When I think about spending the rest of my life with you, I am full of expectations for the rest of my life
-from Flowers good -
Generally speaking, recovery is a big project. When operating this major project, you often need to be careful and careful. Because once you accidentally touch a certain lightning point, the final result must be failure.
So when it comes to regaining this, you must maintain a mentality of not doing it, rather than doing it wrong. Recovery is like a domino, one step is one step wrong.
Here, there are some lightning points that students often step on.
keep accusing
"I am so good to you, how can you treat me like this?" "I have been with you so hard and hard, what else do you want me?"
When they always like to talk about the past, they can only touch themselves.
used to be nice to him, so he wanted to get back with you? You need to understand: whoever gives or who is good to you is often not a scarce resource. Because he can also find someone who is willing to treat him well, and anyone can treat him like this, it’s not that you can’t do it.
Secondly, if you always emphasize that you are particularly good to him, he will even think that you are morally kidnapped him in .
He often only remembers that you are selfish, as if you have not given your own efforts in this relationship. You have never said that he is good to you, but just emphasize your own efforts.
So, he will become even more disgusted with you.
begged
"Please, don't leave me." "Without you, I don't know what to do next!" "I'll kneel down for you, okay? Don't leave me, please!"
always keeps begging, hoping to use your pity to win the heartache of others. In the end, either being blocked or deleted friends.
Even if he finally gets back with you, you won’t be together for long.
When you are always at a low level of your relationship, you will have no value. A worthless person often won’t have much charm, and he won’t fall in love with you again, and he will only feel that you are pitifully humble.
threatened
"If you don't get back together, I will definitely make you pay the price, you are a dissatisfied man!" "Are you someone outside?"
When your attitude towards reconciliation becomes extreme, the other party's perception of you will be extremely poor.
You have to think about it. His attitude towards you does not like it, and he even has a lot of bad emotions. Otherwise, why would he not agree to get back with you?
Are you worried that he will fall in love with a new person, don’t he worry that you will give up this relationship completely?
You threaten someone who has negative emotions about yourself, and he will even directly choose to break with you.
So, you might as well not do some things. If you do them, you will not even have the final decency, let alone talk about reconciliation.
