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After retirement, we should put our inner needs first, and live as much as we are comfortable and comfortable.
Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, nor do you have to have too frequent contacts with too many people. Make your life quieter and your circle cleaner, and your sense of happiness will be stronger.
No matter how good the relationship was, if there are three people who can be seen, don’t see each other, the price is too high.
Some people are only suitable for staying in the past, and some people are destined to be distracted in time. Instead of spending too much time and energy to maintain it, it is better to break off diplomatic relations as soon as possible, so that it is good for each other.
1: Don’t see anyone who is always hidden in your heart and has not let go. Let time bury your old love
Some people have loved someone, and no matter whether they are together in the end or not, they will remember each other for the rest of their lives. Even though I have retired and gradually enter my old age, I still feel thrilled when I think of the love I used to be.
But you have to understand that some people are only suitable to stay in the past and in their hearts.
If you are unwilling to give up and forcefully meet her, it will only add to each other's worries. If you are not careful, it will also affect the stability of your existing family. Even if you are single at this time, you may disturb the other person because you are not sure whether you still have your place in her heart.
Blindly meeting your former lover will destroy the good memories of the past and put each other in an embarrassing situation.
If you really have fate, God will arrange for you to meet; if you are destined to be fate but not part, why not let it go?
2: Don’t meet people with different circles and disagreements, so as not to cause trouble for themselves. There are some relationships that cannot be forced. If you are destined to be a member of the same place, it will be useless no matter how you force it. Instead of tortureing each other with inappropriate people, it is better to let go of it and let each other be more decent.
People with different circles and different values can never become true friends, because there is not even the most basic common language between you.
For example, one person thinks that after retirement, one should be more self-reliant and live a good life, while the other person thinks that since he is old, he should submit to his old age and relying on his children in everything is enough. After all, this is their obligation.
The former puts self-needing needs and feelings first, while the latter has no self at all. Two types of people like
cannot become friends because they have different world outlooks, outlooks on life and values. As the saying goes, if you don’t have a single sentence, you will never move forward side by side.
Never argue with people of different levels, it makes no sense.
If you have people around you who are different from your circle, don’t have too many contacts, you won’t be able to get along.
3: Either look down on you or flatter you from snobbish, you should not see it. It is easy to make trouble for yourself. It is actually not just after retirement. Every age group may encounter snobbish. They may be your relatives, your friends, or your colleagues, etc. People like
have no standards for dealing with people, nor do they have their own principles and bottom lines for being a human being.
What kind of people they interact with depends on the other party's achievements and status. If you do well, go to approach it deliberately and flatter it carefully in order to get some benefits; if you do not do well, avoid it and will not waste a minute or a second of time.
Their exquisite selfishness is actually nothing more than selfishness.
If you get along with such people, you will only be calculated in the end because they are not sincere to you, but they can only use it.
Since you have retired, there are many people and many interpersonal relationships, there is no need to care. If you stay away from such a snobbish eye, your life will be more peaceful and relaxed.
at the end:
Retirement means that life has entered a new stage. Naturally, we must use a new mentality and a new face to live our life after retirement.
No matter how soft-hearted or kind-hearted you were in the past, you should be more cruel and affectionate when you meet the above three types of people. Only by keeping a distance from them, drawing a clear line, and turning against each other when it is time to turn against each other can you live a better life in the future.
Otherwise, the closer you get, the easier it is to be calculated and deceived.
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