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56-year-old Uncle Yin looks like an ordinary rural old man. He doesn't like to talk and is very restrained towards others. However, he is really shocking. As Sister Guo, who lives with Uncle Yin, said: "He is not a serious person, with too strong desires and too many intestines."
It turns out that although Uncle Yin is not young, he is very clear about electronic devices, especially using chat software, and is extremely skilled in brushing. Therefore, he also found many confidants on it and expressed his feelings to each other. In the past few years, the two have accumulated hundreds of beauties. However, these things were only known after Sister Guo and Mr. Yin lived together.
Miss Guo initially worked as a nanny at Uncle Yin's house for a few days, so the two became familiar with each other. Uncle Guo is very fond of Sister Guo, who has fair skin and beautiful appearance, and is extremely concerned about her. After all, Mr. Guo's wife passed away a few years ago, she has been alone. This year, she has planned to remarry. After all, she lives alone too lonely. Mr. Yin happened to appear at this time.
My sister Guo was also very satisfied with Mr. Yin at first. Although he was a little shy when he saw him for the first time, he was eloquent after he was familiar with him and took good care of her. This made Sister Guo feel protected. Not only did she agree to the request of dating and living with him, she didn't even need him to get a bride gift after marriage.
The fact that there is no need to get a bride gift made Mr. Yin more satisfied with Sister Guo. Not long after, she took Sister Guo back to her home and agreed to spend 30,000 yuan to make Sister Guo happy. This made Sister Guo feel that the initial choice was not wrong, but as time spent together became, Sister Guo felt something was wrong.
It turns out that although Mr. Yin is not young, his physiological needs are stronger than those of young people. He lives less once a day, and even twice a day, which makes Sister Guo overwhelmed: "I am so old, and I don't have the energy and ability several times a day. I didn't listen to him. I kept saying that the elderly should be several times a day, so that I can be healthy, but this has ruined my body and spirit."
and this is also the beginning of the conflict between the two. The one who cannot be tolerated by Sister Guo, and even ran away from home was the incident of peeking at the mobile phone.
It turns out that after the two lived together, Sister Guo discovered that Mr. Yin often played with his mobile phone and smiled at the mobile phone. The expression on his face was too despicable, so he took advantage of Mr. Yin's inattention and peeked at his mobile phone. It would be fine if he didn't look at it, but Sister Guo was also shocked.
A long strip on the phone is full of chat records between Mr. Yin and different women. She counted it and there were as many as 173 digits. Sister Guo also deleted his friends on his phone for this, but there were too many people and they couldn't delete them cleanly.
The most disgusting thing is that Sister Guo found that Mr. Yin was chatting naked with many people, and what she said was even more unsightly, making her feel as if she had encountered a pervert. She got sick for this a while and ran away from home immediately after she got better.
Mr. Yin directly denied Sister Guo’s accusation and told Sister Guo not to say anything, but he couldn’t say anything.
My sister Guo decided to separate from Mr. Yin and did not want to live with such an inappropriate man. Mr. Yin also agreed to this, but asked Mr. Guo to return to the gold jewelry he bought at that time.
Hearing these words made Sister Guo very upset. When she was sick, all the medical expenses were paid by herself, and he didn't pay a penny. However, now he actually wants those jewelry, so he immediately rejected his request and blocked him.
But Uncle Yin is not a person who suffers losses, so he found various ways to bother Sister Guo. In the end, Sister Guo was unbearable and agreed to return 5,000 yuan to solve the problem. Uncle Yin also knew that it was impossible to come back, so he agreed to the idea that he could get back Dian, and then went his separate ways, completely ending the dusk love that had hurt each other for about a year.
It is understandable that the elderly want to find a partner to relieve loneliness, but they must understand what they are doing in everything, because no matter the love at dusk or the love of young people, it is a relationship, and the relationship needs to be consistent and loyal to the other party at the same time, but it is obvious that Mr. Yin is constantly active in his heart and has no responsibility for husband and wife.
First of all, he just lived with Sister Guo and did not mention marriage. This also made the relationship between the two incorrect, and to put it even more unpleasantly. Aunt Guo finally became the target of Mr. Yin's venting, and after using it, he actually had to get back those jewelry. Mr. Yin was too much about this, and his approach was even more beastly.
Indeed, although husband and wife life is an indispensable part of relationship, it is not the most important part. In the process, we must also meet the principle of "mutual agreement, mutual understanding and comfort", which is more important than anything else.
It is obvious that Uncle Yin doesn't understand, and even puts a strong burden on Sister Guo, who is determined to live with him, and her body is damaged.
What is even more incomprehensible is that Mr. Yin has a fixed partner, but he still has ambiguous relationships with different opposite sexes on the Internet, and even breaks through the moral and legal bottom line to chat with people naked. Not only is Sister Guo unacceptable, but also as a man, I cannot understand. Is this a human being? More like a creature that exists for reproduction and stimulation.
The old saying goes: "Food, sex, nature", but this also requires desires at the human level. If even people and moral ethics are lost, then this kind of nature is really at the level of a beast. What you get is not happiness, but absurdity. It is correct for Sister Guo to leave this kind of person.
Whether it is a love at dusk or ordinary love, you must have a sense of sacredness to turn your heart to the bright moon. If you know that the other party is "showing the ditch", you can no longer persist, otherwise it will be a blasphemy to yourself and love.
The same is true for the elderly. They don’t care about their efforts in love, but should cherish and cherish them. After all, there are few opportunities for trial and error. Open your eyes and see your partner clearly and find someone who goes to old age. This is the happiness of life. Truth is far more important than money and handsomeness.
