Mr. Qian is 63 years old and is a retired civil servant with a retirement salary of 10,000+ and a deposit of 2 million yuan. He is widowed. Now, he wants to find a wife. His remarriage conditions are very simple. First of all, he doesn't get a marriage certificate and takes care of his 25-year-old disabled son with him. The woman's food, drink and clothing are all included, and he will give him another 3,000 yuan in pocket money every month. Why is no one willing?
After he and his wife got married, their daughter was married, but their son was polio and disabled, and limped, and had to rely on others to take care of him in life, which also left Mr. Jin a lifetime regret. In the past, when my wife was alive, she took care of her a lot. Two years ago, her wife died of illness, so she left her disabled son to him, so he always wanted to find a wife to take care of her son together.
So I started asking my friend to introduce his wife to him. There were more than a dozen blind dates. At the beginning, the woman heard that his conditions were good, so she promised him to look at them everywhere. Unexpectedly, after they learned about the situation, they were unwilling to continue to have a deeper relationship with him.
After many failures in blind dates, Mr. Qian felt very depressed and could not figure it out. I took care of food and accommodation, and gave her 3,000 yuan of pocket money every month. I just took care of my son's laundry and cooking, and I was not tired at all. There was a washing machine for washing clothes and liquefied gas for cooking. Why didn't I want to do it with such good conditions?
Conclusion:
In fact, whether it is a woman who wants to remarry or live with you, the purpose is very simple, which is to find a shoulder she wants to rely on. In this case, no woman will be willing to take care of you. It’s okay to take care of you, but you also have to take care of your disabled son. Don’t say that you don’t give 3,000 yuan in pocket money every month, and you can’t get it if you hire a nanny without 1,000 yuan per month.
So, naturally no one is willing to live with you or remarry. Because you are not looking for someone to accompany you, but looking for a low-priced nanny who can take care of you and your son. You said, who would be willing to be such a thankless person?
