More and more people do not want to get married, whether they are young or older, whether they are unmarried or divorced, and they have a clear understanding of their marriage and give up after seeing through it.
People before began to talk about marriage in their teens, and they were middle-aged and had a lot of children and grandchildren. However, with the change of people's concepts, more and more people no longer have hope for marriage, and more people choose to stay away from marriage and be alone.
Marriage has gradually lost its charm.
Unmarried men and women watch marriage
Excellent leftover men and women don’t want to get married because they have high requirements and cannot find the partner they want around them. Of course, behind their lack of marriage, there are material factors, changes in concepts, and higher-level interpretations of life and the future.
This interpretation is not only unique to leftover men and women, but can also be seen in more and more young people, such as younger college students. The love trend in colleges and universities is getting worse and worse, and young men and women are becoming lazy. They would rather play games, rather be lonely and be alone than spend time in love.
In their concept, a person who is happy alone is more free and more relaxed, does not need to be responsible, does not need to make sacrifices, and lives pure and self-centered, and is very comfortable.
More and more people think marriage is a trouble.
When it comes to love and marriage, people nowadays are more about fulfilling a responsibility, rather than yearning from the heart. Therefore, when they have the conditions and opportunities to give up, most of them will choose to give up.
This is also the most fundamental reason why more and more people are afraid and unmarried.
Divorce men and women see marriage
People before, after divorce, will still have enthusiasm to look for the next marriage and look forward to the companionship in life. People nowadays are divorced and just want to enjoy a person's future. They don't want to touch each other again if they are in love or remarriage.
More divorced men and women believe that a person's life is more free, whether in life style or in thought, living alone is more comfortable than being accommodated and tortured by each other in marriage.
Divorce is a relief for many divorced men and women, so they will show off their freedom after the divorce and show off their happiness. This is not pretentious, but I really like this feeling.
If you don’t want to remarry when you get old, it’s understandable. After all, there’s not much time left and your children are old, so there’s no need to bother. However, young divorced men and women don’t want to remarry, so you can see that marriage has indeed lost its original charm.
It is no longer a safe haven, no longer a reliance for the rest of its life.
Leftover men and women watch marriage
Leftover women don’t want to get married is a problem that everyone knows long ago, which also makes many bachelors dissatisfied and think that they should give in marriage, rather than jumping out of marriage.
But in addition to the bachelor who is abandoned by reality, there are many men who are very good at conditions and do not want to get married or are not in a hurry to get married. They are not without material things, they also have the conditions and opportunities to get married, but they pursue living in the present and do not desire marriage.
The following is the attitude of netizens towards marriage. Their attitude is what people are today about marriage.
From the comments of these netizens, we can see that marriage is no longer what people pursue and desire. Marriage has also lost its original charm.
If high-quality leftover women do not want to get married because of the unfairness of marriage to women, then the negative attitude of men towards marriage can best reflect the attitude of leftover men and women towards marriage, and is also the most real.
If you don’t get married, you will be lonely, but if you get married, you will be equally lonely
People’s lives are destined to be lonely. If you come alone and walk alone, no matter who you are, you will never be able to accompany anyone for the rest of your life.
Many people say that it’s so lonely that one person is not married, and there is not even a person to talk to. But anyone who has experienced marriage knows that loneliness in marriage is more terrifying than loneliness alone.
This may also be the reason why people would rather live alone and live alone after seeing through marriage. Since they all have to be lonely, there is no need to bear the loneliness brought by others.
A person's world is quiet, and a person's world is also wonderful. When you are strong enough in your heart, rich enough in spirit, and self-sufficiency enough in material, then a person's Qinghua is indeed much more comfortable and free than the mutual conciliation between two people.
In life, only food cannot be let down, but in fact, freedom cannot be let down. This should be the reason why people choose to stay away after seeing through marriage. In addition to the disappearance of the charm of marriage itself, more people pursue personal spiritual stability and prosperity, as well as their desire and expectation for freedom.
