses in my family, one for me and the other for my sister.
I actually don’t care at all. I told my dad and stepmother that I don’t want any of this money, let them keep it themselves, and I already have the ability to make money. Unexpectedly, when I went back this time, my stepmother gave me a bank card and said it was 350,000 yuan. Whether it was for me to use it as a dowry or buy a house, this was her and my father's wish.
I asked her, didn’t you agree to give me 300,000, but why did it become 350,000? The stepmother said, your dad and I saved more money, and I want to add more to you myself.
I don’t want to get stuck, but I don’t know when my stepmother will quietly put it in my bag. She called me to tell me after we parted.
Stepmother is so good to me and such a cute sister. Unexpectedly, my in-laws' family actually thinks that my sister will be a drag on Zhou Hang and me in the future.
I asked Zhou Hang what he was thinking and are he still planning to get married? He said of course he had to get a break, but what he said was not confident.
I said, if you really want to get married, will you be able to deal with your parents? If you can't handle them, I won't get a marriage certificate with you. After all, a marriage without the blessings of parents will not be happy.
Zhou Hang said let me wait and see, he will convince them.
I originally wanted to tell Zhou Hang that my dad and my stepmother gave me 350,000 yuan, and my house was also my share. They also bought insurance for my sister early and they themselves, in order not to add burden to me.
But after thinking about it, I still held back.
Do you think I should tell Zhou Hang? Or wait for him to solve it?
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yu said:
suggested that Xiaoxin is not in a hurry to tell Zhou Hang, let’s see how he chooses first?
If he can really handle his family, it will not be too late to tell him.
At this time, tell them that maybe they will change their minds, but they feel that their purpose is not simple.
In addition, human nature is selfish, and Zhou Hang’s parents are not wrong to consider it for their son.
The most important thing here is Zhou Hang. Now it depends on how he chooses and whether he is willing to be with Xiaoxin.
What do you think? Do you think Xiaoxin should tell Zhou Hang that he has 350,000?
