No matter whether you admit it or not, at this moment, in the environment where we are growing up, women are still the weak, not physically weak, but social and self-identity weak. For example, Mr. Leader, everyone’s first reaction is men, and housework cleaning is naturally women.
includes our fathers, principles and parental authority, and they are all played by male elders, fathers, or uncles. Women take care of laundry and cleaning, three meals a day, and they are used to it and consciously enter such roles. For example, when I was a child, I visited relatives during the Chinese New Year. At least, even women who are guests in our place had to go to the kitchen to help the kitchen and then eat the dishes after serving the plate. Later, when I read the news, I found that there were similarities in different regions.
As we grow older, we slowly wake up and will no longer feel that as a woman, we cannot choose, and as a woman, we cannot fight. Many people think that it’s good to return to their families, don’t bother with them, and they will panic themselves. In fact, there is no need. Everyone has their own path. No matter what gender is on this path, don’t set up psychological barriers for yourself.
For example, today's picture was watched online yesterday. I know it was taken from "The Beauty of Law". Although I haven't watched this drama carefully, I just got to know it a little. I like this character. She looks delicate on the outside, but has a strong heart. She wears pink clothes and shines in a group of black suits. It's a bit cool~ She makes people feel that even if she encounters unhappiness, she will be very embarrassed, but when she cries hard, she still needs to adjust and continue to move forward.
Don’t let people and things that are not worth it or ruined life, you can cry and be confused for a short time, but you must always remember to be firm and firm in your choices, not a little bit, but very, very what you want.
No one can defeat and give up except yourself. What kind of workplace PUA, what kind of popular news speech, what's the point of pointing from so-called relatives and friends, if you don't take it seriously, it's really not the same thing.
