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Since childhood, parents and family will consider how to let us live our lives well.
From studying to working, our parents have worked hard to pave the way so that we can have no worries about food and clothing.
When we grow up, we should know what our future path will be. Everything is planned, from small meals and sleeps to big life plans.
can be planned is one thing, but it is another when it is actually implemented.
Character affects life. Many times, where our life can go is often determined by personality rather than plan.
Everyone has their own personality. Character determines habits, and habits form a person's character.
The older generation often says that it is reasonable to see young people at the age of three, and to see old people at the age of seven. How a person's life develops depends to a certain extent on his personal personality characteristics.
Whether it is innate formation or acquired cultivation, for those who are learning, interest is the best teacher, and for those who enter society, interest is the best guide.
Personality is a general statement. A person's personality cannot be said to be absolutely bad or absolutely good. It can only be compared with specific things.
For example, someone likes to be competitive, which may not be a good personality in daily life, but such personality qualities are just needed for some competitions and competitions.
Life requires golden quality as the basis to climb high and go far. Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Being excellent is a process of extracting essence and removing bad things.
Just as Maloy Shanldor said: Life is an incredible event that takes turns to take place.
You can never preview your life, you can only act randomly and work hard to correct your personality shortcomings.
Observation found that people with these three characteristics are destined to be sad for this life.
Indecisive and indecisive in dealing with things
The success of people in this life requires their own unremitting efforts and perseverance to lay a solid foundation. Then, and most importantly, it is to wait for a good opportunity to leap forward.
This society is a society where opportunities and setbacks coexist. While people lament the impermanence of the world, they must also be prepared to seize opportunities at any time.
If you want to seize the opportunity, you need to improve your personal judgment and decision-making ability. You must not be indecisive or hesitate when encountering things.
Judgment ability is one of the most important abilities in walking in society. Only by making quick judgments and making quick decisions can you seize the opportunity and take a step forward.
Sometimes, losing an opportunity not only means not being able to go to the next level, but may also cause losses to yourself. Risks and good opportunities are always intertwined.
Observation found that indecisive people are often pretentious and worry about this and that, they are too cautious in doing things, and it is difficult to take the first step, so there is no breakthrough, and life will become boring and without passion.
Waiting and waiting are synonyms for this type of people. Always maintain such a life attitude. Even if you come, it is difficult to seize opportunities. The most secure one often means the lowest level.
is content with the status quo and does not want to innovate
In fact, everyone's life will eventually become a stable state. Even if you struggle all your life, break through various innovations, and in the end, your children will naturally retreat to the second line.
But life pursuit should be more about the process rather than the result. There is nothing wrong with pursuing stability. It is also a dream to seek no storms in life and peace and happiness among family members. However, people are taboo to be content with the status quo and not think about innovation.
The word development must go through breakthroughs and innovations, whether it is reflected in society or individuals.
Especially for the younger generation, a stable life is not what we should pursue at this age. Being content with the status quo will only cause stagnation and thus hinder personal development.
There are basically two reasons for people who are not enterprising. One is that they come from the "carefree" of life. They can also be without worries if they don't struggle. The other is that they come from the shallow knowledge and only feel that their current living conditions are already the "ceiling", and they have not seen a happier and more gained life.
so that before middle age, I had already concluded my remaining life, following the rules and being boring.
is trapped in love, trapped by love
The reason why people distinguish from animals is that people have seven emotions and six desires .
The inner emotions of people are really complicated. Family, friendship, and love, the three major emotions are both independent existences and intertwined.
For example, husband and wife will start with friendship, and then develop into family affection after experiencing love. Once friendship is mixed with love, it will be complicated and difficult to solve, and even cause a lot of trouble.
Since the beginning of love in youth, love has taken root and grown in people's hearts. With this seed, no matter whether people are in love or not, they will bring love into their own life.
People who are hurt by love are really painful because thoughts determine behavior, while love disturbs thoughts.
When many people are in love, they will plan their futures with their partners. Once they are heartbroken and are hurt by love, their plans for their entire life will be burned and they will become drifting with the flow and just live by.
This is a very common and difficult phenomenon. It comes from people's inner views on love.
If a person treats feelings as everything, he may fall into feelings, which will make his life go down with the twists and turns of feelings.
Time and Emotional Class:
people, the biggest disadvantage is that they dare not face it or have no perseverance to correct their shortcomings.
The so-called no one is perfect, and saints also have personal shortcomings. Continuous improvement requires not only to start from the perspective of their thoughts, but also to be resolute and decisive in their actions. Time will tell everyone the answer.
people say that it is easy to change the country and nature, but in fact, personality shortcomings can be changed.
You might as well think about it this way. Personality flaws are not a big mistake, but they are often too "out of the way" to a certain extent.
What you need to do is to "relieve symptoms" rather than to completely change yourself. Everyone can do it. You must believe that those with ambition will succeed.
