Focus on before marriage: the financial boundaries of boys
There is a very important thing to examine boys, which is the financial boundaries.
Many boys are a financial whole with their parents when they are unmarried, or they have no financial boundaries with their original family. They cannot distinguish between their parents’ money and their own money, nor do they want to distinguish them. What's more, they cannot distinguish between them from their brothers and sisters. The main manifestations are: parents, themselves, and brothers and sisters use each other's money, or buy things for each other, and there is no difference between borrowing and repaying them. Yours is mine, and mine is yours. This is reasonable when you are unmarried. After all, it has nothing to do with you when you are unmarried, but after getting married, it is a very serious problem.
So, when you are in love, if you want to be with him for a long time, you need to gradually implant the concept of financial boundaries in this regard, so that he realizes that after marriage, his wife and he are a financial subject, and need to build financial boundaries with his original family and rules for financial transactions. To say this, doing so is not unfilial, nor is it a discord between his family affection and his original family. On the contrary, this is true filial piety, which truly promotes his family affection and his original family.
Always remember that talking about money does not hurt feelings, and not being able to talk about money can hurt feelings. Everyone shares a set of financial transaction rules, without being wary of each other, without being wary of each other, without being resentful of "I suffer a loss, you take advantage", which can strengthen the family affection of the entire family.
On the contrary, if there is no clear set of financial rules, family members will be suspicious, guard against, or even quarrel, this is a great unfilial piety and greatly damage family affection.
Planning: Teng Ai Yi Sheng
Editing and typesetting: Teng Ai Yi Sheng
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