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You, have you really fallen in love with someone from the bottom of your heart?
Maybe, many people think that they have truly fallen in love with someone from the bottom of their hearts, but when they look deeper, they will find that about half of these people have never really loved them!
Because, there are too many people who don’t understand what love is!
Some people regard touching as love, while others regard the joy of the first sight as love!
In fact, touching is just a minimum emotional transmission in interpersonal relationships, but the opposite sex attracts people to mistakenly think that it is love.
The joy at first sight is not enough to be loved, it is only forever to be tired of it!
About love, a cliché sentence is like this:
His true love is a relationship that goes to the two directions. Love is one person’s recognition of another.
However, do two people who don’t understand love get close to each other when they first meet, do they have a certain misunderstanding of the two-way rushing towards love?
In fact, there is a necessary premise for rushing and identifying love in both directions: with passionate impulse!
When you meet someone, you have never had such an impulse towards any opposite sex.
And, this passionate impulse is still there no matter how long you are together, that is "love".
love, there is never any reason to speak of!
It is "impulsive" to truly love someone!
Only when you really fall in love with someone will you have the following impulse:
First: The impulse to coexist with exclusiveness and giving
Some people say that love is a kind of fulfillment. In fact, it would not be the case!
The fulfillment of love is a "must" choice that is fruitless because of love and cannot be loved.
In fact, love is an impulse that coexists with exclusiveness and giving.
If you fall in love with someone, that person also happens to love you, then you will definitely take possession for this love. At the same time, we will give from the bottom of our hearts for this love.
True love, most of the efforts are altruistic behaviors. The responses requested by a small number are self-interest.
When two people who truly love each other meet each other, the exclusive desire will truly satisfy the rules of love - Exclusiveness !
In the relationship between men and women, third parties cannot tolerate. Only those who possess each other can be loyal and dedicated, and do not divide and share love.
Therefore, we often see some people, even if they live a poor life, they are still happy because they feel psychological balance and satisfaction in terms of exclusiveness and dedication.
Two people who truly love each other only care whether they are the only one in each other's heart, and whether the other person can really feel their efforts!
Love is an involuntary and dedication.
Second: The impulse to share and share
In real life, too many men and women are in the name of deep love, but never expose their true candor to each other.
Two people with their own scruples, the so-called love is nothing more than a seemingly crazy but clear combination.
People who are not in the same heart can never truly share and share even if they are combined. Therefore, when we are together in the name of love, we still cannot live in our ideal marriage and love relationship.
Two people who really love each other will definitely maintain the habit of sharing and sharing.
Sharing means sharing what you think and what you see in your heart; sharing is to put all your strength into understanding, distress and encouragement to the other party.
When two people lose their desire to share and share their burden, they may be separated long ago when they are together.
A person who truly falls in love with another person will inevitably put all his attention and energy into his lover. This kind of heartfelt behavior from the heart is the manifestation of truly falling in love with someone.
The people who truly love each other are together, even if they don’t say a word, they will express their tenderness in the blink of an eye.
The people who truly love each other feel happiness and luck even if they live in the cold kiln because they share the burden with each other.
Life is really hard, and it is really lucky to meet someone who can share and share with each other.
However, in real life, there are more people who don’t know how to love consider themselves more and one-way business relationships, so they are destined to have no longer the rest of their lives.
Third: Passionate impulse has always been in
There are many people who say that middle age is a high period of changes in relationships, because the relationship between two people is in a dull state, and even hormones cannot be emitted.
Therefore, people are willing to find a second spring.
Actually, that's not the case!
All marriage and love relationships that have experienced betrayal are not relationships that have gone for love.
Once upon a time, a person showed deep love, but later did you think the other party changed and the love changed? What a joke? If a person is willing to transfer love, there will never be any change of words!
However, when people who change their minds choose to combine, they think you are worth the most!
If you really fall in love with someone, there will be no "love" transfer! Moreover, when facing the loved one, the initial passion and impulse will always be there.
Even if someone is unwell, the two will negotiate to do conditioning. There is no one who really loves the people in front of you, but does things that change for your own needs.
. Don’t even say whether the other party can bear it, first of all, you can’t accept the first person you betray.
The passionate impulse will never disappear!
Even if an old couple who have been inseparable from the situation, they will miss each other because they are invisible, feel panic because of a frown, and become angry when they see the other person anxious!
Love someone, and your heart will be beating with that person's heart. Passion, every moment when each other's heartbeats, remains!
love, what is it?
love, I can’t say what I love you, but I just can’t do without you.
Love, I don’t know where you are, but it’s irreplaceable in my heart.
Love, it means that you suddenly don’t speak, and I feel full of panic.
Love means that as long as I see you smiling, I feel at ease.
Love is your taste, your preferences, your habits, everything good or bad is your... As long as you are here, my life will have meaning!
Love, when I meet you, I know what "the world is worth"!
Everyone has negative emotions. When you are willing to put negative emotions aside, you can not be bound by it. In the end, it depends on whether you are willing to do that!
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Topic discussion: How long do you think people who truly love each other will be disconnected at most? Leave what you want to say in the comment section below!
