This is the 150th day of my continuous writing/200th day
Hello everyone, I am Da Mingzi.
People always say that excellence is a habit, but in fact excellence is a set of mental model .
Others are excellent because they have a very powerful mental model for themselves.
No matter if he makes judgments and choices, he can always find the best solution for himself.
The same thing is facing one thing, and what you think is likely to be different from others.
Because the mental patterns between us are different, the conclusions we naturally come to are also different.
is like working for the boss. You think the boss should do as much as you pay.
And some people think about how much ability I can improve through the work given by my boss, or what I have gained.
Of course, some people say that my work is just repeating operations, so how can I improve my ability?
This depends on the perspective of our view of the problem.
Teacher Zhou Ling said in "Cognitive Awakening":
things themselves are not important, we are just getting another kind of fun through it and doing this by the way.
For example, your boss often asks you to work overtime, and it is possible that the overtime pay is very small or no.
Then you must be reluctant in your heart, but this thing must be done.
If you always do your work with resentment, you will do your work in the end, but you will be angry and it will not be worth the loss.
Although this is all the pressure given to us by the outside world, how to do and think depends on our own way of thinking, that is, our mental model.
Li Xiaolai In "The Road to Wealth Freedom", Teacher Li mentioned the first personal business model -
is when we work for our boss, earn wages, get how much money, and do things.
But if we change the angle, when we work for our boss, we also think we are working for ourselves.
uses work to hone yourself and improve yourself, not just a job you have to do.
When we work, will we be less resentful even if we work overtime, and we will complete the work with quality and quantity.
So, when you make different choices with your own mental model, your mentality in doing things will be different.
and Zhouling teacher also mentioned in "Cognitive Awakening" that we can do things not only for ourselves, but also for the sake of playing.
does it for itself, to deal with external requirements and pressure, and to play, to deal with repetitive and boring things.
For example,
does
for yourself as mentioned above, work is not only for your boss, but also for yourself.
also writes articles, and we don’t have to write those hot events to cater to readers.
As long as the article you write is helpful to you and is valuable to some readers, it can solve the problem.
Then keep writing and keep improving your writing skills.
Make
For the sake of playing
As Teacher Zhou Ling said, when we read books, it is like talking to different experts.
Every once in a while, I think about which expert I want to talk to, and it will feel great, just like playing.
I go to make breakfast every day, and I can also treat it as a play.
Try this method to make a breakfast today, and learn another trick tomorrow to make another flavor of breakfast.
No matter how skill is, you can at least try a different style of breakfast, which always makes people feel expectant and fresh.
Summary
Some people may say that this is very similar to the spirit of Ah Q. Are we comforting ourselves?
People are originally a creature that will constantly explain themselves, and some things must be done, so why not make this thing more meaningful or interesting?
is meaningful and interesting, at least not that boring, and we can stick to it for a long time.
What do you think?
The full text is over, and it is another day of growth. I hope this article can also bring you some thoughts and help.
