To be honest, what would you think when you know that a girl has a blind date more than 200 times a year and is constantly receiving gifts and does not spend money on eating and watching movies? My first thought is that boys are so bad nowadays! To be precise, it should be that the boys who are going on blind dates are really bad now.
The reason why I think this way is because I have seen too much and also because I have learned too much. I have many female friends around me, some are classmates, some are colleagues, and some are friends. I often eat and chat with them. The one they are most interested in, talk about, and look down on the most is blind dates.
I used to have no feelings about the word blind date, and I thought blind dates were just for getting married. But what I didn’t expect was that blind dates have nothing to do with marriage in the eyes of girls! There are many reasons for their blind dates, some say they are to deal with the urge to get married, some say they are to heal, and some say they are to pass the time. No one said it was for marriage!
When I heard some of them say they were dealing with the urge to get married, I understand this very well. Although I think it is very wrong for their family to urge their family to get married, I understand their family’s ideas. To put it nicely, it is to think about the children, and to put it badly, it is to complete the task. After all, it is shameful for parents to not get married! But what I don’t understand is, is it because of parents’ urging them to get married and deceive their blind dates? Regarding this question, a girl's answer was: This is not called deception, but just happened to catch up.
After talking about blind dates to urge marriage, and then talk about blind dates to heal the wounds. I understand blind dates for healing, but it is nothing more than the fact that my previous relationship did not end well. Take a colleague for example. She said that she was very sad after breaking up with her ex-boyfriend. The two were originally going to get married, but the requirements her family had made were too high. Later, a few days after the breakup, my family asked someone to introduce her to her. She said she was in a very bad mood at that time, and the boy who went on a blind date with her was also very concerned. She took her to eat, drink and have fun all day, and sometimes she even took her to travel around the mountains and rivers. Seeing that she was in a better and better mood, the boy thought there was a chance, so he told her about getting married, but she was stunned when she heard about getting married. Later, in order to break up with that boy, she tried her best to do anything, and once even called her ex-boyfriend. In the end, the boy quits and she gets married to her ex-boyfriend!
As for saying that blind dates are to pass the time, I don’t understand this very much. Because I think there are many ways to pass the time, why do you have to choose a blind date? Later I found out that passing the time was just a saying, but the truth was that someone treats to dinner! Just like the girl I mentioned at the beginning, she has a blind date of more than 200 times a year, and she has been collecting gifts and does not spend money on eating and watching movies. I also asked her at the time, what does it mean if I talked more than 200 times? How could so many boys who went on blind dates look for you? She said, you won’t understand this, let alone more than 200 times, if I want to, it’s okay to change one a day. I said then they are willing to pay for you? She asked something and I understood, and she said, do you think I am anxious to get married or are they anxious to get married?
To be honest, it means that I understand them well, which makes me think that blind dates are either deceiving or routines. It is precisely because of what they said that I really think the boys who went on blind dates with them are so bad! What I said is, why choose a blind date? Do you think you can find someone in the blind date team who can live a marriage life, but do you know what the person who went on a blind date thinks? You think that as long as you treat each other sincerely, you can get the other person’s true feelings, but these are just what you think. Do you know what the other party is like? I used to hear a blind date that the woman had a partner and the two had a good relationship, but because the woman's parents disagreed, the woman was forced to choose a blind date. Although the woman chose to go on a blind date, she did not break up with her partner. In this case, do you know the blind date partner? In other words, can a blind date like this succeed? In the end, she failed to meet several people, and her family had no choice but to agree to marry her partner.
When I heard this, my thoughts at that time were, first, I felt that there were few things like having a partner and having blind dates, and second, I felt that it was good for lovers to finally get married. But those sisters who have dated each other said that there are too many things like having a partner and having blind dates, but you think there are very few things! Another female colleague once said this, and she said that in fact, girls who go on blind dates basically have partners, and some even live with partners all the time. If you don’t believe it, look at it. When the blind date partner wants to send the girl home, how do you think the girl’s reaction!
So after understanding these, I think the current blind date is no longer the pure blind date in the past. In the past, blind dates were just for getting married, and I wanted to find someone who lived a down-to-earth life. I didn’t care what material the other party had, as long as I could live a good life. But what about the blind dates now? I don’t know if I want to get married, and I don’t know if I can live a life! Anyway, boys who go on blind dates all want to find a young and beautiful girl who goes on blind dates all want to find someone with a house, a car and a savings. Do you think this is getting married? Is this kind of marriage to live a life? On the other hand, is it necessary for young and beautiful girls to go on blind dates? Is it necessary for boys who have a house, a car and a deposit to go on a blind date? Furthermore, if the person who went on a blind date with you was a young and beautiful person, or someone with a house, a car and a savings, would you be upset?
A friend said that people who are truly outstanding in this society do not need to go on blind dates because there is no need for that. If a girl wants to find a so-called successful person in the blind date team, she might eventually find that person is a liar. If a boy wants to find a young and beautiful person in the blind date team, he might lose both his life and money in the end. Actually, I also think that excellent people don’t know how to go on blind dates because there is no need!
