Under the influence of the epidemic, everyone is forced to stop and have time to think about the meaning of life. As the French novelist Maupassant said: Life cannot be as good as you imagined, but it will not be as bad as you imagined. It is necessary to manage your mood well. I believe that management should be started from the following points to nourish your mood.
First, we must overcome the mentality of luck by using the overall plan from a long-term perspective. When the epidemic comes, life presses the pause button. Where are you, what are you doing, and who are you with? Use these three points to alert yourself, do what you should do, and be with the people you should be with. If you are not satisfied with one thing, be wary of yourself. Your itinerary will be announced in the next second, and all the darkness will be illuminated by the light! Einstein : There is no such thing as luck, the most accidental accident seems to be inevitable.
Second, we should arouse hope for life with a positive and sunny mentality. The world kissed me with pain and asked me to repay him with songs. Still facing the sea, spring is warm and flowers blooming, a positive attitude, even if the epidemic is rampant, the world is full of devastation, pain is constant, and life is difficult, "Life abuses me thousands of times, I treat life like my first love", continue to sing and make rapid progress, live passionately, make joy in suffering, and still smile. Nicezsche : Every day that never dances is a life-and-despair.
Third, we must use our innate compassion and empathy ability. The epidemic has been delayed at present. The students of the Ivory Tower have lost many activities that will make their youth remember. They wanted to have a passionate love affair became a bubble; many brides wear wedding dresses but cannot receive blessings from relatives and friends; many filial piety cannot achieve the final comfort, etc., resulting in too much uncertainty and too much loss. The ceremony on site was gone, and we empathized with these regrets that passed by with our innate compassion empathized with , and gloated, did not spread rumors, maintained a compassion, and went with empathy. Tagor : Since we are alive, we must create the actual environment we are in and be patient in everything.
The fourth is to tolerate others with open-mindedness and relief. The epidemic is reducing expectations for each other. Everyone is working hard to live, and it is not easy for anyone. If you are more open-minded and tolerant, and understand the difficulty of your own life, you will understand the same difficulties as others. " understands the world and has a broad mind, and has a broad vision when you see all human feelings." Hugo said: "The widest thing in the world is the ocean, the wider than the ocean is the sky, and the wider than the sky is the human heart." If a person wants to obtain true happiness and lifelong happiness, he should have an open-minded mind and a positive and correct inclusive mindset. Tolerance can enable people to win friendship, enhance unity, and make people trust each other. Tolerance is the lubricant of interpersonal relationships and a booster of success.
If you are silent, then keep a cup of tea and remind yourself to slow down and enjoy life. Isn’t this a benefit brought by the epidemic? "Misfortune is the basis of good fortune, and good fortune is the basis of bad fortune." The epidemic is a disaster, but Laozi tells us the principle of misfortune and good fortune. Think about the good, the flower of happiness in life will surely bloom not far away.