text: Qi Meixia Picture: From the Internet
A few days ago, with a few sisters, everyone was talking invisibly mentioned the children's marriage.
The six of us are all over fifty years old, and the children are over 25 years old. There are six people, and there are seven children, five of them have no partner yet. This is also the common heart disease of us parents.
The reason why some children don’t look for a partner is because they don’t get too high or low. Some children are unable to weigh their own weight. No one takes their eyes on them. Some people don’t plan to find a partner at all. They think that finding a partner is a burden and are afraid of affecting their quality of life (that is, they are afraid of delaying their play). Some people plan to be single for the rest of their lives, and even if they get married, they will be DINK .
When it comes to being single for life, I think of Liu Xiangzhong, a bachelor who just died two days ago in the community.
Liu Xiangzhong was in his seventies and died at 3 a.m. on October 23. At 8 a.m., his body was taken away by the Red Cross. From the time of death to being pulled away by the Red Cross, no one kept a guard, no one said goodbye to the body, no one cried, no one visited, and no one changed into clothes to send old age. No one had any ceremony for him because of his death.
Let me tell you about Liu Xiangzhong's life experience. Liu Xiangzhong was born in the 1940s and was in a wealthy family. Because he has been smart and cute since childhood, he was also a treasure in his parents' hands.
The young Liu Xiangzhong is handsome and handsome. He has studied and worked as a soldier and has been the object of admiration for many girls. It is said that he was trapped by love and never found a partner and never got married in his entire life. After being demobilized, he was assigned to work in Beijing
However, when he was doing a good job, he was trapped by love and was imprisoned for 20 years in prison. When he came out of prison, he was already an old man in his 60s.
He has no home, no children, no job, no income, Beijing is not his place to stay, so he had to return to his hometown Xuzhou . After returning home, both his parents had passed away, no house or property. Later, he was a veteran and an elderly person with a widow. The government applied for a welfare house for him and also gave him a pension of more than 1,000 yuan a month. He did not need to spend much money when he saw a doctor or medical insurance.
60-year-old Liu Xiangzhong is in good health, and he has food, drink and house. He eats one person and his family are not hungry. He lives a chivalrous life. Because he lives alone, no one cares about it or asks about it. This leads to a very indulgent life, not having a good meal, drinking and smoking every day.
html When he was 170 years old, he had already suffered from diabetes , coronary heart disease , and hypertension . His only younger brother advised him to pay attention to his health, but he ignored him. A few years later, his younger brother passed away and he was never unwilling to persuade him again. He ignored him
Liu Xiangzhong's health was getting worse day by day, his life was in a mess, and his personality became more and more introverted and strange. The civil affairs department sends workers to help him clean six hours a month. He is picky about the workers who come and often calls 12345 to complain that the workers are not doing well. He complained randomly and found trouble for the community, and disliked the community not caring enough about him. Therefore, he became a person who was annoying and afraid of others.
community personnel checked kinship . He now has a niece, and he has a guardian at least. After community mediation, the only property rights of his house were transferred to his niece, and he asked his niece to help him take care of his life.
At the beginning, her niece visited him twice a month. But he complained about his niece all day long, and in less than half a year, his niece ignored him. Only the community staff bit the bullet and went to help him buy some daily necessities and sent volunteers to help him clean.
On Sunday, Liu Xiangzhong called the community and said that he was very ill and needed to be hospitalized. Community staff helped him call 120 and contacted her niece, who was very disgusted with his affairs and complained. He said he was afraid of him and was very busy and had to take care of two children, so he couldn't leave.
Finally, with the persuasion and guidance of the staff, I finally went to the hospital. The doctor told his niece that Liu Xiangzhong's condition was very bad. After critical illness notice , he had the possibility of dying at any time.
His niece said as soon as she heard this, then don’t treat it anymore, and don’t rescue it anymore. He also asked the doctor whether he could donate Liu Xiangzhong's organs. The doctor said that because Liu Xiangzhong was sick all year round, his body functions were not good in all aspects, and his organs were exhausted and had no use value.
His niece also proposed to donate her uncle's body to the Red Cross. I also asked if the body will be given any subsidies to the family after donating it? And he also repeatedly asked that if he died, he must be taken away immediately. She didn't have time to watch, but she died before she could even wait for the dawn. No one held any ceremony for him after his death.
Friends, through Liu Xiangzhong’s example, what do you think about singles or DINKs? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions in the comment section!
