In a relationship, there seems to be no three words that can make us act so crazy like "I love you". When you hear this, it is easy to believe its surface value.
It’s a pity that not everyone who says these words is honest when they say these words. Some people will even tell you that they love you, but just to be able to take advantage of you or abuse you.
The truth is that when it comes to expressing love, you can't always believe a man's words.
What does this mean when a man says he cares about you?
If you want to know if he wants to say he loves you or wants to avoid it, the only way you can know the answer with certainty is to ask him. But sometimes it’s easier said than done, so another useful guide is to observe his behavior.
The following 10 actions sometimes show that he really cares about you more than what he says.
1. How often will he change his behavior when you tell him what he does upset you.
A man who truly loves you will make you happy by his side at all costs.
If he hears you have any worries, a man who loves you will solve it. If he ignores it, he is basically saying that your happiness is not important enough to him and he will not change that behavior.
2. How much he promises to you.
A person who says "I love you" but does not promise is actually the one who truly loves you.
If he specifically asks you to date him formally and take action to prevent you from entering the single market, then he will definitely love you.
3. How fast does he answer the phone when you make a call?
Even if he says he loves you, a person who doesn't reply to text messages for days or hours because he is "too busy".
Think about it. When you fall in love with someone, you can't wait to hear from him, right? The same applies to men. Men make time for things they care about.
4. He helps you with housework frequency.
I firmly believe that a man who truly loves you will help you do more trivial things because he knows it will make you happy.
If he at least doesn't pick up the broom occasionally or wash dishes occasionally, he takes you for granted.
5. How often do you get intimately?
Although I know there are some people who are asexual , if they have a relationship with someone, most people need to have sex with their partner.
If he doesn't have sex with you regularly, or worse, if you have to ask him to have sex, he won't love you. On the other hand, if he can't take his hands away from you, he can say he might really love you.
6. How he hugs you.
One of the most common ways people express their love is by hugging and snuggling each other. It's an act of intimacy and is usually only left to the people we really care about.
This is especially true for men, who often have difficulty expressing their feelings in this way. The level of affection he feels about you physically, even without sexual intercourse, is a good illustration of how he feels about you.
7. How long will he tell you what he thinks.
A good way to measure how close a person feels you are to him is to see how much he reveals to you, or how much he says to you.
If you notice that he doesn't feel able to tell you his true opinion, this is not a good sign. However, if he is a constant gushing person, then there is a good chance that he really loves you.
8. How many times did he give you a gift just because he wanted to give it.
It is really rare for men to give gifts to girls in the later stages of love.
If a man still does this after you date for many years, yes, he does really love you.
9. If he stands up for your relationship with you.
A man who really cares about you will not sit idly by if he hears someone else saying bad things about you. Nor will he let a person do something that endangers your relationship.
If he refuses to establish healthy boundaries with those who hurt you, he will not love you enough and is not worth nostalgic about.
On the other hand, if you notice that he defends you when others say bad things, then he is a guardian and he loves you. It's that simple.
10. If he sticks with you when things are not going well.
You won't believe how many men are "Mr. Perfect" when things are good, and "Mr. Invisible" when things are bad.
If he is the kind of person who can share the joys and sorrows with you, then what you see is true love.
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