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Narrator: Ms. Wang
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Above said that because it has caught up with the good times, the demand for making clothing has been increasing. At this time, my sister-in-law thought of finding someone to help.
We thought of our niece Daqin who was idle in our hometown. After the arrival of
, the big piano really relieved us a lot of trouble, and let her run errands between me and my sister-in-law, deliver goods, and pick up goods.
Daqin This child is a big speaker and is used to rural life. As far as I can see, I look like I have never seen the world, and I am talking nonsense. If it weren't for the shortage of people, I wouldn't want her to stay at home for a minute. Every time I see me, I scream and shout all over the world, saying how many clothes we have made today and how many orders we have received, I am afraid others don’t know.
The speaker has no intention, the listener has his intention.
has come more times, and he has met his husband more times. In secret, he always asks Daqin indirectly if it is very profitable to do this? Daqin told him all the truth without any hesitation.
I don’t have time to deal with him. After all, there are so many orders every day and so tightly urging him. I can’t be busy every day, so I don’t have the time to observe his little thoughts.
Until one day, my sister-in-law found me. I thought it might be asking me to study clothing, so I went there. As soon as I entered the door, I saw my sister-in-law's angry look on her face.
My brother pulled me aside and whispered, "Is Xiao Cao (my husband) not good to you? Why did you say a lot of things when you came to our house today, and finally said that he needed some money to do business. Ask us if we have it? Your sister-in-law thought you were not doing well, so she asked you to ask?"
At that time, I was very puzzled. Although we are not rich, he has a fixed job, I have a small income, my child is still young, and there is no big expense, and I haven't heard of what business he wants to do?
returned home with a question. At this time, he was drinking a plate of peanuts at home, looking in a good mood?
I walked up to him and asked him, "Why do you want money to my sister-in-law's house? Our family is not short of money?"
He threw the wine glass and said disdainfully: "Why do you want money? Don't you know? This is your compensation to me? You used to be sorry for me, shouldn't you compensate me?"
It turns out that he has not forgotten that scar over the years. He didn't mention it before because he was not full and his work was unstable. Now he saw that we made some money and he was jealous. He was taking advantage of the problem!
I thought about it over and over again in order to calm down and for my child who had not grown up. After all, divorce was a very embarrassing thing at that time.
I chose to endure. I said to him, "Since we are married, we should trust each other unconditionally. I cannot prove my innocence, but I can give you all the money I have earned recently, but please don't bother my brother and sister-in-law anymore."
He actually shamelessly took my money and agreed.
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The leaves of the sand fruit trees in the courtyard have become yellow, green and yellow. We have been in peace for a few years.
In a blink of an eye, the summer of this year came.
As time goes by, people's vision has become very advanced. The past form of tailor-made custom clothing has gradually failed to keep up with the trend, and the disadvantages are also reflected. The styles are mostly old-fashioned. Most fashionable young people do not like this style of clothes, and the people with the strongest purchasing ability are also this type of people.
Because Harbin has distinct climate and a huge demand for clothes has attracted a large number of people with insightful Wenzhou people. Although they are talking, their business minds are simply incomparable. They do business with one family and one family. They have a small ready-to-wear production factory at home. The clothes they process are not only of a wide variety, but also can imitate the popular styles in Hong Kong and Taiwan, and the prices are also cheap. Gradually, my clothing store can no longer be opened.What should I do if I delete
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Since he went to work in the valve factory, he has not only come into contact with more people, but also broadened his horizons.
One day, he came back and said to me, "Let's open a book booth." Most of the book booths before
were opened in golden locations in a type of street, which could sell books, newspapers, magazines, etc. People can buy newspapers and magazines of the day as soon as they go to work in the morning. It is very convenient. Although the scale is very small, it is still OK to support their families.
The child is in junior high school. Every day, I finish my daily life and hurry to go to the book wholesale market in Nanji Street, Harbin to approve books. Those books are very heavy. I need to tie them up locally, pack them in a bag, and then pull them to the book booth with a car. After I use a car, I arrange them neatly to facilitate readers to screen. I will read books and have a long experience. No matter how hard life is, I can survive for my daughter.
Every day is busy and fulfilling.
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Until one day, a woman in her 30s came to me and said she wanted me to talk to you.
We made an appointment with a cafe. This is the first time I have been to such a luxurious place since I was so old. The lights in the house were dim and I could hardly see the figures clearly when I entered. I still gritted my teeth and walked in. I was either busy with my children or making money. How could I have time to come to such a place?
Just as she sat down, the woman introduced herself and said, "My name is Xiaoxia. I have known Brother Cao for several years. Today I came to me to let me know that she loves Brother Cao very much and wants to marry Brother Cao. She is not young anymore and can't wait for too long. Let me consider what to do in the future?" What did she say behind
? I didn't hear a word clearly, and I didn't know how to get home in a daze.
