In love, the person who lives the most tired is often the person who cares about this relationship the most.
The other party will be easily trapped in random thoughts, suspicion, and thinking about various possibilities. If you send messages without a response, and no one answers the call, you will feel that you are an optional person.
disappeared for no reason for a few days, and suddenly appeared one day, without any explanation for the previous loss of contact. You were angry and said he was busy. If you don’t mention it, just pretend that this didn’t happen.
Sometimes I lose contact to force you to leave; sometimes I am so busy that I forgot; and sometimes I want to be quiet.
When a person ignores you, don’t rush to draw conclusions first. Calm down first, analyze the reasons for the loss of contact, and then take corresponding actions to solve it.
1. If there is a crisis in the relationship, try to communicate calmly and face to face
When a person ignores you for no reason, it is most likely that there is a crisis in the relationship. Don’t rush to question or get angry, and don’t ignore anyone who is angry.
You can try to contact each other more actively, care more about the other person's life and emotions, and then find opportunities to communicate face to face in-depth with them to understand where the problem lies and whether there is still a possibility of continuing.
If the other party expresses that he wants to continue to maintain this relationship, both parties will raise the problems and ideas that have arisen during this period, hoping that the other party will do it, and not want the other party to do it, and communicate and solve it one by one.
If, no matter how hard you work and make corresponding compromises, the other party still wants to escape and avoid you, then let it go.
You can't keep the person who wants to leave; you can't drive away the person who decides to stay. Such people don't need to be too entangled and let go decisively.
2. If you don’t reply to you, don’t contact ta
When a person no longer takes the initiative to contact you, you are always contacting him. He will reply when he wants to reply, and he will not reply when he doesn’t want to reply. He will only look for you when he wants to look for you. You will never find him. You can try to reduce or not contact the other party.
For a long time, your active contact and your continuous concessions have made him accurately and believe that you cannot live without him. So no matter how much you pay, he feels it is natural and you must be on call.
You take the initiative because you care about him, so you contact him frequently, but many times, your preference for him makes him feel fearless and even worse.
It is better to try to let go of frequent contacts, care frequently, focus on yourself, explore your own strengths, and think more about improving yourself. If you care about this contrast, you will take the initiative to contact you.
If you are cold and you are cold, you will never come to you again, then your actions are your answer.
At this time, you don’t need to be in a hot face and make yourself bored.
You should know that no matter how much enthusiasm meets an iceberg, it cannot melt his indifference; no matter how much love is not cherished, it is just a waste of money.
Love is to be unable to help but contact, care subconsciously, and care everywhere.
Only when you don’t love you anymore will you not take the initiative, just ask, care, ignore it.
3. If you don’t respond, it’s better to let go
When doing things, you must learn to look at people’s eyes, and the same is true in your relationship.
If you try to contact, communicate, and try to disappear for a few days, the other party still has not come to you. One month or two months have passed, but there is still no reply. The reason is: he wants to give up on you.
Silence is the answer, perfunctory is the answer, and not taking the initiative is the answer.
You are trying to save it, but he is thinking about how to escape. No matter what effort you make, it will be useless. Why not end it here.
Any relationship can be maintained by humility alone and it is difficult to last for two people. A good relationship needs to be maintained by both people.
Only those who know how to show love and give in can have love that never loses contact.
For the love that has disappeared, instead of entanglement, questioning, self-interpretation, etc., it is better to stop the loss in time and let go decisively.
Don’t bother someone who doesn’t have you in your heart. Take back your love and sincerity and love yourself well.
