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Introduction:
A 42-year-old woman said: "I want to get married after marriage. I don't want the man's bride gift or the man's real estate. I can even give the man 2,000 yuan every month. As long as he can agree to my two requests, it's fine, but I met many men on a blind date, and they all stayed away from me. I never met my own love." What kind of request is it? Let’s take a look at Ms. Xiao’s story together.
self-reporter: Ms. Xiao 42 years old
I am 42 years old this year. My family is in the wood business. My family is not short of money. I didn’t go to work after graduating from college. I just helped my parents manage their family business, because this makes more money than working outside. My parents can also give me a salary of 30,000 yuan a month.
When I got married, my husband was very grand. After all, as the only daughter in the family, I enjoyed everything my parents arranged for me. I spent a lot of money when I got married, just wanted to have a grand ceremony. My husband's family conditions were average, but I just liked him at that time. He treated me well. I was immersed in the long river of love and didn't realize that we were still short of money and communicated a lot.
My husband couldn't afford a wedding house at that time. It was the house my parents paid for. Later, his job was not ideal, so my parents wanted him to come to our house to help manage the company, but he felt that it was an insult to him and thought our whole family looked down on him. In fact, we didn't think so. Later I realized why he would rather work outside than manage the company with me every day.
My husband works in a small company and doesn’t make much money, but he still insists on working there and does not change to a suitable job. Later I found out the reason. It turned out that he had a very ambiguous relationship with a female colleague in their company. Later, after inquiring, he found out that they often went shopping and had dinner together, and always paid the woman to buy clothes and cosmetics. I was really angry after discovering this problem, but my husband had no intention of admitting his mistakes and repenting. It seemed that he had just dropped the jar and didn't care about my thoughts at all.
Later I was really tired, and I could never accept that there were other third parties in my marriage. Based on the fact that our relationship reached a freezing point, I filed for divorce. The marriage that lasted only 6 years ended like this. It was quite sad to think about it. I was so nice to him, how could he treat me like this?
After a period of divorce, my parents urged me to remarry. In fact, this marriage has been a big blow to me. Later, I adjusted my mood and thought about the preparation for remarrying, but I don’t value the man’s money. I just have two requirements. As long as the man can meet my two requirements, I will marry him and give him 2,000 yuan in pocket money every month.
First, after marriage, the man must take care of all the housework
Actually, I don’t like to do housework. I usually work at home by the nanny, but after marriage, I don’t want to find a nanny, so I want to find a man who is willing to do housework, at least a hard-working man; he also needs to learn some recipes and make some delicious meals for me every day. I think such a man will give me a lot of points and clean the house. When a good friend comes to visit the house, he will also have face, so the man who wants to marry me must do all the housework.
Second, the man should not be over 35 years old
Men like young and beautiful women. Of course, women also like sunny and handsome men. I usually take good care of myself, so I still look very young. I don’t want to find an older man. We don’t match when we walk together, so I also look for a handsome man who looks handsome and handsome. I cannot be over 35 years old. We will go out to attend dinners on some occasions later. I think matching is still very important. Let me ask, which woman will not be moved by a sunny and handsome man?
Today's topic:
There is no problem for women to remarry and find men according to their own standards, but this standard must not be too high, otherwise many men will be discouraged because the standards are too high. Therefore, it is still necessary to set the right standards and choose the right other party. I hope that every woman can meet her own happiness.
Do you think 42-year-old Ms. Xiao will meet a man who is moved? Is her two requests too much? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below for discussion.