In fact, I know that Xiao Cao always has thorns in his heart. The reason why we are tacit is to let our children go. Since I only know how to make money, I didn’t notice how long it took for us to be together and how long it took him to pay his family.
Maybe it is because he has not let go of the past? Maybe he has lost feelings for me long ago? Maybe, there is another reason I don’t know?
But, was it him who asked Xiaoxia to appear today, or was it Xiaoxia's own idea?
I don’t want to guess because I have a splitting headache at this time!
I, such a person who thinks he is very strong, the embankment in his heart instantly collapsed. I thought that as long as I devoted myself to this family, I thought that I would help him move his work from a collective to a state-owned unit, I thought that I would not have to worry about everything in my family, and that I would awaken his conscience and a little reward for me and my daughter?
But, what about reality? What he let me see was Xiaoxia's appearance, his ruthless betrayal!
I was defeated and lay in bed for three days and three nights. He just came back a few times occasionally, picked up a few pieces of clothes and left again.
At this moment, I finally understood that what he cares about is not our marriage, but himself.
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Jedi Counterattack
It's time to draw your sword.
thought for three days and three nights, and finally figured it out. In fact, in this world, those who can bring you kindness and disasters are the ones who come to save you. I found my good friend Sister Li, told her about my situation, and asked her if there was a good way to deal with this matter.
She developed a perfect Jedi counterattack plan for me. In less than three years, Xiaoxia cried and begged me to let Xiao Cao go and stop pestering me and Xiao Cao's unaffected marriage, but I did not agree.
has been married for so many years, who knows whether there is any relationship? The only thing I care about now is the growth of my daughter. For the others, who can do what if I don’t want to let go? I can’t let my daughter grow up in a broken family since she was a child!
action has begun.
Xiao Cao and I were in a showdown.
According to Sister Li’s plan
First of all, it is a balance of economics
Although I didn’t have a job before, I have always been very capable and I am not short of money, so I have never asked for my husband’s salary.
The idea given by Sister Li is:
The child is getting older and older, Shuting is not doing well, and the child needs to pay various fees to go to school. I can't bear it myself. I ask him to hand over the salary card to me and I can give him some pocket money every month. Here, Sister Li can help me say hello to the leaders of his unit and ask the accountant of their unit to transfer his salary directly to me.
The premise is: he can continue to interact with the mistress, but it cannot affect his family, and he cannot let her come to me again.
He saw that I was so reasonable. The red flag could fly at home and the colorful flags could not fall outside. Why not do it?
He agreed.
Secondly, let him participate more in the growth of his children
When he came back, I was not as busy as before and made money. I chatted with him and talked about his children's learning situation, and then asked him to attend his parents' meeting. Because my daughter is very good at studying and ranks among the top in the class, every time she goes to the parent meeting, he feels very good, and he goes home more and more times in the future.
Finally, I showed my love with him when I had time
for two or three years. Unexpectedly, Xiaoxia couldn't hold on anymore. She thought that after the showdown with me, I would make trouble and make trouble, and would divorce him soon.
However, not only did I not get divorced, I even got along better with him. This made Xiaoxia unable to see hope. After all, she is not young anymore. She is all in her 30s. How can she not be in a hurry? The most important thing is that I heard that she had had several babies to wait for Xiao Cao.
Slowly, she no longer had the patience she used to be, and she was no longer as reasonable and dependent as before.
Their conflicts are increasing, and soon Xiaoxia proposed to break up.
Although Xiao Cao was reluctant to leave, he thought about it again and again. He chose to let go and return to his family.
I won the battle to defend my marriage.
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In fact, how to say it, a person like me who has experienced the ups and downs of life has actually been very indifferent to gains and losses. I don’t want to let go of marriage.
Everything is for the children, my daughter. My daughter has been very outstanding since she was a child. When I see her, I see hope. All my efforts are for my daughter to live a better life. It may also be because of the influence of my childhood living environment and my obsession with my family. It may also be because I was like a spinning top that refused to give up every beam of glamour in my life. No matter what, whether you have love or not, you have to walk the road you choose while kneeling down.
The story is finished.
We are impressed by the strong attitude towards life that the heroine has. Her indomitable character in life is something that we young generations do not have.
The tempering of life did not defeat her, and the betrayal of her husband did not destroy her, because her heart was always born to the sun.
"The best way for a woman to live is to learn to live alone, no matter whether there is someone around her. No matter what age she is, she must keep her inner richness and strength. At any time, don't rely too much on anyone. You must have the ability and courage to leave as soon as you say. If someone loves you, cherish it. If no one loves you, love yourself well, and live a beautiful life alone."
encourages you.
