What is like and what is love?
Everyone has different answers to this question.
But essentially, liking someone is like loving flowers, and they will pick them at will, regardless of how long the flower can live after picking it.
But love a flower, I am reluctant to pick it, and will take good care of it, so that this flower will always be with me.
Like this thing and can tell different people at the same time; but love is unique and exclusive.
In intimate relationships, girls’ love and love are different.
When a girl likes you, she will not care about your feelings, but will satisfy her short-term desires and curiosity through you;
For girls who like you, you are the "stepping stone" on her road to success.
When she falls in love with you, she is willing to give you a lot, including scarce resources, emotional value, etc.
What is the difference between girls’ love and love?
If feelings can also be divided into levels, then the love of girls for boys will gradually increase.
When a girl loves you only 1 point:
She will not send you a message on her own initiative, but after seeing your updates in the circle of friends, she will interact with you as soon as possible.
You can detect her kindness, but you may not necessarily detect her favor. The girl’s feelings for you at this moment are not considered to be liked by her, but she just has a good impression of her.
Girls love you for three points:
She will take the initiative to send you a message and wait for your message in front of the phone; if you do not respond to her in time, she will also be lost, but she will not ask you what you are doing, nor will she ask the bottom line.
The girls at this moment like you, but they can still keep restrained.
Girls love you for 5 minutes:
She will care about you and always find various opportunities to chat with you and talk about various topics.
She acted a little relaxed in front of you, and you can also detect her relaxation and joy.
She will be jealous when you see that you have an ambiguous relationship with other opposite sex;
If you don’t reply to the message in time, she will be angry;
She began to ask indirectly what kind of girl you like and whether you have a good impression of her.
Girls love you for 7 minutes:
At this moment, she will express her feelings to you without hesitation.
She will give you, instead of accepting your love for granted;
She will understand you, feel sorry for you, understand you, instead of using you and squeezing you.
She will always pay attention to your mood, your life, your thoughts; give you support, praise and respect.
Girls love you 10 minutes:
She began to consider the future with you, consider the life after you two will save you money, and will work hard with you to get married earlier.
The girl at this moment, even she herself, has become more and more attached to you, more and more dependent on you, and more and more and more lost herself.
There is a clear difference between the love of girls and the love of boys. For example:
The love of girls is gradually increasing; as time goes by, she will love you more and more, trust you, and rely on you.
And boys' love is gradually decreasing; the longer they are together, the more likely they will lose freshness to girls.
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Girls like it is heartbeat, love is heartache
Girls who like you, when they look at you, there is light in their eyes; even in the crowd, she can find you at a glance.
She is very moved by you and is attracted by some of your advantages.
She longs to get close to you, understand you, and have more contact with you. Feelings like
are like love; because liking must be the product of heartbeat.
She will keep a feeling of being moved by you, only paying attention to your strengths, and still cannot tolerate your weaknesses.
And girls who love you will feel sorry for you.
I feel sorry for you to spend money, I feel sorry for your work, I feel sorry for your pressure.
Transition from liking to love is the change of girls' mentality.
Like you, you will ask for it; love you, you will feel sorry for you.
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Girls’ love is to use it, love is to fulfill it
If a girl just likes you, then she will use her own advantages and use some means to obtain the value that is beneficial to her.
material value, emotional value, etc.
The reason why she likes you is with you is because she is close to you because she is "interest first" rather than "emotion first".
His feelings for you are now trying her best to get more benefits from you.
If she does not fall in love with you in this process, then when she squeezes out the value in you, it will be when she leaves you.
What does a girl fall in love with you look like? It is fulfillment.
In order to make you successful, take your career to a higher level, and make your life more fulfilling, she is willing to support you without reservation and give for you.
There is a consulting case:
Girl gave up her job in her own institution for her boyfriend's career and started a business with her boyfriend.
She could have lived a stable, chic and happy life.
But she didn't regret her decision at all. She started a business with her boyfriend for 3 years and finally achieved some small results.
has failed and lost hundreds of thousands of dollars in these three years, but they have all survived it.
Now the relationship between them is not only higher, but also has a little more tacit understanding.
Girls' love is actually very simple.
When she falls in love with you, she is willing to give you all the bread in her hand and will tell you, "I have eaten it, so I'm not hungry." What about the girls who like you?
She will find a way to cheat some of the bread in your hand.
Like is white, love is red;
Like is heart-warming, love is heart-wrenching;
Like is demanding, love is dedication and sacrifice;
Like is presumptuous, love is restraint;
Like is okay with you or not, love is not without you.
Today’s topic:
What do you think are the differences between liking and love?
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