After doing too much psychological counseling, you will notice a phenomenon. Some helpers will look at one of their own problems as super important. Then their energy gets stuck here, they are in pain, they will imagine. If this problem is solved, how great it would be!
However, when this problem was solved, they found that they could only feel better. Because they found that there are actually many different problems in life. In the past, they focused too much on this problem and really felt that this problem was like the happiness code of life. If it was not solved, it would be super painful, and it would seem that if it was solved, it would be smooth. But if you really solve it, you will find that this is actually just a problem in your life. If such a logical method develops more seriously, I will call it scapegoat logic. In other words, a problem in life has become one of the biggest problems in other problems in one's life. In this way, you will feel that the reason why I am in pain is because this problem exists. So how can we resolve this problem and resolve such logic?
The answer is not to focus too much on one issue, do not magnify your own pain in a certain aspect, just treat this issue as a specific problem in your life. Other propositions in life still need to be continued to be dealt with and resolved.
