Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
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Should the couple implement the AA system?
Generally speaking, most men support the implementation of the AA system between husband and wife, and women will definitely not actively propose the AA system. The reason is very simple. After entering marriage, women will face the problem of pregnancy and having children. After the child is born, there will be problems of nurturing, raising and education.
Ten months of pregnancy and breastfeeding require women to do their own things. The hard work they put into during this period cannot be measured by money, and men cannot empathize with it.
During the relationship, men and women implement the AA system. This behavior is worth advocating. At this stage, the two people cannot predict the future emotional direction. Dividing clear boundaries in money is also to prevent problems before they happen. He is soft-hearted in eating people, short in getting along with people, and evenly sharing the cost of dating. When he breaks up in the future, he will also avoid many troubles of quarrel.
Marriage means that men and women will spend the rest of their lives together in the future. If marriage wants long-term happiness, it also requires the joint efforts of both men and women. The first thing is to be together. Any man who proposes AA system after marriage is basically ulterior motives and only wants to enjoy rights and interests, but does not want to take responsibility.
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"Resigned as soon as you get pregnant. It's so pretentious. My mother said that when they were young and pregnant, they were about to give birth, and they had to go to the field to do heavy work. The children they gave birth to are healthy and lively. You can't learn from them? You quit without saying hello. Now, there's one missing at home. All the large income and pressure have been transferred to me alone, which is unfair to me. Let’s implement the AA system!”
Cai Ying never expected that her husband would say such hurtful words. She was more than three months pregnant and was in poor health. After hearing what her husband said, she became even more angry and her blood pressure rose.
Regarding the resignation during pregnancy, Cai Ying discussed with her husband a month ago, but her husband firmly opposed it, regardless of Cai Ying's health, and even more so on the doctor's instructions. Cai Ying could only take action first and then report, and decisively submitted the resignation report of .
Who knew that after her husband learned about this, he complained to Cai Ying in all kinds of ways and completely forgot that she was a weak and sickly pregnant woman. At this moment, Cai Ying realized that she had seen the wrong person. She regretted not listening to her parents' advice and insisted on marrying the Phoenix man in front of her.
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5 years ago, in order to enter the marriage hall with her husband, Cai Ying secretly took the household registration book from her parents, and took action first and then reported. At that time, my father was so angry that he wanted to break off relations with her, so my mother was directly admitted to the hospital. However, in the end, the parents compromised, and Cai Ying ushered in a happy moment of self-righteousness as she wished.
Cai Ying is an urban girl. Her husband comes from a remote mountain village. The original families of the two are quite mismatched. The man's family couldn't afford a house in the city, and his parents couldn't bear to see his daughter renting a house to get married, so they took out all their savings and gave the woman a dowry.
Two years after marriage, Cai Ying and her husband's life was quite stable. My husband's monthly salary is sent to his parents in his hometown, and all the family expenses are required to be borne by Cai Ying.
If it were another woman, she would have been dissatisfied with her husband's behavior, but Cai Ying's monthly salary was three times higher than her husband. She could afford the family expenses and looked down on her husband's salary. She was open-minded and didn't care about the living expenses her husband gave to her in-laws. The stable state of
was broken by the uninvited person of his parents-in-law. Three years ago, my parents-in-law moved to the city in the name of elderly care. The two generations have completely different living habits and the conflicts have increased sharply. At first, Cai Ying gave in to her parents-in-law for her husband's sake. Unexpectedly, her parents-in-law thought that Cai Ying was easy to bully and became more and more embarrassed by her daughter-in-law.
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Cai Ying, who never enters the kitchen, has improved her cooking skills under the pressure of her in-laws, and each person can make a sumptuous meal. The cooking and mopping of the floor also fell on Cai Ying. In three years, Cai Ying was tamed by her mother-in-law and became the ideal daughter-in-law.
Cai Ying has always been a compromise party. She tacitly agreed to what her husband's family did to her. Until she got pregnant, her physical condition was not very good. The doctor also suggested that she quit her job and take care of her baby. This incident was opposed by her husband and mother-in-law. Perhaps it was because of her mother's nature that awakened her, and Cai Ying began to resist.
"Just as you said, AA system, I agree!" Cai Ying didn't want to argue with her husband, so she nodded directly and agreed to the AA system requirements. After hearing Cai Ying's words, her husband and parents-in-law showed a satisfied smile of the success of their scheme. To celebrate, the three of them changed their clothes and shoes and decided to go out for a meal.
Cai Ying was alone in the room. The more she thought about it, the more angry she became. She cried and called her mother, but her mother directly gave her the idea of "changing the door lock". Cai Ying called the master and immediately changed the door lock. She packed her husband and in-laws' luggage and threw it at the door.
The three men in the family who had eaten and drunk enough were all confused when they saw the messy items piled up at the door. Cai Ying in the room sent her husband a "divorce" text message according to her mother's suggestion, and ignored the family again.
However, a week passed, and her husband refused to agree to the divorce. During this period, he kept asking Cai Ying for forgiveness. All kinds of apology and love words were staged one after another. Cai Ying's determination to divorce was gradually shaken. She still felt a lot of reluctance to her husband, but the mother on the side forced her to divorce, one on one side was her lover and the other on the other. She really didn't know what to do.
As mentioned at the beginning of the article, any man who proposes AA system after marriage is ill-hearted and plots against women, let alone men who propose AA system after a woman becomes pregnant. When you meet such a man, the most important thing you should do is to stop the loss in time and take a taxi.
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If you are Cai Ying, will you agree to your husband's AA system after resigning and becoming pregnant?
