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The beginning of a relationship always requires a person to play an active role, actively break the ice, actively approach, and use actions to make a good relationship possible.
Generally speaking, men are willing to play the active party in love. They are not as reserved and introverted as women. As long as they are moved by someone, they will take the initiative to attack, even if it may end up in a failure.
When pursuing you, men often act very attentively, care and protect you in all aspects, act as considerate as possible, and dare not neglect at all.
will send you messages every day, care about you very much, and will reply to your messages in seconds. Whenever you have time, it will surround you. As long as you need them, it will appear immediately.
When men pursue you, they are often the most enthusiastic, just like the sunshine in summer, warm and dazzling, everywhere.
However, such attentiveness often cannot be maintained for a long time. Some men will suddenly dissipate their enthusiasm after chasing you for a period of time and will no longer contact you actively.
Some women may have been secretly moved during this process, and some girls may enjoy the other person's attentiveness. Faced with his sudden neglect, no matter whether they fall in love or not, they will feel a little lost in their hearts, and they will also greatly reduce their impression of men, thinking that men are too unreliable.
In fact, when faced with this problem, we must treat it objectively. Generally speaking, men are enthusiastic and proactive in pursuing you at the beginning, but suddenly stop contacting you. There are only three reasons.
did not receive a response, and felt that it was too tired
The beginning of love only requires one party to actively release love. However, the progress of love still requires two people to respond to each other.
Miyazaki said: If you like someone, then you should take the initiative to take two more steps towards him. If he sees you coming over but has no intention of greeting him, then stop.
When you like someone, men often don’t mind walking towards her for the first 99 steps. If the other party is willing to respond, then they will naturally be willing to make greater efforts and integrate into this love wholeheartedly.
But if you still don’t get any response after taking 99 steps, then the last step will be left to your self-esteem.
A friend of the opposite sex once pursued a girl enthusiastically, but he was reluctant to leave every effort he made would be neglected and finally he stopped.
He sent her a message, either he was in a turmoil or he replied several days later, and the content of the reply was always a few words, and that perfunctory statement was obvious.
He asked her to meet her, and she always pushed her back and forth. She was busy today and had something to do tomorrow, and she would never see her.
He gave her all the gifts, but she never expressed anything, as if it was right.
did not take the initiative or refused, and just hung him like that. In the end, he was tired and could not chase him. Instead, the woman blamed him for being too unreliable.
If you don’t get a response, you should stop at the right time. It’s too tiring to chase someone, so it’s better to let go.
At the beginning of my heart, I found it was not suitable after a deep understanding
Heartbeat often starts easily in that second, just like the gorgeous fireworks in the sky, dazzling, but it easily dissipates.
Like a person, it is hard to explain. It may start with her appearance, it may be because she thinks she has a good personality, it may be just because two people can be together and they will get close.
However, love still requires two people to perceive and confirm whether they should continue to move forward after a long time.
Some people are at a loss at the beginning, and the deeper they get to know each other, the more they get, the more happy they find that they have a tacit understanding and comfortable relationship with each other, so they naturally come together.
. Some people may feel like it at first and want to get close to it. After a while of understanding, they find that it is very different from what they think they look like, and it is not what they want at all.
Most of the men's love for women begins with their appearance, and they can be flirted with if they think they are good-looking.
When we get along, we found that two people are not suitable in many places. Except for the other party, the other party is not the way they like, and at this time they will naturally take back their efforts and cut off contact.
was just a play, but let go after getting it
Men are the most enthusiastic when they can't chase someone. They have a strong desire to conquer. The more difficult it is to chase, the more they can't get it, the more they want to try it.
And if you really get it, you will feel a little bored at the moment you have it, your interest will disappear, and you will become cold.
After all, they don’t chase after it because they really like it, but because of the momentary freshness, or just want to play with it.
At the beginning, of course he had to pretend to be enthusiastic, like all men, chat with you, pick you up to and from get off work, and ask you to watch movies, without any abnormalities.
What he did was not out of sincerity, it was just to coax you to take the bait, melt your heart faster, and get you.
Once you really like him and act enthusiastically, your roles are interchanging, you start to take the initiative, and you are becoming more and more inseparable from him, and he will be close and distant, sometimes cold and sometimes hot.
At this time, you don’t have to doubt whether you have done something wrong. He just doesn’t like you, he just wants to play with it.
A man was very proactive in pursuing you at first, but later he suddenly didn't contact you. The reason behind it is thought-provoking.
Not all the sudden lack of contact is because the man is too scumbag, and there are other reasons.
may be because you are too difficult to flirt with and don’t give him any response. It may be because you find it is not suitable after getting along with each other. These two are understandable.
And the last point, women should be more careful and don’t be distracted by their sincerity.
