I really have a good opinion on Li Xiangqian in "Ordinary World". He is actually quite good. I am mainly afraid of his paranoid and almost perverted view of love. Let's take a look at what Li Xiangqian thinks in the second part of "Ordinary World".
"I am a stupid person, but I understand that I should not treat you like this, and I will not be happy in your life. But I will always be selfish in this matter! You are mine, and you should not be someone else's..."
Look, what a perverted possessiveness! I am very clear that I have brought Runye a lifetime of pain, but I still have the confidence to take Runye for myself. I will never give up until I achieve this goal in this life. How paranoid and terrible! What is the difference between this and "I would rather destroy what I can't get, so others can't imagine it!"
Girls should learn from Runye’s lessons when talking about a partner. Runye doesn’t look down on Li Xiangqian at all, so they must make it clear in person. We have no chance. If Xiangqian misunderstood as just a girl’s reserve and a test for herself, then they must further make the words firmly and decisively no longer have any form of interaction. This will be beneficial to both parties!
must not succumb to the pressure from around you like Runye, and marry someone you don’t like in a confused manner. Moreover, Runye’s doing this is worthless, which is a farce directed by the old and confused insect Xu Guoqiang. He naively sacrifices a girl’s lifelong happiness in exchange for other people’s political support for his son-in-law. It is too immoral to do this when a retired person is too much.
Okay, it’s not bad for Runye. No matter what, Runye always agrees to get married. Since he is married, he shouldn’t refuse to accept Li Xiangqian. He will marry a chicken and a dog and a dog. Why don’t he live a lifetime? Besides, Li Xiang’s previous generation is not too bad and his family background is very prominent. After accepting his fate, he lives calmly. How many women envy the "rich wife"!
But what about Li Xiangqian? He was the initiator. He never knew what love was in his life. Runye looked down on him at the beginning, and he pestered him. Later, when he got married, Runye never lived with him. He would rather delay and get divorced than divorce. No one could imagine what he could not get, and completely transformed the character. The first thing he thought of was his terrible perverted possessiveness, which was not Runye’s feelings and feelings at all. Really loving someone is good to someone! The simplest truth is the most real!
Li Xiangqian lost both legs and finally found out with conscience that the goodness in his heart defeated the evil before. He wanted to divorce Runye and wanted to commit suicide to relieve Runye. These are all manifestations of true love for Runye. We saw a good man! However, with Runye's character, when he saw Li Xiangqian losing his legs, he was very pitiful. His greater kindness in his heart defeated his pursuit of love, bravely assumed his obligation to be a wife, return to Li Xiangqian and live with him, this is the ultimate goodness in human nature!
Why is it said that Li Xiangqian never knew what love is in his entire life? It is at this critical point. At this time, he should resolutely divorce Runye, let Runye live a normal life and get the happiness that a woman should have. This is the biggest and deepest love for Runye! This kind of love is called letting go!
