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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Le Clezio once said: "Things in the world are often like this. When it comes to pain, it is just a memory after a few years."
Women must not be nostalgic for unworthy feelings. Learn to let go so that they can avoid being let go.
Some love seems beautiful, but it cannot withstand the washing of time. If you persist blindly, you will inevitably get scarred.
Women must know how to look forward and let go of the past. Maybe in the next stop, they can meet the right person.
Only a man who truly loves you understands your sincerity. He will cherish you, love you, and give you the happiness you want. At that time, if you look back, you will feel that the pain you have suffered in the past is nothing more than that.
In reality, many women are too persistent and always think that they have given too much for love, and they just let go and are unwilling to give up. However, the more you can't let go, the more you will consume yourself.
When you consume your youth and bet on happiness for a man who doesn’t love you, but lose completely, is it really worth it?
Therefore, it is very important for women to learn to stop losses in time. When you find that the person you love doesn’t love you at all, you must wake up and then leave.
If you can't let go, blindly consume it, and compromise in love, you will only end up taking more grievances and pain.
Therefore, stopping losses in time is a woman's wisdom and vision.
1. Never bother with people who are not worth it. This is a kind of wisdom
Writer Su Cen said: Once a love-infatuated woman wakes up, nothing can keep her. In the end, women are often more determined than men. A woman leaves without looking back, not necessarily because she "don't love anymore", perhaps because she is "not worth it".
Indeed, a truly smart woman will not be blind to love, and when a man no longer loves, he will not be consumed.
Even if they love men very much, they will force themselves to let go. They will never humbly please them, but will turn around quietly and leave silently. A woman like
is not that she doesn’t love her anymore, but she has already seen the man clearly and feels it’s not worth it and will never be entangled.
Therefore, stop loss in time is the wisdom of a woman. If you can do this, you will not worry about gains and losses in your relationship.
Women should understand that when a man doesn’t love you, he is no longer worthy of your goodness. Such a man is not your destined person after all, and fortunately, it is not.
Ms. Yi and her boyfriend have been in love for three years and have been looking forward to entering the palace of marriage with confidence.
However, in the third year of her relationship, she accidentally discovered that her boyfriend was with a girl and had a very close relationship.
Ms. Yi then realized that no wonder her boyfriend gradually neglected her, and even chatted with the girl in front of her. Whenever she asked him, he would make excuses on the grounds of his friend.
Ms. Yi remained silent and did not entangle. Instead, he calmly broke up with his boyfriend. His boyfriend pretended to keep him, but Miss Yi saw a hint of joy in his disguised expression and strengthened his determination to leave.
As expected, the day after she left, her boyfriend was with the girl and posted it on WeChat Moments.
Although Miss Yi was heartbroken, she quickly calmed down, deleted her boyfriend, and told herself with tears in her eyes: This kind of man is not worth it, so there is no need to be sad.
Therefore, stopping losses in time in love is a woman’s true wisdom and vision. She will not consume herself if she does not bother with people who are not worth it.
Sometimes, it is difficult to let go of a love, but after you truly decide to leave, you will find that those experiences that have brought you pain are a kind of growth.
It will make you more sober, avoid people who are not worth it, welcome better love, and have a better life.
2. Let go of the past and love yourself well. This is the true vision.
Lin Huiyin said: "Gentleness must be, but it is not a compromise. We must be strong in silence and not panic."
If a woman finds that the person you love doesn't love you one day, then please remember not to be nostalgic, not to be entangled, and not to be humble and redeem.
At this time, what you have to do is let go of the past, love yourself well, start a new life, and face the future with a more positive attitude.
Whether it is love or life, you must grow up as soon as possible, constantly improve yourself, and quietly make yourself better.
When you are strong inside and have enough capital and confidence, you can have more dignity and meet the man who truly appreciates and cherishes you.
The best posture for a woman in love is to give her all when she loves. She can stop loss in time if she doesn’t love her. Only by knowing how to let go will she usher in a better life.
In this world, there is no one who cannot leave anyone. Instead of consuming it in unworthy feelings, it is better to keep your dignity and leave.
Then, you must quietly settle down, work hard, live with your heart, and transform into a better woman. This is the foresight that women should have.
In any relationship, women must learn to love themselves and not accept men’s false feelings. Any man who makes you feel wronged is not worth entangled.
Only when a woman has dignity can she live more confidently. Only by adhering to principles and bottom lines in love can she avoid physical and mental harm.
You should know that not everyone is worth your efforts. When the other person no longer loves you, there is no need to nostalgia. Let go of the past to walk more calmly on the road of love.
Therefore, smart women will not be entangled in the past. Once they let go, they will live with a more positive attitude.
A woman like html, who has thoughts and vision, independent and rich connotations, will definitely accumulate a richer life. has enough ability to face the next love .
As Balzac said: "A woman with thoughts is truly a person with boundless power."
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Writer Su Qin said: "Be the queen of your own destiny, you will not lose in love in the love field, and you will not lose in the workplace. Fall in love with yourself and be good enough to be elegant until you are old."
Whether it is love or life, women must learn to stop losses in time. When you find that a relationship is not worth it, don't be entangled.
Don’t keep people who can’t be kept. If the other party doesn’t cherish it, it’s meaningless no matter how much you give, it’s better to love yourself and make yourself good enough and strong enough.
In this way, your life will not be consumed, and you will have more energy to do your own thing. Love and life will be successful.
Therefore, women must learn to stop losses in time:
Never be entangled with people who are not worth it. This is a kind of wisdom; let go of the past and love yourself well, this is the true vision.
As written in "The Flowers are Always Good, the Moon is Always Floating, People Long-lasting": "Things that have passed away cannot be kept, and love that has passed away cannot be loved. If you can stay or love, you will not be today."
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