Text/Xia Mo
01, Volume Start
Fate is a very mysterious thing, like wind and fog. You can feel its existence when you come, but when it dissipates, you can't grasp it no matter what.
Life is a long journey, with people coming and going, and some people will remember it for the rest of their lives; while some people leave quietly without realizing it, and will never let a ripple in your heart again.
Encountering is the most beautiful fate. But separation is the most painful thing.
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in "Bird Collection": "The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, not everywhere in the world, but I am standing in front of you, but you don't know that I love you."
I have loved and separated again, and life has cracks from then on.
In the world, meeting fate and being lucky enough to stay together is the most ordinary but most precious happiness.
Whether two people can become husband and wife is actually destined.
02. A person's personality will attract people with the same frequency
What kind of personality a person is easy to attract what kind of people.
Wang Xiaobo wrote in "Loving You is Like Love Life": "I think of you quietly and think everything is incredibly beautiful."
Two people meet and when they see each other, they will feel an inexplicable sense of familiarity.
At first glance, I felt that she could easily break the barriers in your heart, walk into your heart, and walk into your world. Her every frown, smile, every move will touch your eyes and you will not help but appreciate your love.
What kind of personality a person has will attract people with him to get close to her.
It seems that they have seen each other somewhere a long time ago; they have many similar habits and hobbies between them, which resonate more with the soul.
In this world, people who can truly become husband and wife are often "same kind of people".
The two people have similar personalities, similar values, and similar treatments for people. The higher the same frequency, the higher the tacit understanding, the easier it is to get together.
On the long road of life, if two people you meet can match the three views, like the same aspirations, complement each other's personalities and be very consistent, the greater the probability of becoming a husband and wife.
03. What do you lack in your heart? Attracting "complementary" people
In life, there is a phenomenon: two people have been together for many years, but they cannot have the idea of falling in love with them. But at a certain moment, when I looked at someone more, I felt that he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
There will be a strong sense of each other, feeling that the other person is the part he is missing.
What a person lacks in his heart is more likely to be attracted to people who are "complementary".
In "Please give me more advice for the rest of my life", Gu Wei gave up the doctor Gao Xi, who is equally excellent as him, and chose to be with Lin Zhixiao. In the eyes of many people, they think Gu Wei and Gao Xi are more compatible, but Gu Wei doesn't think so.
He thinks Gao Xi is another "self". When two people are together, they will turn their home into an office and their life will become boring.
And Lin Zhixiao can make his life more complete and complete the part of his enthusiasm beyond his caution.
He was attracted by Lin Zhixiao, which was a destined fate. He longs to be warmed by a woman like her little sun, and hopes that they can live together forever.
Many couples seem to have many different personalities, but they can blend together wonderfully. One is frivolous in behavior, one is calm in character; the other is very smart, while the other is confused.
"complementary" two people, together, often have the effect of one plus one greater than two, making it easier to get into marriage.
04. What level will you marry?
. What level will you marry?
. What level will you walk with?
If two people have similar auras and the same working and life rhythm, then it is easy to get closer to each other.
In life, a person's level determines her circle, determines what kind of people she will meet, and what kind of people she will become friends with.
People with low levels will also easily meet low-level people and have a heart-to-heart relationship with them. People with high levels of
are also easily appreciated and recognized by outstanding people and gain favor.
If two people are together, the gap between their levels is too big, the gap between their values and living habits will be greater. The bigger the gap between
, it means that in life, two people are more likely to have conflicts, run-in, and the risk of breaking up relationships is higher.
People of the same level are more likely to "understand" each other, but the contradictions are less, making the relationship develop harmoniously.
So, when you are in love, the closer the levels of the two people are, the higher the probability that the two people will be together for a lifetime.
05. Summary
On the road of life, whether two people can become husband and wife and whether they can spend the rest of their lives together is actually already destined.
fairy tale picture book " Ali·Forever Station " writes: "In this life, people will meet 8263,563 people, 39,778 people who will greet them, familiar with 3,619 people, and close to 275 people, but in the end, they will be lost in the sea of people."
What is most lacking in the world is passers-by, and the most precious thing is the heart of lovers.
If you have met a destined person, you must know how to cherish it. When fate comes, it feels wonderful, but if you don’t care, it will make your lover leave sadly.
Achieve a marriage, and it is necessary to have a harmonious relationship between the right time, place and people. If you are destined to be destined, you will gain more romance and happiness.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
