Secondly, if you are not guarding against others or trusting others too easily, why would a single mother become a single mother? Everything has cause and effect. The "fruit" of single mother is all due to her trust in others. After a hasty marriage, she even failed to enter the marriage hall, and turned herself from a romance to a single mother.
Single mothers are nothing more than these two forms: those who have a short marriage history and have children; those who are unmarried but have children. Some people say that losing a husband is also considered a single mother, which is a bit far-fetched. Those who lose a husband should not be called a single mother. She has a unique title, and everyone who knows it knows it, so I won’t talk about it here.
Back to the topic: What should I do if an unmarried man falls in love with a single mother?
This is not a small probability. Society is progressing so rapidly, and people have more and more social channels. Acquaintance is no longer limited to the lack of guesses. The width and length of acquaintance can even be without borders. Knowing each other can of course accelerate. As for the "fruit of love" after falling in love and falling in love, it is not a joke, but sometimes it may be due to an impulse after drinking. It is not a small probability that an unmarried man meets and falls in love with a single mother.
Then, when an unmarried man falls in love with a single mother, if he wants to write this love into a timeless love story, he must overcome at least three difficulties.
1. It doesn’t matter if you fall in love with a single mother, but first of all, you must consider how to convince your parents to accept this reality? does not mean that the concept of being a parent is outdated. If any parent is not alone, it will be difficult for anyone to accept that their son will find a single mother who is "delayed" to get married and start a family. In the eyes of any parent, their children are the best and best boy in the world. Do you let them accept that their children fall in love with someone with a "criminal record" in their relationship? Truthfully, this requires serious work.
2. How to convince yourself and accept the "restrained bottle"? Before you are not sure if you are not a single mother, think calmly about whether you are a single mother or love them to death. If you are not sure if you are a single mother for a while, it is also easy. Leave this single mother for a while and see if you are physically attached or you can’t help but miss this woman, including thinking of the single mother’s child, you will involuntarily smirk.
If you think of her, you feel "pain" in your heart and you will smile foolishly because of that "restrained bottle", then you can make up your mind to hand over yourself to the other party, and at the same time you can accept that single mother as your future bride.
3. How to make a single mother believe that you do not like her body, but love her person? Single mothers who have suffered from love are particularly concerned about this, that is, she can't figure out whether the person who says she loves her is just greedy for her beauty and body. But it is sometimes difficult to distinguish between "scumbags" and "good men". For example, when it comes to expressing himself as "whether he loves is her person" or "her body", the scumbag will also restrain himself for a while and act affectionately.
There is a trick here, and there is no scheming at all. If you do it well, unmarried men can completely win the heart of this single mother once and for all. But there is a prerequisite: If you truly love this single mother, it doesn’t matter; but if you just treat the single mother as a game object, you can’t do it.
Can you treat that child as your own birth for a long time and never tire of it? It’s not just a few perfunctory times to accompany him to pick him up and drop him off to school, but it’s like this every day, day after day. Can you do it?
So, don’t ask what to do if you fall in love with a single mother? Instead, consider the above three points first. Whether you can do it yourself or not, that is a good story of love on earth; if you can’t do it, don’t provoke single mothers, remember--there are gods three feet above your head.
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